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For those of you here in an open relationship

Totally off topic..... I am sorry Jory, but I just cannot stop myself.

Ah, pray make no mistake,
We are not shy;
We're very wide awake,
The moon and I!
 
Never let him sleep over at my house. We can go to his house or a motel but not my house until I know him better.
 
We typically prefer to play together, although we're not opposed to occasional playing

1 Condoms always used for fucking
2 Always come home/don't bring the guy home
3 No on-going fuckbuds unless we both know/ are friends with the guy and cool with it
4 Tell the other everything we did (which is also a turn on)
5 Don't take photos doing it
 
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maybe Nine of Clubs or Quanchi or DA can shead some light on this topic. you might check with them.

just a randome thought from the local village idiot, who has no clue about any of this stuff.:confused:

eM.](*,)
 
First of all I have to admit I don't understand why a relationship would need so many rules in order to survive..

I myself in a monogamous relationship have 1 rule and only one... BE HONEST... If we are having an issue tell me and we can work through it or just continue on with our lives if we can't.



Quanchi said:
1. PLAY SAFE!!!
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As to this I have to ask... knowing from the pictures you have posted that you and your boyfriend have bareback sex.. when you say "play safe" does that include condoms for oral, (giving and receiving) anal, and dental dams for rimming? Or is it just for anal?
 
Why bother titling the thread specifically targeted to people IN open relationships with "FOR THOSE OF YOU HERE IN AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP...." ??

How confusing that apparently is.

It should be titled "For those of you here NOT in an an open relationship, please remind us why you have a problem with those who are."
 
It's interesting hearing from people who are in an open relationship.

Personally I wanted to hear from Quanchi and DA.

Although..it might be a bit more interesting to hear about people's experiences in a poly relationship..maybe I should start a thread about that..

There are books on the subject of open relationships too.

The concept of an open relationship is interesting as well.

And then there is "Partnered but plays together"
 
1) One must be gone by first light.

2) One must not get offended if I don't remember his name.

3) One must not get offended if I don't acknowledge him the next time I see him. (see #2)

4) One must allow me to use my own condoms and lube should I choose.

5) We're not finished until I cum.

My rules for all hook-ups, whether or not I'm in an open relationship.
 
gdude30 said:
You know about?


Have you ever been in a poly relationship?
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My partner and I are interested in a poly relationship, but find it difficult to find a guy that we both like and is into both of us. Gay men dating is hard enough, throwing a 3rd in the equation hasn't been easy to find at all.
 
1) Don't feed after midnight
2) Keep out of daylight
3) Don't get wet
4) ?
5) Profit!
 
atlgayjock said:
My partner and I are interested in a poly relationship, but find it difficult to find a guy that we both like and is into both of us. Gay men dating is hard enough, throwing a 3rd in the equation hasn't been easy to find at all.
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Oh yes it is. Becuase of the most common problems. The guy liking one partner over the other. Also if he just wants sex. I'd say those are the two biggest problems with trying to start a poly. Well there is also the chance that the person might decide to date someone else and end the poly. I'm surprised though. I do not understand why a partner couple would look for a third. But I don't think it's a bad thing.

quanchi said:
I consider that to be open. If a relationship that has sex that involves more than the two in the relationship, then they would be in an open relationship, IMO. Even if they had a threesome once to try it, I wouldn't consider them monogamous.
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You are very right Quanchi. They say they are monogamous. But the minute someone else joins you in bed it's not longer monogamous. But then again. It is different if two people play with someone together instead of seperately. That can be considered "partnered but plays together" but not "monogamous and plays together"
 
atlgayjock said:
My partner and I are interested in a poly relationship, but find it difficult to find a guy that we both like and is into both of us. Gay men dating is hard enough, throwing a 3rd in the equation hasn't been easy to find at all.
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Although my bf and I aren't interested in a permanent 3rd person, we did wind up in something temporary when his ex, whom he had remained friends with, came and stayed with us for a few months. He was suppose to be sleeping on the sofa, but we all got along so well in and out of out bed. After a few sexual romps, we all wound up sleeping (and obviously, fucking) in the same bed until he found his own apartment. I know it wasn't a true triad, as my bf and i were the primary relationship and the ex was just a friend but it was a unique experience for us while it lasted.
 
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