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eddielee

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Maybe things will change when you least expect it. Sounds like your going to be very bored. Here's some hugs and kisses to make you feel better. (*8*) :kiss:
 
What the hell did you do to loose your licence?

I might missread your post, but for how long are you going to have it revoked?



Well, i am feeling sorry for you. :kiss: to you!
 
Well it's one of those things...I suppose there has to be some punishment for driving when you're pissed. But that's by the by now.

Like dpnice says...get a bike. Otherwise this site may be of use.
 
John_W said:
A five million dollar home in the world's most livable city.
Full use of the Bentley Continental (and full use of the young chauffeur)
Regular getaways to the holiday house
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You don't need a butler by any chance? :D
 
joeslifeyork said:
THis is a major fucking bummer.
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And I think it's meant to be! I don't want to be insensitive, but you've got quite a bit of time ahead of you where you're going to have to do more advance planning than you did in the past! I wish you the best in all this situation! Hang in there! :wave:

As an aside, I'd like to see punishment for dui in the United States racheted up a couple of notches. The loss of life due to drunk driving is intolerable! We have some things to learn from our European friends in this ,and other, respects.
 
oh depression, in its purest form is sometimes a blessing because you know there will be an equal force of mania at the end of it to balance things out. :-)

cry, go insane, read a book about something mind bogglingly complex, then eat something, go insane a bit more. once you've gone through that you'll probably be happy again.
 
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Maybe it is just me, but my American sense of humour just finds this posting/thread really funny. :didisay: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

I mean if you go and read the thread: I'm So Very Sad - and view postings 16 or
20 one really gets the humour in all of this. Sort of a bit of irony here also. Don't you think? :badgrin: :badgrin: :badgrin: :badgrin:

I guess I just have no sense of decency about your situation, what is appropriate to find humorous and certainly I must be displaying a terrible lack of insensitivity. But when I think of all the people you might have injured - spinal cord injuries especially - and or killed, things seem to take on a different perspective over here on the other side of the Atlantic.

Well have a fine day. You're welcome to cry on our shoulders again. Maybe someone with a British sense of humour will be able to take care of your neediness or feel more compassionate then I do. After all I am just one of those crude Americans who doesn't give a damn about others. :didisay: :spank: :spank: . :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

A thought just occurred to me, maybe you could spend some more time updating your album with photographs of yourself or even the automobile you injured. Now that might be rather "interesting" and think of all the pleasure you would be giving to your viewers. Your ego would be satisfied with all the attention and certainly the pictures of the auto could be a great warning to people. You would almost be performing a "Public Service" and spicing things up a little at the same time. Then again the guy from the public lew you spoke so highly about a few weeks ago, may be able to come by and you guys could go out again for a real date and not just a ????. I mean look how much humour one can find in this sad(?) situation? It is almost overwhelmingly humorous. But then again, I guess that is my American sense of humour showing through. What can I say? I mean just being the village idiot around here a lot of my humour and jokes are not taken "humorously and or seriously?" anyways.#-o #-o #-o #-o

But what the fuck, no one is being offended by any of this as it is all merely a fucking joke anyway. :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :didisay: :spank: :spank: :spank: :spank:
 
SourTimes said:
oh depression, in its purest form is sometimes a blessing because you know there will be an equal force of mania at the end of it to balance things out. :-)

cry, go insane, read a book about something mind bogglingly complex, then eat something, go insane a bit more. once you've gone through that you'll probably be happy again.
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Sorry to be off topic, but methinks you have the wrong type of depression here......
 
PhoenixRising20 said:
Sorry to be off topic, but methinks you have the wrong type of depression here......
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*takes mental note to actually read the original post in future*
 
I say you get your arse to LA, and climb on the back of my bike.

you CAN be a passenger, right?
 
