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Hey guys, long time lurker and first time poster. I'm a married 32-year old who has thought about for years what it would be like to play around with a guy. Sadly, I've never had the guts to act on it but the desire is always there even though I am happily married to a woman.

Over the last few weeks weeks, I've been chatting with an older guy who wants to please me orally. He seems like a nice enough guy but I'm so freakin' nervous that I have chickened out multiple times already. I'm not sexually into guys, and am only comfortable getting a handjob. A blowjob maybe. Anything else, hell no. I don't want to fuck or be fucked, I'm not interested in kissing or finding a boyfriend or leaving my girl. This man wants to meet me in two days in a mall and he said he'd definitely jerk me off but would really like to blow and rim me. You always read about how awesome a blowjob from a guy is or how amazing it feels to be rimmed so I want to experience this just once. Is this crazy?

Part of me says go for it but another part of me feels like I will regret this or something will go wrong.

What do you guys think? Help!
 
Stay faithful to your wife. I'm not sure if "happily married" really applies or not when you're considering cheating on her, but I can nearly guarantee that it won't if you go through with it.
 
If you are going to partake in the fantasy do it with a friend or develop a relationship with someone who is bisexual at least you don't know this individual and you will be nervous and he could easily slip something in your drink and the next thing you know is you have been fucked hard and raw and have to explain that to your wife. Also don't do it in a mall restroom that would ruin if it you got busted by the police.
 
Don't cheat on your wife. It's not worth it. Explore something sexually new with her and forget about others. Vows should be taken seriously.
 
Go for it!

Do you not value the sanctity of marriage at all? Maybe I'm in the wrong but I firmly believe when a person makes a vow to someone they should honor it. If they can't honestly make the vow, then maybe they shouldn't make it at all. I think when a person commits to be faithful to a spouse and then betrays that promise, they've committed a type of fraud. JMO.
 
It's time to have a conversation with your wife. It probably won't be easy or pleasant. But that should be your next move. You're married and you owe it to her. It's really that simple yet difficult. Good luck.
 
Well... I don't judge, but keep in mind that acting on the impulse qualifies as cheating on your gal. Its up to the person to figure how big a deal that is.

Otherwise, I'd say go for it. Experimenting on a fantasy can have a "this sucks" result (pun intended). It may take time to sort out your feelings, but either way, you'll realize that the world didn't end befause you tried something new... and it doesn't really change anything.
 
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