Ever have a time when you were almost outed ?

[Comrad]

I couldn't think of a better way to word the title but anyway, here's my two shorts.

Ok i must admit my mom has damn good taste in men, she doest know that i think that because I'm her "straight" son who just hast found the right girl for him .
Anyway i was watching Tv with her one day and she was just flicking through the channels and some commercial came on with some exceptionally good looking dude. Shes the kind of person who says whats on her mind so she just shouts "God DAMN hes good looking" she dose that often, but one time when she said that, i was a milla second from saying "FUCK YEAH HE ISS!" it slightly came out but you couldn't tell what i was about to say but she kinda of glanced over at me and looked for two second and just carried on.

After that was over i said to my self i MUST learn to control my self a bit more, or just stop watching TV with her.


Ah but the closet it has ever come to was when my cousin had came over and got on my computer and was talking to her boyfriend on the phone. I didn't think much of anything because i was sure that i had hidden all of my porn.
Then she says "Cass come here for a sec" i was just think she had ran into some computer issue she wanted me to resolve. I walk up to her and look over her shoulder and sure enough, it was a picture of some stud who was damn near naked with a radio in his hand, i fucking froze, my stomach was in knots, i didn't know what the fuck to say or do, i thought i was going to die.

She says "whats this", i play it off and say it must be a pop up form some site, or some kinda of virus, she says "how is that so, it came from kazza". I said, ohhh, its a picture for my yahoo profile, hehe hes the guy I'm going to pretend to be, i took the mouse from her hands and close the window and just walk away praying to god she would buy it. But she ist dumb lol im sure she did put two and two together.
I havet heard her mention it since this day so, alls wheel ends well.

 

[slobone]

I think mothers always know, at least in their heart of hearts. I mean, who knows you better than your mom?

But they usually prefer not to be confronted with the evidence so they can stay in denial for as long as possible.

Dude, you're going to be gay all your life. People are going to figure you out whether you come out or not. So you might as well come out and save yourself a lot of discomfort.

 

[Lube]

Yeah, if she looked at you for 2 seconds--she knows, Dude!

 

[luminum]

At the tender age of 14, my mom caught me looking at a Tom of Finland tome collection of his work titled 'Dirty Pictures' in the Gay and Lesbian section of Borders. She asked me, I said no, and told her I looked into it because I thought there would be pictures of lesbians.

 

[orton86]

At the tender age of 14, my mom caught me looking at a Tom of Finland tome collection of his work titled 'Dirty Pictures' in the Gay and Lesbian section of Borders. She asked me, I said no, and told her I looked into it because I thought there would be pictures of lesbians.

lol nice coverup...

 

[luminum]

I think that as crappy as a coverup as it was and unconvincing it sounded, my parents wanted to believe in it so much that they accepted it and killed all the thoughts contrary to that inside themselves.

 

[Christopherb36]

I've been outed twice...I was married for 11 years to a woman...We divorced as a result of my homosexuality. My ex-in-laws outed me to my father while he when he ran into them. He confronted me about it and I responded, "is that really what you want to know?" He replied "yes", I told him that if it mattered that much for his life, then I would not answer him. This was in the middle of a department store while Christmas shopping. I eventually told him, but I still resent my ex in laws.

I also have been outed at work a time or two, and never responded...until I brought Jim, my partner, to the holiday party! I just decided to push it into their faces, if they really wanted to know!

 

[_AJ_]

does dad walking in with me and a friend sleeping in the same bed when i was twelve count.

the funny thing is he asked me if i wanted to sleep in my own bed and i said no that i was fine there he just said ok and left i didn't even think it was strange at the time.

and he has never asked me if i was gay but i think he has been hinting for years and i still havent said anything

 

[Comrad]

I've been outed twice...I was married for 11 years to a woman...We divorced as a result of my homosexuality. My ex-in-laws outed me to my father while he when he ran into them. He confronted me about it and I responded, "is that really what you want to know?" He replied "yes", I told him that if it mattered that much for his life, then I would not answer him. This was in the middle of a department store while Christmas shopping. I eventually told him, but I still resent my ex in laws.

I also have been outed at work a time or two, and never responded...until I brought Jim, my partner, to the holiday party! I just decided to push it into their faces, if they really wanted to know!

Whoa, thats so crazy to me, how can somebody be married to someone for that LONG, and still be gay... Im a gay man and i just cant invison my self doing the same person or even woman every single day for 11 years. Jesus! that must have been horrible.
Im still wondering, how did you do it, cmon now, everyday you must have been lusting after something else and not being able to go get that must have been horrible.What about the kids, if there were any, jeeze im just hopeing to god im way out of the cloest before any of that happens to me......

 

[herenthere]

I have been "married" to the same man for a little over 10 years. Each and every day is still exciting, erotic and fulfulling. When you are truly in love sex is more than a physical release, it all becomes emotional. I love to have a hot session with my partner, curl into his arms and go to sleep knowing I'm loved and cherished, and making sure he feels the same way

 

[Lube]

Whoa, thats so crazy to me, how can somebody be married to someone for that LONG, and still be gay... Im a gay man and i just cant invison my self doing the same person or even woman every single day for 11 years. Jesus! that must have been horrible.
Im still wondering, how did you do it, cmon now, everyday you must have been lusting after something else and not being able to go get that must have been horrible.What about the kids, if there were any, jeeze im just hopeing to god im way out of the cloest before any of that happens to me......

Dude, do you have any idea how rude you sound?

Grow up.

