Beauty & the Beast...Is it Possible?

[yuty]

Not the LITERAL beast. But can a gorgeous, A&F Adonis ever truely fall in love with an average joe or someone who's not exactly handsome? In my experience, I always see beautiful people with beautiful people and ugly people with ugly people. I have an open mind but I truely believe in "beauty ranks" A's hook up A's, maybe a few B's, C's if they're desperate, D's if they're REALLY drunk, and F's if they're either gold-diggers or a corpse bride of a necrophile. Everyone more less stays within their grade level. Some can break the barriers, but they're few.

I know it's not all about looks but it's essential for the first stage of love. Namely LUST. If you look like the bastard child of Kenny Rogers and Rosie O' Donnell than lust ain't gonna work in your favor.

I REALLY hope I'm wrong. Please tell me I'm wrong. With proof please. Namely pics. Heteros don't count. Women will marry anyone with pechant for commitment. Can a Ryan Carnes ever truely fall in love with a Urkel? Or is all just a fairytale?

 

[RationalLunacy]

Nobody's ugly after 2:00 AM.

 

[belamy]

Don´t be so cruel, Ryan Carnes is not that ugly

 

[Soilwork]

you've heard of Sonny and Cher, right?

 

[belamy]

^ Cher and Sonny? Beauty and the Beast? Hello!

 

[yuty]

you've heard of Sonny and Cher, right?

Cher's a woman. (Kinda..I sometimes wonder...) I said no heteros....only gay guys. I've seen beautiful women marry ugly little dwarfs. They're a special, compassionate bunch. Gay men on the other hand....please, please let me be wrong.

 

[belamy]

Cher's a woman. (Kinda..I sometimes wonder...)

That was my point

 

[Soilwork]

I've actually seen plenty of couples that kinda confused me... but hey.. love is blind.

 

[Dodger712]

No babe, you aren't wrong. The ONLY consulation prize is knowing that todays trade are tomorrows trolls. We all turned our noses up when we were 18, even if we looked like the "bastard child of Kenny Rodgers and Rosie O'Donnell" when we were 18. Gay men concentrait on the physical attraction. We need to not write people off so quick because they don't look like Jake Gyllenhaal or Matt Damon. I have met PLENTY of people who are "A"s for looks and have D-grade personalities. I have also met lots of men who were one might consider C grade who turned out to be really A's in disguise once I got to know them. Just remember "A thing of beauty is a joy till sunrise. It's the daylight you gotta look out for!!"

 

[Rockercub]

How about Tom Ford and Richard Buckley? I think Tom's hot, but Richard not so much so. Of course, they've been together forever, so I don't know what they looked like when they met.

 

[b_o_n_n_i_e]

you are wrong!

well, sometimes you are, i mean. i have seen a lot of average joes [some are even fat ones] hooking up with handsome guys. beauty and the beast - is it possible? yeah it is. just keep an open mind, too.

 

[c0n0rm]

People sometimes said that's what it was between me and my ex, although I didn't have a problem with it. There were some parts of him I found physically attractive, but mainly just his face. My real attraction to him was with the chemistry we had and the way we were with each other. His physical side wasn't all that great. Unfortuntely the chemistry died and the personality fell to the same standard as his body.

 

[Bearbottom]

A's only score A's, sometimes a B

B's only score B's, sometimes a C or sometimes an A

C's are a wild card, at that stage you have to invent a gimmick for attention( I should know, I think I'm a C---at least a C+). I scored a B+, used to be tough keeping him around, but now we are too old to care much.

D's, well um there is somebody for everybody.

F, hopefully the D rule applies.

 

[Corny]

i've often had something for guys were others said "what? he's ugly" yes i sure think it is possible. for me it's all about charisma
hm but on the other my last longterm bf was someone where everybody was envious for

 

[gefsmith]

You wanna see something spooky re Beauty and the Beast?

Check this site out:Beauty with Beasts (it's a free gallery)

But seriously check out the guy on the top of the page. How much do they pay these guys to get slobbered on by that man....

Ho Hum it would seem that money does conquer all

G

 

[dorkchain]

It sure is good to know that the sterotype of gay men being only about the looks and sex isn't true and our relationships are based on meaningful issues, compatibility and true emotions.


Way to go guys!

 

[davy]

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F, hopefully the D rule applies.

yes, it does... without them D's, I'de never get a date.

 

[NightRaider]

It sure is good to know that the sterotype of gay men being only about the looks and sex isn't true and our relationships are based on meaningful issues, compatibility and true emotions.

This is something I think we all like to believe in and I think for the most part it is true. Even though over the years I have found tremendous fault with mankind I still have faith in Love and it's power.

 

[dorkchain]

This is something I think we all like to believe in and I think for the most part it is true. Even though over the years I have found tremendous fault with mankind I still have faith in Love and it's power.

Its true...its gotta be. Love has got to be somewhat blind to physical appearance. I am not nieve enough to think looks play no part, but what we are talking here is nothing more then those type of guys who have a flashy bauble to parade around in order to fill their narcissistic need for attention.

 

[blueto21]

Well, for me I consider myself to be an attractive perosn and many people tell me I am. I would say I am a B. My current bf is a A. He is cute and has a nice swimmers build. I would date someone who is a C or even D. I think personality is way more important to me than looks. How does he treat me? Does he value our relationship? Does he genuine has a desire to please me? I ask myself these questions when in a relationship. This how I look at it, looks will only last a season but someone's personality and heart will last a lifetime. If the guy is at least average looking and he is willing to treat me like a KING, then I would definitely give him a shot.