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HairyCub91

HairyCub91

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I'm in the predicament of being gay in a gay relationship, but recently really craving sex with women.

I've always been openly gay since I was 16 and very proud and open about being gay; my family were very accepting and never wanted me any other way. I've always considered myself gay and was always put off by the idea of sex with women. I always much preferred the feeling of another guy pressed up against my hairy body, and as a versatile guy, enjoyed how "gay" I felt being fucked as well as how masculine I felt fucking another man.

Yet since being in a committed three year gay relationship, I've suddenly felt really curious about sex with women, which I never thought I would. I'm even checking out girls on the street, and secretly jacking off to straight porn behind my boyfriend's back. I now rarely watch gay porn, mostly bi and straight stuff now. I'm really turned on by the idea of convincing my boyfriend to shag a girl with me.

Are there any other gay guys in this situation? Does it turn you on to think of your boyfriend with a woman?
 
HairyCub91 said:
I'm in the predicament of being gay in a gay relationship, but recently really craving sex with women.

I've always been openly gay since I was 16 and very proud and open about being gay; my family were very accepting and never wanted me any other way. I've always considered myself gay and was always put off by the idea of sex with women. I always much preferred the feeling of another guy pressed up against my hairy body, and as a versatile guy, enjoyed how "gay" I felt being fucked as well as how masculine I felt fucking another man.

Yet since being in a committed three year gay relationship, I've suddenly felt really curious about sex with women, which I never thought I would. I'm even checking out girls on the street, and secretly jacking off to straight porn behind my boyfriend's back. I now rarely watch gay porn, mostly bi and straight stuff now. I'm really turned on by the idea of convincing my boyfriend to shag a girl with me.

Are there any other gay guys in this situation? Does it turn you on to think of your boyfriend with a woman?
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I'm the opposite. Never had sex with a guy until I was in my 40s. I started going to the gym, my body was looking good, guys came on to me, one invited me to his apartment, we had hot sex and I fucked a man for the first time. I was bi-curious, now I'm just bi.
 
How many times have you started this thread? Go have sex with a woman already and report back.

I mean do you actually want to do this or are you just turned on by talking about it?
 
Well, first of all, does your boyfriend know about any of this? If he does, would he be willing to try it with you? That's the only way it's going to happen, unless you're willing to cheat, which is up to you.

Don't get me wrong, I have a bit of a fetish for this sort if thing, but I certainly wouldn't advise cheating. Again, that's up to you.
 
jdbadboy said:
How many times have you started this thread? Go have sex with a woman already and report back.

I mean do you actually want to do this or are you just turned on by talking about it?
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I like both. I'm just in a difficult situation because I'm in a relationship, makes it harder to act out. It's easier to chat about it with other like-minded guys. I don't know why people not into this sort of thing comment on these forums and act like haters.

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HappyMac said:
Well, first of all, does your boyfriend know about any of this? If he does, would he be willing to try it with you? That's the only way it's going to happen, unless you're willing to cheat, which is up to you.

Don't get me wrong, I have a bit of a fetish for this sort if thing, but I certainly wouldn't advise cheating. Again, that's up to you.
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No he doesn't know, that's why I find it easier to talk on here. Why do you have a fetish for this sort of thing?
 
So here's another take on it...

I'm a typically straight guy who occasionally likes guys. I've noticed that I tend to think more about guys than girls when I'm in a sexually unfulfilling relationship with a woman.

So, is there something you're not getting at home? Are you unhappy with the frequency or quality of the sex? Or, after 3 years, is it just not exciting any more?

Honestly I wonder if part of the reason I like sucking dick so much is just to prove, in a very passive aggressive way, that it's not that hard to do it well. And I tend to seek it out when I'm not getting good head at home.
 
Nah that is nothing like what I'm talking about.

There are gay forums to talk about that sort of stuff. I wanted to hear from gay guys who are feeling curious about women.
 
HairyCub91 said:
I like both. I'm just in a difficult situation because I'm in a relationship, makes it harder to act out. It's easier to chat about it with other like-minded guys. I don't know why people not into this sort of thing comment on these forums and act like haters. - - - Updated - - - No he doesn't know, that's why I find it easier to talk on here. Why do you have a fetish for this sort of thing?
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Well, I say fetish because the thought of a gay guy 'turning' straight or having sex with a woman for the first time really turns me on. I'm pretty curious about it myself, but I don't think id have the guts to actually try it.
 
I don't know any bi guys who went from dating and having sex exclusively with men to becoming curious about sex with women. Let us know if you go through with it and do end up having sex with a woman. I am doubtful it would be with your partner's approval. Different from identifying yourself as bi or bi-curious at the time you guys first met. I think for most male partners that revelation would be much more threatening now.
 
i'm in the same boat as hairycub, like, word for word. Hmu, pm me, if this stuff gets you off, too. Would love to chat to some guys about it..
 
You need to try it that's why your obsessed with it. If you love cock like me you won't enjoy it, but ass-fucking her isn't bad, depending on the girl.
 
Lots of gay guy who have contacted me about this say they have a bit of a fantasy about watching their boyfriend with a girl. Any other guys feel that way? What is it that turns you on?
 
HairyCub91: Wishing you the best on your pussy search. Gay/partnered here to a hot man for 24 years. We've recently discussed the idea of trying a m/f/m-bi 3way. I'm a big voyeur, so turn on would be to see my man play with a woman and another guy at same time/DP, eating pussy while he gets fucked by the man, etc. No shame in exploring your desires. Check craigslist, plenty of ads where a bi male & female couple seek out a man like you. Good luck and contact me for more discussions.
 
gooblaka said:
omg yes i got this cute guy that likes me to become bi leaning towards girls. he says its cuz my voice is sexy and seductive wen i dirty talk him about him fucking pussy xD now he actually loves thinking about it, but he's still very much infatuated with me
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So you're saying that you turned a gay guy bi? Do tell!
 
My first kiss was with a girl, I was 12, I guess, but that time I already know that I was gay. Well, I never did sex with a girl, through sometimes I masturbate think about girls, but when I think about, it's not the woman body who is attractive to me, I never had an erection for a girl, but for the erotic situation.
 
HairyCub, glad you posted on here. That is one of the things I like about JUB. Great forums with interesting topics from people who like to share.

Interesting thing you have going on over there. I'm a gay guy who has been out for ages, but has also had sex with women when I was younger. It was fine, but clearly not my main attraction. I'm single, but could easily see myself having a threeway with another guy and a girl as it would be sporting fun to play around with both body parts so to speak. I'm pretty open sexually, but not interested in having a relationship with a woman as my romantic orientation is towards men.

So, I say to you that it might be a nice experience for you to explore this "side" of you if I can call it that. But, do talk to your BF about it at some point when you are comfy with this topic. And by all means run your thoughts by us as there are some bright and thoughtful individuals mixed into the JUB orbit. Some goofballs too, but you'll know which ones to ignore over time.
 
Agoateeguy said:
HairyCub, glad you posted on here. That is one of the things I like about JUB. Great forums with interesting topics from people who like to share.

I couldn't agree more! Lots of stuff posted on various JUB threads that I'm not particularly into but the cross-section of ideas always thought-provoking.
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