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I think its good news. As long as they don't do anymore long jumps in time, forward and especially backwards.
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I thought that was too obvious, so obvious that I figured they'd try something else... but they didn't. They could've done better with a 5 year jump. There were hardly any huge changes.Well, it looks like I was right all along about Dave being the father and husband of the child and mother killed in the car accident Susan and Mike were in. I knew it.
Yeah, that's why I said I wasn't sure whether DH being ahead of its time was good or not. Good because it might brainwash some people into being more accepting, bad because it's cringe-worthy for me to watch how unrealistic it is. How can they bring up kids to the family as something totally minor and hardly have anyone surprised/curious/against it? I don't really believe in what they're trying to portray on a personal level, either. I guess I should save that for another thread though.I see where you're coming from. I just think we need something ahead of its time when it comes to gay issues. When I was younger (and even sometimes now) I would get very depressed seeing how gay relationships were portrayed on TV. It was always either a bunch of promiscuous men who seemed to have little love for anyone but themselves and hot pieces of ass, or gay men in long-term relationships that remained so stagnant and static that they seemed like roommates rather than lovers. I thought that's how all gay men were and I didn't want to turn out like that at all. I'd have been happy as hell to see something like Andrew's relationship on TV when I was younger. Something to remind me that not all gay are the same and have the same destiny of being single or in shaky relationships that could crumble at any time with nothing to lose.
Is anyone else uncomfortable watching Andrew's gay relationship? Bob and Lee are somewhat fine (mostly Bob) but all this talk about wedding and kids in the gay community like it's such an ordinary thing doesn't seem natural at all. Everything is way too smooth, like the only concern is which mother will see them more often. Please. DH is like... ahead of its time, which I'm not sure is a good thing or not.
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Because whether it's right or not, what they're portraying is not all that believeable. It's not like gay people can't get married and "have children" but DH is following so many straight world cliches, and try to spin them as something ordinary in the gay world. You'd think mentioning children would get more attention. Besides, you can tell DH is really trying to shove this *normal* relationship down our throat. I don't recall Andrew getting that much screen time back when his character kicked ass.Since the show now takes place five years from now, I'd say yeah it is ahead of its time.
Even if it wasn't five years ahead, I still don't see what the problem is. Why is showing a monogamous gay couple getting married a bad thing?
I don't understand why people seem to be so uncomfortable with the gay characters on this show.![]()
Because whether it's right or not, what they're portraying is not all that believeable. It's not like gay people can't get married and "have children" but DH is following so many straight world cliches, and try to spin them as something ordinary in the gay world. You'd think mentioning children would get more attention. Besides, you can tell DH is really trying to shove this *normal* relationship down our throat. I don't recall Andrew getting that much screen time back when his character kicked ass.
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And I think we both know very well that 5 years from now, many eyebrows will still be raised when a gay couple gets married and have kids.
Oh please. What world are you living in? Gay couples with kids are NOT an ordinary sight like a straight couple with kids, whether you like it or not. Are you seriously going to deny that? I never said it was impossible to "have kids", I said it's unusual/surprising at best. If you saw a couple with kids, even you wouldn't be indifferent to it. My point still stands. You're so defensive, like you're under the impression I'm tying to shatter your fantasy world or something. You don't see TalkinTotheRain getting all pissy over this...it's called a discussion.If you can't handle a young, monogamous, happy gay couple planning a life together...
See I do agree with you on some points, so I guess some of the plot could be less cringe-worthy to me with [much] better writing. It's like each week they're trying to make this gay couple more and more "wholesome". First time we even know they're a couple they already live together, next episode they're getting married, then they mention kids. It's like, give it a rest for a while... even straight couples don't go that fast.I feel that a "straight world cliche" like marriage and children and lasting relationships (not open ones) are rather beautiful anomalies in the gay community.
Now for that I give DH credit, even if I don't buy what they're doing.And I'm glad to see that DH isn't shying away from this as most TV shows would.
