Gay relationship but craving pussy

[jdbadboy]

I want to ask you guys, as much as it may rain on some's parade:

If you were to fuck pussy, would you stick with it, or would you get sexually bored after a certain (short?) period of time and revert back to the dick?

"Stick with it"? You make it sound like a chore. Either way I wouldn't do it more than once unless I actually enjoyed being with the women I was fucking as well as the pussy itself.

 

[alphacentauri]

I did not read the entire thread but the original poster should talk to his boyfriend/partner and see if he's OK with an open relationship, and then go and find a woman to have sex with.

All of the men I know who are gay, have told me how they've never had sexual attraction to any woman, and even the ones that have had sex with women said how this just showed them that women and women's genitals do not turn them on. None of them want to be with trans "men" at all either.

 

[TwinkMax]

I think it's hot to read about gay men cheating on their clueless partners with women.

Me too. I like the thought of a gay guy cheating on his boyfriend and fucking pussy, then later the cuckolded gay boyfriend sucks his boyfriend's cock not knowing that he's sucking leftover pussy juices off his boyfriend's dick. I also like the idea of a gay guy having to watch as his boyfriend fucks pussy, then the gay guy has to lick the boyfriend's cum off the woman's pussy / eat pussy for the first time. Another fantasy would be a gay guy coming home and catching his gay boyfriend in bed with a woman, and he's upset and disgusted but surprised to find he has a raging boner. He's pissed at the cheating boyfriend at first, but soon he's seduced into joining in and the two gay guys DP the chick, take turns getting blown by her, then line up to cum on her tits. One last fantasy: reverse bait bus. A gay man is blindfolded and told that he's going to get a blowjob from a man, but when he takes it off he sees that a chick is sucking his dick instead. He's pissed at first, but he's told that he can fuck a man if he fucks a woman first. He fucks the woman, but gets tricked and never gets to fuck a man.

 

[TwinkMax]

Many gay men in their forties suddenly become hard for women

A lot of gay men in their 20s and 30s too. It seems like a lot of gay men spend years chasing dick and repressing/ignoring any lust for pussy, but it catches up with them eventually, so you have gay men in their 20s, 30s, and 40s who thought they were gay for years and suddenly are consumed with lust for pussy. I spent my teen years and early 20s thinking I was totally gay without a bi-curious bone in my body, until I hit my mid-20s and starting having all sorts of unexpected thoughts and became extremely curious about trying pussy. If somebody had told me at age 15 or age 20 that I'd eventually start jerking off to raunchy straight porn and wanting to be balls deep inside a tight wet pussy, I would have thought they were nuts. But here I am. Go figure.

 

[TwinkMax]

So true always regarded myself as gay but now in my 40's I say I am bisexual having more sex with women than me and loving it. You have to try it to decide weather you like it or not.
Read that 7 out of 10 men who identify as gay will have sex with a woman while identifying as gay.

If I may ask, how did people around you react to you switching from exclusively gay to being bi? Were they surprised? Happy? Disappointed?

Also, that's a high number of gay men who've tried sex with women, but I bet if our society didn't have any sexual hang-ups that number would rise to 100% of gay men having tried sex with women. I feel like sexual experimentation is natural for everybody, and it makes sense that gay men would want to know what vaginas feel like since, well, that's what vaginas are for.

 

[TwinkMax]

I am in the same boat I have been with the same guy for 8 years. One night His best friend ended up staying at our house because she was drunk. My partner was out of town on business. I woke up in the middle of the night to her sucking my cock. I have been letting her suck my cock on a regular basis and i really enjoy it. I am afraid to go any further because i am afraid i will really like it. It makes me quiver to think about fucking her wet pussy. I seem to think about it more and more when i am in bed with my partner. I have not bottomed for him in over a month. Would like to talk to other like minded people about this.

Well, you seem to be into her more than him. Why not just dump him so you can fuck her? Or maybe you could ask him if he's okay with you fucking her? The only other option would be to fuck her on the down-low and not tell him, but...

 

[TwinkMax]

I have this big fantasy about two gay lovers who try a threesome with a girl and love that. Each time they need pussy after that they invite a girl in their bed.

I also think sometimes of a guy who ask his boyfriend to have sex with a girl in front of him but doesn't participate. His boyfriend discovers he loves that so the guy decides to let his boyfriend have sex with girls whenever he wants.

The idea of a gay guy discovering he loves pussy turns me on so much. I can't explain why...it's like that.

I read somewhere that 75% of gay men in gay relationships still have heterosexual fantasies. It's also true that many, if not most, gay relationships are open relationships. I wish it were considered completely normal for gay men in open gay relationships to bring a girl home every now and then for a threesome to satisfy gay men's occasional heterosexual cravings. I'd love that, to have a boyfriend, but once or twice a year bring a chick home to share.

