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Any advice for giving anal?
Alex Rose

Alex Rose

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I have more experience with bottoming, very lil topping. I was trying to top but my problem was as I'm trying to insert my cock in I start to lose my erection while spreading his cheeks and get in his tight ass. I tried doggy, missionary, cowboy position. I would start to rim him deep, really get in there, making him moan, turned me on. As well as fingering him getting him hot. I would quickly try to get my cock in his asshole but I start to get soft fast so frustrating. He doesn't have much trouble inserting his cock into me. Maybe cause I have more experience than him, I'm his first. Please, any tips?
 
I'd say there could be quite a few things. Maybe there's something that puts you off? A smell or a part of his body that you keep focusing on? Or maybe it's your psychological. You're thinking too much on failing rather then focusing on what your body is feeling? Also consider that some (i'd say most) man like to be teased in the ass and even penetrated while they're topping. Maybe that could be you.
Pay attention to the signs of your body. Get to know yourself and what makes you tick.
 
MaxBlack said:
I'd say there could be quite a few things. Maybe there's something that puts you off? A smell or a part of his body that you keep focusing on? Or maybe it's your psychological. You're thinking too much on failing rather then focusing on what your body is feeling? Also consider that some (i'd say most) man like to be teased in the ass and even penetrated while they're topping. Maybe that could be you.
Pay attention to the signs of your body. Get to know yourself and what makes you tick.
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I was probably putting a lot of pressure on myself since I never did this and we only chatted about it. We shower and clean each other before and after. Like you said I am one of those guys I've fantasized of being in a 3some while topping & bottoming simultaneously. That probably help keep me hard!!!
Thanks Max!
 
Alex Rose said:
I would quickly try to get my cock in his asshole but I start to get soft fast so frustrating. He doesn't have much trouble inserting his cock into me. Maybe cause I have more experience than him, I'm his first. Please, any tips?
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Focus on whatever it is that arouses you about him. Be patient with yourself. Imagine how good it's going to feel deep inside him. And, use lots of lube!
 
Alex Rose said:
I have more experience with bottoming, very lil topping. I was trying to top but my problem was as I'm trying to insert my cock in I start to lose my erection while spreading his cheeks and get in his tight ass. I tried doggy, missionary, cowboy position. I would start to rim him deep, really get in there, making him moan, turned me on. As well as fingering him getting him hot. I would quickly try to get my cock in his asshole but I start to get soft fast so frustrating. He doesn't have much trouble inserting his cock into me. Maybe cause I have more experience than him, I'm his first. Please, any tips?
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Hello Alex, I'm versatile myself but maybe you should use a vibrator to stimulate yourself while or before penetrating your partner or you guys should 69 or something to get you there...
 
I get like that sometimes its annoying. I been with guys that would constantly change positions and i end up losing my hard on. We would have a good momentum going on and then they want to change positions and then again and bam my hard on goes.

Do you masturbate and watch porn a lot as well? I remember reading how that could affect sex and staying hard. When i had a regular sex partner i would masturbate way less and was able to be horny and hard for the guy i was topping.
 
USEDCAR said:
I get like that sometimes its annoying. I been with guys that would constantly change positions and i end up losing my hard on. We would have a good momentum going on and then they want to change positions and then again and bam my hard on goes.

Do you masturbate and watch porn a lot as well? I remember reading how that could affect sex and staying hard. When i had a regular sex partner i would masturbate way less and was able to be horny and hard for the guy i was topping.
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Yes, before we met I watched a lot of porn and would get off to that or with others online. I mentioned to him saying that's probably why one of the reasons I couldn't have a orgasm the first time together.
Lately since I been seeing him I rarely get off by myself and would be through messaging him.
 
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