 

[Christopherb36]

Whoa, thats so crazy to me, how can somebody be married to someone for that LONG, and still be gay... Im a gay man and i just cant invison my self doing the same person or even woman every single day for 11 years. Jesus! that must have been horrible.
Im still wondering, how did you do it, cmon now, everyday you must have been lusting after something else and not being able to go get that must have been horrible.What about the kids, if there were any, jeeze im just hopeing to god im way out of the cloest before any of that happens to me......

Have you ever read anything and thought to yourself...wow this person is a dumb mother...never mind.

Don't judge me. I was a confused man living in a small town, raised Catholic...married at 21...Wait, why the fuck do I have to explain it to you. People do things to survive. For the intelligent folks in the room...look at all the brain washing in the above...

I never cheated on her and I was the best husband she has ever had. There were no kids, and not because we did not fuck, but because we chose to be selfish jet setters who spent our money on ourselves. Just because men and women fuck does not necessarily make babies. Maybe you should get your head out of your ass and stay in your closet...your closet of ignorance. Wait a minute...your immature at 20 and did I mention...ignorant?

Thanks Lube for your support.

 

[NameTaken]

Never been ALMOST outed... But I WAS outed this year at school by the one girl I decided to trust and tell.

 

[bj____]

When I was a sophmore in High School a friend of mine who was openly gay, that I had never told I was gay, stopped me in the middle of the cafeteria with everyone around and in a loud voice asked if I was bi or gay because someone had told him so. I froze for a second or two and just flat out denied it. The only person that knew I had in interest in guys at the time was a really good friend of mine who was bi (and gorgeous) who was also friends with the guy that tried to out me. I'm pretty sure how the word got around. No one ever asked me after that until I started my new job a few months ago.

 

[RationalLunacy]

Whoa, thats so crazy to me, how can somebody be married to someone for that LONG, and still be gay... Im a gay man and i just cant invison my self doing the same person or even woman every single day for 11 years. Jesus! that must have been horrible.
Im still wondering, how did you do it, cmon now, everyday you must have been lusting after something else and not being able to go get that must have been horrible.What about the kids, if there were any, jeeze im just hopeing to god im way out of the cloest before any of that happens to me......

Whoa your own horse.....

My partner was married to a woman for twenty years and just so happens he's a great-grandfather. His ex-wife and I happen to be very close friends. She knew all along he was gay, but in the rural area where they lived, you got married -- it was what you did.

jeeze im just hopeing to god ur head finds its way out of the broom cloest before any of that happens to you. [sic]

[would someone pleez call da spel chek police?]

 

[blooeyz]

ollie, ollie oxen free! come out, come out where ever you are!

 

[Comrad]

What ever, you guys really took that out of context, and replying with crap like that ist cool. When your talking over the net you cant tell the tone of voice the person is speaking in. Anyway i wont apologize for this just because it feels as if I'm being attacked for no reason at all. Maybe you guys should have been a bit more "mature" about it and said something a bit different.

 

[Elwood]

Whoa, thats so crazy to me, how can somebody be married to someone for that LONG, and still be gay... Im a gay man and i just cant invison my self doing the same person or even woman every single day for 11 years. Jesus! that must have been horrible.
Im still wondering, how did you do it, cmon now, everyday you must have been lusting after something else and not being able to go get that must have been horrible.What about the kids, if there were any, jeeze im just hopeing to god im way out of the cloest before any of that happens to me......

Well here is something that will really blow your mind. I am also an exmarried gay guy. My ex and I were together for ten years lived together for nine had two kids, twin boys now age 10. I moved out three years ago, came out to almost everyone this year. There are a lot of us out there.

It was very hard towards the end.


I can't say I was nearly outed, however, I have surprised a few people when they see me in the gay village! I usually just look at them and say " By the way I am gay, so how are you doing?"

 

[Centexfarmer]

About ten years ago, my boyfriend at the time had set up house in my home.

We were both closeted to our families, and we had this routine of "straightening up the house" whenever family dropped by unexpectedly. Also known as "de-gaying" the place.

Patrick had gotten up early to go to work, and I had been out partying with friends the night before.

At 9am on a Saturday there was a knock at our door, and it was my parents having just come from taking my Uncle out to breakfast.

I quickly ran around the house to make sure that the house was str8, and let them in.

Patrick and I were restoring a 1912 Four-square home, and Mom was proud of the work that me and my "roommate" were doing to the place, and wanted to show it off.

My Uncle looked at me funny, and no one said a word. Within a few minutes they left, and I was freaking out. What did they see? Did I hide the picture of Patrick and I embraced at a party obviously in love with each other? Were there any "fag-mags" laying around, local Gay Rags left open?

No.

I couldn't figure it out. My parents and Uncle don't give those kind of looks without "knowing" something.

So I called my friend and was expressing to her what had happened.

While I was on the phone I glanced into the mirror, and I was wearing a t-shirt from the night before that read:















I DON'T MIND STRAIGHT PEOPLE AS LONG AS THEY ACT GAY IN PUBLIC.







oooops!





A few months later they dropped by and found that picture, the cat was then out of the bag.

 

[curiousguyUNT]

I was at a bar for my friends birthday, when, while drunk off his ass, he decided to tell me that he supports me being bi and that he'll always be my friend no matter what. I should mention that he said all of this at the top of his lungs which made the people around us take a look at what he was talking about. Only about five people know that I'm bi, all of them friends, none of them family. My cousin happened to be working at that bar when all of this occured. Thankfully, it was noisy enough not to have carried to where he was. I appreciate my friend, but at that moment I wanted to be as far away as possible.