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Anyone on the dl from gf or wife?
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I know many people are open about it but some are not. How do you get away with and how long have you done it?
 
i've never told my wife about my sexual needs in this regard. I haven't done anything with a guy but cannot wait for the right opportunity. and knowing me it wont be a simple blow job. I want a gangbang where I end up being used, pissed on, cummed on, fisted, just straight up abused and humiliated. something about a hard cock inside me pissing makes me instantly hard. Trouble is finding the right guys...
 
Hey what's up? I'm new here. But my wife knows I have been attracted to guys but thinks the only thing I've done is make out with a boy in high school. But I've actually met up with 2 guys since we've been married. One was just oral and a one time thing the other was...more and we've only hooked up once but keep in contact. It's been about 3 years. I always use separate emails and only give my number to the guy when we're about to meet
 
Anyone with a spouse that actually loves them and/or pays attention does not get away with it without their spouses knowledge.
They may not say anything, they may be in denial, but they know.

If you can't trust your spouse, why the hell are you with them to begin with?
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I'm married and I used to hook up with guys when I was single. I don't now, even though I'm highly tempted. It's just funny that i have read all of the immoral things posted all over the place including in the fetish section and the only thing I have see people have a problem with is married bi looking for a lay. If its not affecting you leave it alone. Maybe someone cheated on you and that's fine for you to feel that way. But these guys are not cheating on you and don't care for your guilt trip. No ones asking you. These grown adults know exactly what they are doing and don't need anyone to tell them otherwise.

Can we please just start a discussion judgement free? It just looks like this last comment above mine scared everyone off. There are a lot of us married bi that look forward to these exact topics. If you don't like this topic, move on to another thread. I'm sure there are other immoral things you can pass judgement on.

I hope this continues with this topic.
 
It is very rude to pass judgment on people..

Shaming people for expressing themselves in any sort of way is hateful, hopefully this topic doesn't die, I think it would be a great discussion area for guys who just need to put that feeling out there so they don't feel like they're alone.
 
For me it's more about how if she found out it would terminate our marriage. I love my life with her, I love her more than you might understand, my marriage, my children, everything. It's not about betraying them, it's about filling up a need on my end that she cannot fill. It's not about her, it's about me. Sometimes you need to be selfish. Not saying I would do it every single time, but if it's something I can do and be ok without doing for many months or years, than I see that as a healthier option than bottling it up.
 
It's against my best judgment but something about seducing a gay/bi married guy, that's married to a woman, very hot!

It's hot to fantasize about, but I wouldn't do it for real.
 
bobafatt said:
For me it's more about how if she found out it would terminate our marriage. I love my life with her, I love her more than you might understand, my marriage, my children, everything. It's not about betraying them, it's about filling up a need on my end that she cannot fill. It's not about her, it's about me. Sometimes you need to be selfish. Not saying I would do it every single time, but if it's something I can do and be ok without doing for many months or years, than I see that as a healthier option than bottling it up.
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bobafatt,

We don't live that far apart! Glad there is someone close in the southbay I thought I was the only one here hahaha :)
 
I was. Then my girlfriend went on my facebook while I was asleep and found a conversation between me and another guy discussing what we wanted to do to one another. We don't mention it much. I prefer not to talk about my sexuality openly.

The most I've ever did with a guy was get a blowjob from one twice and with the same guy give him a hand job. Wish I could do more, but I am in a relationship and haven't flirted with any guys or talked about sex with anyone since. Only a few people know about my sexuality which would be my girlfriend, guy I messed with a little, and two other bisexual guys who just want to have sex with me in a no strings attached type of thing. Do you guys consider it cheating to have sex with a guy if you're in a relationship with a girl?
 
^^ to answer your question, yes I think it's cheating. if you're in a committed relationship stepping out on that person without their knowledge or permission is cheating. How would you feel if you found out your gf is seeing someone else? would you feel that you were cheated on? I was cheated on and I can't begin to tell you what a horrible, gut wrenching feeling it was when I found out. He was seeing men and women. I was devastated. it didn't matter which gender he was with, it still hurt just as much.

Steven
 
If my wife was having sex with another girl and I knew I wouldn't consider it cheating. If she knew I gave a guy a BJ, I don't consider it cheating.

There are certain satisfactions that you cannot have from your spouse that a same sex person can do. I have done the FFM thing and love watching her get pleased by the two of us, and how much she loved another woman. Its just not the same as if she had sex with another man.
 
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