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Buddy Admitted He is Curious When Wasted
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I am a bi/bi-curious male and I have a buddy who is 10 years younger then I, (we work a part time job together) He messed up at work and I had to take care of something for him. When he text me a few nights later he said " if I give you a hj (hand job) will you not be mad. of course I took this as a joke. I replied well if you were serious maybe but it's a joke so no. Well after a few texts he kept saying I'm serious in so many words. I said ok but no backing out, and he said "down". then we went back and forth like when and where kind of stuff. So I asked again so you are down and he said super. I asked what does that mean and he replied "really down", " let's do this" I asked for real? he said for real. SO now I am thinking holy shit, this might happen.... I asked so are you bi or curious he said curious. I asked what he was doing and he said just chillin. I asked want to just do this now? and he said let's do this....and told me to come to his place. Said I had to shower and will come over and again asked you sure? and he said "down" grab beer too. So I grabbed a quick shower and headed out. Could not believe this might happen. So half way there he kinda freaks and says wow not sure I'm serious, to which I said ok we can just drink. Long story short he pulls the plug saying he's at his place then he left. I just said no worries and went home. He text me later that night/morning and said whoa the shit he smoked was strong. Said he was talking with this girl. I told him I was jerking off at home and said Skype me if you want to see what I was doing. He kept saying he was trying but couldn't get it to work. I left it alone. The next day he text me sorry bro i was super wasted. I said not a problem and joked about it. I don't worry it was just me he let the secret out to, he said lol fuck. I have asked him a week later if he cared he told me he was curious and he said not at all. So here is my question, been joking about it but also trying to get it started. Sometimes he still says he is down, others he avoids it. I do not want to push it of course but what do you think I can do to get him over the reservations.
 
Not going to lose my job, that's not a worry. He get flirtatious when drinking lol
 
Sounds like he's the sort to set you up to make the first move. That way if he wants to he can and always have the excuse you lead him on. If he doesn't then he didn't do anything it was all you. I know I used to use the same MO. Personally I wouldn't go through all that falderal for a hand job.

I dealt with guys like this for years when I was in the denial phase and chasing straight guys nonstop. I told people the same stuff that the two of you are. I was straight. I was bi. I was curious. I was confused. I was drunk or buzzed. Which was true back then, most of the time. O and the I was joking, worked too. Then there is the.....I just wanted to see what you'd do or the ever useful....somebody told me something about you. I'd say just about anything to get into the guy's pants.

I got into a lot of guy's pants too. Drugs and booze are very useful tools to ameliorate resistance. I was on a mission. I will say I lost a lot of friends. I lost a lot of respect. I lost a few jobs because of my shenanigans. I got a terrible reputation. I had to move to another city at one point things got so bad.

I'm sure you can find better uses for your time.
 
Alcohol lowers inhibition!

Here's the plan:
1. Invite him over to chill with you.
2. Give him a few drinks to loosen up his attitude.
3. Give him a few more drinks to lose his shirt.
4. Feed him a few more drinks to get him drunk.
5. Then paint his face and body with magic markers ..|

painted_while_asleep.jpg

:lol:
 
Durango95 said:
Sounds like he's the sort to set you up to make the first move. That way if he wants to he can and always have the excuse you lead him on. If he doesn't then he didn't do anything it was all you. I know I used to use the same MO. Personally I wouldn't go through all that falderal for a hand job.

I dealt with guys like this for years when I was in the denial phase and chasing straight guys nonstop. I told people the same stuff that the two of you are. I was straight. I was bi. I was curious. I was confused. I was drunk or buzzed. Which was true back then, most of the time. O and the I was joking, worked too. Then there is the.....I just wanted to see what you'd do or the ever useful....somebody told me something about you. I'd say just about anything to get into the guy's pants.

I got into a lot of guy's pants too. Drugs and booze are very useful tools to ameliorate resistance. I was on a mission. I will say I lost a lot of friends. I lost a lot of respect. I lost a few jobs because of my shenanigans. I got a terrible reputation. I had to move to another city at one point things got so bad.

I'm sure you can find better uses for your time.
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I hear you on that. I do not want to ruin stuff that's why I am just playing it by ear. Just wonder why would he say all that be totally into it one night and admit sober he is curious. I get the whole reserved/shy thing but he knows I am totally discrete and safe. We have known each other for a few years and have a good relationship. Not going to go too far.
 
HunterM said:
Alcohol lowers inhibition!

Here's the plan:
1. Invite him over to chill with you.
2. Give him a few drinks to loosen up his attitude.
3. Give him a few more drinks to lose his shirt.
4. Feed him a few more drinks to get him drunk.
5. Then paint his face and body with magic markers ..|

painted_while_asleep.jpg

:lol:
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HAHAHAHA sounds like a plan. Wouldn't do the whole get him drunk to jerk him off deal. Too much of a perv move.
 
Reserved and shy is only a part of it. He's scared. Cut the dude a break. As a bisexual, I can tell you honestly that admitting you're curious about giving/receiving a handjob or blowjob from/with another guy and actually doing it are two different things. This is why he only says he's "down" with it when he's drunk or high.

And, don't be surprised if once he actually does the deed he runs and hides for a while. That shit is normal too.
 
Well one thing is for certain the Ice is BROKEN. From here on out let him lead the way. The next time he invites you over decline and invite him over to your place. See where things go if he arrives.

I only Fucked around with one Guy on the job a long time ago. The 2 of us found out about each other outside of work. We NEVER would have crossed that line on the job. We were VERY professional. It remained between the 2 of us and we both still talked to each other @ work. It wasnt a relationship or even 2 buds hanging out. We were Fuck Buddies.
 
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