 

[TwinkMax]

Just wanted to add my voice to the list of gay-identified men who secretly crave pussy. LTR (married to a wonderful guy), out since high school, not bisexual (don't want emotional/romantic relationship with a woman) but want to fuck and cum inside a woman. Love pussy porn (with or without men), constantly fantasize about fucking women's various holes. Equally turned on by women's body parts and also by the psychological aspect of a gay cock fucking a woman. Lots of us out here, we're not alone.

Nice. How does your husband feel about your pussy fantasies?

 

[straussdahoss]

HairyCub:
I'm in a similar situation and have posted a few threads on this topic ("For the Gay Guys Who are Str8 Curious" http://www.justusboys.com/forum/threads/351472-For-the-Gay-Guys-Who-Are-Str8-Curious). I have explored a bit (My thread "Finally tried Pussy" http://www.justusboys.com/forum/threads/375320-Str8-Curios-Gay-Guy-Finally-Tried-Pussy). You will get a lot of negativity from the gay guys on here, but ironically, you will also find a lot of guys just like us. There are A LOT of gay men who are Str8 curious. You can also follow me on Tumblr http://bilatinfever.tumblr.com/

Hey hairycub I'm in the same position. I came out as gay early on when I was 16 - dated girls in high school but never fucked pussy. When I was 25 the opportunity presented itself and I took it. Best experience next to the first time I did it with a dude. You gotta get out and try it. It's hard cuz ppl don't get it in both communities - so you gotta be confident in you. Use whatever label u want - only u know u. YOLO

 

[OlderNerd]

I feel totally hetero now, but---- I think that maybe I was latently straight, and growing up, my only experiences were with other males. My experiences with other guys were fun and felt good, so I assumed I was gay.....for years. I don't think my experience is typical, and I don't think this would happen to a totally gay guy. I think early on, I had misidentified myself. But who knows why, really? My feelings, though, are as valid as anyone's, although a lot of my gay friends freaked out and aren't my friends anymore. That part bothers me, because personal sexualities should be mutually respected.

I hear ya! Since puberty very little interest in gay porn, unless the guys are specifically "my type" (rare). My theory, especially regarding older guys, is that any significant gay interest/activity = GAY! Period. Glad you brought up the problem as coming out as bi (pussy-lover, if you prefer) after identifying as gay.

 

[ballcaphair]

I'll just drop this in. As a tot. I lost my hetero virginity to a girl. Lost my gay virginity to a boy who hit on me. I was so flattered that I was sure I was gay. In college I stumbled into my roommate eating his girl and they invited me. Together it was insane. She wouldn't blow him so I did. As a threesome we hooked up once more. It was an absolutely wonderful way to realize I'm bi. I don't do married and if it's not safe, it's not happening. Curious men and women are my sweetest spot. I pretty much love it all.

 

[ass eater]

If you're not attracted to women, or don't date, have relationships with them I'd say you're pretty much still gay. Michael Lucas has vaginal sex about every ten or so years buy he is gay. He wants and desires a boyfriend/husband.

 

[JOBMAN34]

Any other guys turned on by the thought of other gay men realizing their secret heterosexual lust?

 

[rexrecks]

Me, very!

 

[TwinkMax]

Me, very!

That's hot. Message me. I'd love to hear more.

 

[Anrysse]

I'm in the predicament of being gay in a gay relationship, but recently really craving sex with women.

I've always been openly gay since I was 16 and very proud and open about being gay; my family were very accepting and never wanted me any other way. I've always considered myself gay and was always put off by the idea of sex with women. I always much preferred the feeling of another guy pressed up against my hairy body, and as a versatile guy, enjoyed how "gay" I felt being fucked as well as how masculine I felt fucking another man.

Yet since being in a committed three year gay relationship, I've suddenly felt really curious about sex with women, which I never thought I would. I'm even checking out girls on the street, and secretly jacking off to straight porn behind my boyfriend's back. I now rarely watch gay porn, mostly bi and straight stuff now. I'm really turned on by the idea of convincing my boyfriend to shag a girl with me.

Are there any other gay guys in this situation? Does it turn you on to think of your boyfriend with a woman?

I’m confused what made you think you were gay in the first place? Was that the first time you’ve ever felt attraction to women? Did you watch other types of porn to see if you we’re attracted to the people in them and actually think about your sexuality before you came out? Does your boyfriend (if you’re still with him) know what you’re feeling and are you planning on cheating on him?

 

[Mousee]

I’m confused what made you think you were gay in the first place? Was that the first time you’ve ever felt attraction to women? Did you watch other types of porn to see if you we’re attracted to the people in them and actually think about your sexuality before you came out? Does your boyfriend (if you’re still with him) know what you’re feeling and are you planning on cheating on him?

He's a troll. He has a weird fetish of gay guys turning straight.

 

[Anrysse]

He's a troll. He has a weird fetish of gay guys turning straight.

That seems to be a big thing here. I even saw a porn thread. For someone to fetishize something inherently heinous like that shows how homophobic they are ��

 

[Mousee]

That seems to be a big thing here. I even saw a porn thread. For someone to fetishize something inherently heinous like that shows how homophobic they are ��

Yeah, it's sad how many people experience internalized homophobia and some people here turn it into a fetish