Bottom line - if you've been done for drunk driving i've no sympathy - this may sound harsh but lives are ruined every day by drunks behind the wheel.
Get a bike, pay for a taxi, walk...whatever...but stop whinging
 
Soilwork said:
I say you get your arse to LA, and climb on the back of my bike.

you CAN be a passenger, right?
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/\ see i'm thinking why the fuck didn't the "friends" invite you along on the back of someone's bike? i mean they are supposed to be "friends" aren't they? :grrr:

can you get a mooped, one of those little scutter bike things...i think i see folks riding around on those here and they don't appear to need/have a licence.
 
Whilst I have no sympathy whatsoever for your predicament as a result of being drunk ...and your 3 year suspension .... light in terms of the possible outcomes .... I guess the reality of the aftermath is now coming to the fore .... it could be that your mates don't necessarily approve of what happened either .. in any event I think that you are realising that they are not going to necessarily change their activities to accommodate your current circumstances unless it particularly suits them. Just because they are all off on their bikes does not mean either that they have dissowned you ... it is just that they could not accommodate you. Once you have had wheels then suddenly deprived of them, their is a huge adjustment to be made. One way to partly overcome the frustration is to possibly imagine yourself as a tourist in your town, and get around as they would. It may even open your eyes to new possibilities of things to do and see.
 
I think it's just hit you how much that incident is gonna effect your life - and there'll be other ways it affects you that haven't yet become apparent.

You've got 3 summers like this, so the best thing to do is start thinking about how you can adapt to life without a car. For starters, I'd sell it if it's sitting on the street. You're still gonna have to pay three years of road tax, insurance, MOT maintainence etc. With the money, buy a cycle to get you to the bus or train station and plan weekends, days out from there with the money you got from the car. York has parks and open spaces that you can make use of.

Of course, another alternative is to buy a motorcyle and put one of your mates on the insurance so that HE can drive it and take you to the coast.

Instead of looking at all of the negative 'I can't do' points, start looking at the positive ' I can do' points. Plenty of other people manage without a car, so 'strap on a pair' and quit your whinging and feeling sorry for yourself!!!

Grab the situation and take hold of it by the throat - you're more than capable of resolving it!!! (*8*) :kiss:
 
quasar21 said:
I think it's just hit you how much that incident is gonna effect your life - and there'll be other ways it affects you that haven't yet become apparent.

You've got 3 summers like this, so the best thing to do is start thinking about how you can adapt to life without a car. For starters, I'd sell it if it's sitting on the street. You're still gonna have to pay three years of road tax, insurance, MOT maintainence etc. With the money, buy a cycle to get you to the bus or train station and plan weekends, days out from there with the money you got from the car. York has parks and open spaces that you can make use of.

Of course, another alternative is to buy a motorcyle and put one of your mates on the insurance so that HE can drive it and take you to the coast.

Instead of looking at all of the negative 'I can't do' points, start looking at the positive ' I can do' points. Plenty of other people manage without a car, so 'strap on a pair' and quit your whinging and feeling sorry for yourself!!!

Grab the situation and take hold of it by the throat - you're more than capable of resolving it!!!
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I've gotta go with the hubby on this one. You're just going to have to adjust. If you don't, you'll end up going stir crazy. To put it simply, you're going to have to learn the bus schedules and get yourself a good bike. Get to know the parks and green spaces in your neck of the woods. Who knows, you might even find some action in the park! ;) You'll make it man if you learn to adjust.
 
We would make a bad couple right now. I am hyper anxious with the smoking cessation. I don't know what to do with myself, and I'm wired half the time, and half a constant erection. I gotta fuck something, and get fucked too, maybe that will calm me.
 
^ I guess you don't know who this guy is. (I could have said "was" but I assume that he's still alive, sitting in prison for years to come.) Let's say that he was somebody else than what he tried to represent here on JUB. I don't know whether it's proper to go into any further detail, but this all blew up long before your join date of eight months ago - I think it was in summer of 2008. [EDIT: maybe even 2007?]

I'm actually among the few I'm aware of who had some kind and cordial interactions with him, but the truth eventually came out and he was inevitably gone. And, I may add, GOOD RIDDANCE!

You can probably search his name and find links to old threads, and you can get the whole story. He has long been known as "he whose name shall not be mentioned" or other similar monikers.
 
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