Best Position to make it easier

[HappySmiles]

Is there a position that makes it easier when you bottom. Ive tried to bottom before and lets just say that its never gotten very far. I dont think I should be a bottom because well I dont like pain ,and get really paranoid that its going to hurt that I say "stop" I hear getting fd while laying on your stomach makes it really painful and so on but I simply dont know. I cant say that what Ive tried hurt because well it never went in lol

 

[BearMagus]

The best way to is squat on that cock. You can take it at your own pace and control the penetration. Doggy style and lying on your stomach is pretty painful. Another good position is to lie on your back and hang your legs over your top's shoulders. With a push or pull of your legs, you can control the penetration. A colon is only so deep so trying to man up and take a dig too big for your bum is stupid.

The more you bottom, the more relaxed you get and the better it feels.

 

[Seasoned]

I agree with BearMagus. Sit on it, but have the top play with your hole and lots of foreplay to get you hot.

 

[12fear99]

Great advise. I like to be on my side with my leg lifted up. Not painful at all and feels so good. But still take it slowly.

 

[shyboysf]

Yeah, sit on it. That's always good. But I disagree with BearMagus about lying on your stomach -- that's one of the easiest, least painful positions I've ever tried. Try it, you might like it. Happy Bottoming!

 

[theplayerking]

Try it on your side (in the fetal position). It's a little harder for the top (he has to be big and really hard) but it's easier on the bottom.

 

[NewStart]

Lying on my stomach is probably the easiest one. Squatting down never really worked for me, although the first time i opened up enough to get a proper ass pounding, i started by squatting down and that helped me open up. After 10 minutes of that, we moved on to doggy style and finished up. Ahh, nice night that was.

 

[CoolguyAT]

I to am learning how to bottom since i'm dating a strict top. I found that sitting makes things easier for me. Try sitting on him first to get loosened up.

For me the following positions work best - sitting, being on my back and with my legs over his shoulders, on the side. Laying on my stomach and doggy style tend to hurt the most (and happen to be the positions my top likes the best...go figure). I've been told to concentrate on relaxing the muscles around your rectum. I have bought a dildo and try to find time at least once a week (if not more) to sit on it which is helping the relaxation.

 

[SFMusic]

If you want to bottom without any pain then use lots of lube AND learn how to loosen/relax the muscles of your asshole. How to do that? It's really very easy. As the top is pressing his cock head up against your asshole, you should simultaneously "push down" on the muscles of your asshole (as if you were taking a shit). This will make the muscles of the asshole relax and loosen allowing the tops cock to enter you painlessly. This technique will work no matter what position the bottom is in.

The first few times may be a little painful because you have to time your "pushing down" with the moment that the tops cock head is entering your ass. But if you have used enough lube and practice this coordination you should be fine. AND YES, practice makes perfect

 

[g0yman51]

dogging or best squatting on the hard penis

 

[palemale]

I've posted on this before. In my experience, nothing is better preparation to bottom than a top who loves to rim and does a good job. The first time I bottomed, the guy had a 9" dick, but loved to rim, and I took him without too much discomfort. I've also bottomed for guys with a 7" dick who didn't rim and I felt more discomfort than with a guy with a 9" dick. It seems to me the guys with really big dicks know that they can hurt the bottom, so they take more care when fucking. As far as position, rear entry while laying on one's side is probably the easiest way to take a guy. I hooked up with an old buddy a few weeks back who moved to the opposite coast years ago, so we get together very infrequently. We both like intense foreplay, kissing, making out, oral, and he loves to rim. I had only bottomed once during the pandemic, but when we got together, the fucking was amazing and by the time he penetrated me, I was both incredibly horny and turned on, but my bottom was relaxed and I took his 9" dick with ease. He also used plenty of lube.

 

[KaraBulut]

Well... this thread is from 11 years ago. let's hope that OP has tried every possible position and has mastered the art of taking it... from any position.

 

[smoothmotion]

The best positions for YOU will b on all 4s doggy style for maximum fucking. Another position is shower sex. I give a large bottle of Vaseline to all my bottoms to coat the inside of the ass. Then I come busting through jack hammer style and that usually will give you what u're seeking for. I've done this the last 25 years and this will lay your out a couple of days but u will recover. U will b in utter ecstasy and remember this treatment for a life time.

 

[darian]

It can also help to loosen up with increasingly bigger dildos first, to reduce pain, than going for the full size cock first go.