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Hey 25 and married to a woman, but I've recently been having fantasies about gay sex, I really want to try it, so I bought a 6" dildo and when I'm alone I lube it up and try to use it on my ass but it hurts so bad. Does anyone have any tips on how to make it easier?
 
Always start out small, so your hole gradually gets used to accepting things inside it. Use plenty of lube on both your hole and the dildo so there's no hard friction. Be sure to relax your body and tense up when it enters your ass. Best position is laying on your back with your legs back, knees to the chest, and ass raised on a pillow. You might even try using your fingers to loosen your hole up (in essence, finger yourself for a bit), but make sure your rectum is clean or you'll have a mess (saline enemas help, but don't use them frequently, as it damages the mucous lining in your rectum over time). Hope this helps.
 
chargerboy06 said:
Hey 25 and married to a woman, but I've recently been having fantasies about gay sex, I really want to try it, so I bought a 6" dildo and when I'm alone I lube it up and try to use it on my ass but it hurts so bad. Does anyone have any tips on how to make it easier?
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Congrats guy for wanting to find pleasure. Follow what Ice said and you will do fine
 
IceColdLover said:
Always start out small, so your hole gradually gets used to accepting things inside it. Use plenty of lube on both your hole and the dildo so there's no hard friction. Be sure to relax your body and tense up when it enters your ass. Best position is laying on your back with your legs back, knees to the chest, and ass raised on a pillow. You might even try using your fingers to loosen your hole up (in essence, finger yourself for a bit), but make sure your rectum is clean or you'll have a mess (saline enemas help, but don't use them frequently, as it damages the mucous lining in your rectum over time). Hope this helps.
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I meant to say "don't tense up". Tension will cause pain if and when your hole tightens over the dildo so relax as much as possible and enjoy feeling the dildo slide back and forth inside you. Be careful not to insert it too far into your rectum, or you could perforate your bowel.
 
Hi, chargerboy, do you mind if I ask why you waited until you were married to want gay sex?
 
chargerboy06 said:
I never had the desire when I was younger until I was married.
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Tell us where you hope to take this then? Will you move from a dildo to the real thing? Will you tell your wife? What if you discover you are gay, then what?
 
I'm really just curious I would probably suck a dick, I'm not sure if I would want to get fucked yet. I'm not gay I'm just a closet bisexual.
 
Will your wife be okay with it?
 
chargerboy06 said:
I'm really just curious I would probably suck a dick, I'm not sure if I would want to get fucked yet. I'm not gay I'm just a closet bisexual.
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If you'd probably suck a dick you're probably more than just curious. I had a Bi relationship thru out my teens but back into the Bi closet, too, all of my adult life. Love to change that by sucking your dick!:fellate: Have you posted a cock pic yet?
 
chargerboy06 said:
Hey 25 and married to a woman, but I've recently been having fantasies about gay sex, I really want to try it, so I bought a 6" dildo and when I'm alone I lube it up and try to use it on my ass but it hurts so bad. Does anyone have any tips on how to make it easier?
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Follow all the tips/suggestions here; once you get it right and CUM with it (or better yet a VIBE) you'll be hooked and looking for more.
 
lots of lube, you can never have to much... here lately i been using Vaseline. works fine and no reason to hide the lube you may use from the wife. using a dildo on yourself is so nice, fun and pleasing. i use one about once a week. not for long just long enough to get myself off. it feels great. did you get a reg one or a suction cup one? i love the suction cup ones cause i can put it on the edge of the shower and ride it.. I wanna suck my first cock also, wish you were local we could get together.
be warned one gf i mentioned using a dildo as a joke and she got very upset and was not into it at all. but i have had a couple gfs who were into it. so just depends.
 
I am curious to see what your ass looks like, chargerboy06. It must be nice if you are playing with it.
 
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