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I want to discuss a very special offer from a friend. We had sex this new year's eve while we were both complete drunk and my girlfriend was at vacation at home. Today we "talked" on Facebook about that night and he offered me a friendship with benefits. Just fun, just sex. It sounds like a dream but I have to think carefuly about this. First, because of my girlfriend, second because of my position in civil society... I'm not sure, if we can manage to handle this as secret as it need to be, especially because I have to think of different causes to drive to him, because he dont live in my town.... just say what you're thinking...
 
Don't cheat on your girlfriend. [-X



But I'm available. Tell him to call me. :lol:
 
I want to discuss a very special offer from a friend. We had sex this new year's eve while we were both complete drunk and my girlfriend was at vacation at home. Today we "talked" on Facebook about that night and he offered me a friendship with benefits. Just fun, just sex. It sounds like a dream but I have to think carefuly about this. First, because of my girlfriend, second because of my position in civil society... I'm not sure, if we can manage to handle this as secret as it need to be, especially because I have to think of different causes to drive to him, because he dont live in my town.... just say what you're thinking...

What did you guys do ????? Ha
 
How would you feel if she had a special friend on the side. Just fun. Just sex? I'm sure you wouldn't mind right?

I loathe cheaters. Having been cheated on and lied to I can tell you it's one of the worst feelings in the world. If you care for her youl'll re think your plan. Although the fact that you've already cheated and are planning on ways to do it again tells me her feelings don't really matter to you. Ugh.

Steven
 
I agree with spanishguy. You should discuss this with your girlfriend and tell her what is going on. If she accepts it cool and if she doesn't then you have to decide what to do next. Communication is key and if you do this and try to hide it from her it will not work for long and on top of adjusting to your boyfriend your girlfriend will feel betrayed, rightfully so, for being lied to.
 
Well an out of towner is the good part lol for your civil duties that is.

Otherwise, why not take him up on it from time to time. If you don't, you might mess around with someone who you don't know as well and that could make things complicated.

Another thing and really the right thing to do is, dont cheat on the gf ^^. Pick one. :)
 
Be true to yourself. If what you want it a fun time, no shame, and Great Sex .. be HONEST ... at least to yourself and do what makes you feel good.
Would you GF understand ??? Yes .. No .. Maybe ... well take whatever chance you can or want.

My thought ... go have fun ... be careful and make sure the two worlds don't collide
 
If your worried he cant keep his mouth shut and it could ruin your public image if he didn't? Politely bow out and move on. Its not worth the risk if it'll ruin your ability to earn a living.
 
If you are not having an honest relationship, you're not having a relationship.
 
Well that reminds me of my bi exes... The thing is that they were honest enough to tell me they were bi and I always said that as a man I can't offer them what a girl could so I was fine with as long as it was a NSA relationship. And I still think the same way but that mean that for me you should talk about it with your girlfriend... When I was with my girl friend she knew I like boys before we hung out together but she never accepted me going with anyother human being so I never did... All that to say that fidelity is something you decide as a couple and not on your side... You can think that you're not cheating whereas she would think another way...
 
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