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novaguy35

novaguy35

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Hi guys,

Sorry if this has been discussed before, but I've been out of the loop for about the last year.

I'm a total top and have known that since I was a kid and used to hump the couch when I saw superhero cartoon characters bound and gagged. A few years later, I'd run screaming to my room to beat off if I saw guys getting spanked, flogged, racked or whatever.

Since I bought bdsm gear a few years ago and started dominating guys, I've been very pleasantly surprised at how many guys are into pain play. Most may not call it that, but it's sort of what it is. They go fucking wild if I flog their backs or spank their asses deep red, drip hot wax all over them, bust their balls, etc. It drives me wild right back when they blow their loads from the pain without having their cocks touched and when they eagerly show their appreciation to me for inflicting pain on them by giving me an amazing blowjob and swallowing my spunk. Conversely, I've had a few leave disappointed (which is a bummer for both of us) if I didn't give it to them as hard as they needed or could handle.

Finally, it's been my experience (not a scientific study, I know) that the group of guys that make up the ones who want to have pain inflicted on them seem to be the most clean cut, boy-next-door, gym bunny, A&F types -- perhaps not what you think. (If anyone has seen dreamboybondage vids, those sub guys have been the type I've been meeting.) It's been so noticeable to me that I'm starting to wonder if there isn't something to my generalizion... like maybe they get tired of being worshipped for their looks and want to be punished instead or they love the feeling of giving up all control over their bodies and consider being flogged the most intense and pleasurable method. The longest and most intense and satisfying hook ups I've had have been with "pain subs," and they are the group most likely to come back for more.

Anyone else have interest in or experience with any of this?
 
I couldn't agree more.

I am mesmerized by male sexual pleasure in general and I have to admit I am absolutely fascinated by guys reaching sexual pleasure through inflicting pain on other guys. I don't know anything more fascinating. Although I am not a real masochist, I have been a pain slave for a few Masters like you. I then am in the very first row to see the guy's pleasure build up gradually. I don't know anything more fascinating and spectacular.

On the other side I have been a master to some pain slaves. They are great. And yes, as you say, they are numerous. They are the most normal guys you can meet. Nothing kinky about them. On the contrary. Normal, standard everyday guys. Something that astonishes me too. Some married (no marks please, though begging for more and harder at all times).

I will allways remember my first pain Master. I did see him each saturday evening as one of the clients in a gay bar. Once I tried to cruise him, but he immediately warned me: "Didn't they tell you here?". I said no. He said: "I am a sadist. No vanilla, nothing soft". Other guys there who had been with him, confirmed he could be very hard, which frightened me off. A few saturdays later he invited me to dance. It was a slow dance and he squeezed my ass hard and painfully during the whole dance. I felt him getting quite excited over it, which absolutely subjugated me in total fascination. A few time after I went to the toilet. He was there too. We pissed without watching each other. When he finished, he asked: "What would you say if I would squeeze your balls as hard as I did with your ass?". I must have been completely mad at the moment, because I immediately presented him my balls. Then he asked: "You didn't think I would ever squeeze your balls as hard as I squeezed your ass, didn't you?" I said: "I hope so". Then I decided to go with him. We went at his home. He was studying medecine. From then on I did see him all weekends for four years long. Then he finished his study and went abroad. He could be very hard indeed and could play some very sadistic games. He often told me I perfectly suited his needs and I got more and more fascinated by him and the way he reached sexual pleasure. I have to admit I crave to see him back at some time.

My experience is sm in a relationship is quite healthy. It evacuates a lot of psychopathologic bullshit you find in vanilla relationships. Too long to explain and you can only feel it when you have experienced both kinds of relationships. You only actually recognise it when you feel it in the relationship. It is not easy to describe what I exactly mean here. The most strange thing with the 2 pain Masters I have known, is that outside the sm we were total equals, while in vanilla relationships there is always a kind of a subjacent struggle to have the power. Strangely enough that has never been the case with my pain Masters, but both guys were perfectly at peace and at ease with that aspect of their personality.
 
Hi Bulge,

Great email. I agree with you right back.

I find it odd that so few people in this fetish forum seem to be into s&m. Not a criticism, just an observation.

Do you get into pain pics and vids? If so, I'd be happy to share some and discuss them.
 
love it if u shared some please :P and i've been into s and m since i was like....13 (i was a kinky kid). but no ones ever gone far enough for me sadly
 
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To tell the truth, i'm jealous of the guys that can get off by pain.... i'd love be like that.. but i'm no masochist. I just like to try what i can take.. and i like to show it to other, e.g. to be tortuned in some s/m club or in front of other
sub or master. And being watched and kinda "worshipped" for what i can take, that's what gets me hard immediatelly.

So thinking about it, may the the "clean cut, boy-next-door, gym bunny, A&F types" novaguy mentioned just want also another kind of worshipping - like me ;)

From the other side, when i'm having a sub, i love to tortune him, but i'm no sadist either.. i hurt them, but i smooth them after... the real Sugar and Pain :)
 
novaguy35 said:
Hi guys,

Sorry if this has been discussed before, but I've been out of the loop for about the last year.

I'm a total top and have known that since I was a kid and used to hump the couch when I saw superhero cartoon characters bound and gagged. A few years later, I'd run screaming to my room to beat off if I saw guys getting spanked, flogged, racked or whatever.

Since I bought bdsm gear a few years ago and started dominating guys, I've been very pleasantly surprised at how many guys are into pain play. Most may not call it that, but it's sort of what it is. They go fucking wild if I flog their backs or spank their asses deep red, drip hot wax all over them, bust their balls, etc. It drives me wild right back when they blow their loads from the pain without having their cocks touched and when they eagerly show their appreciation to me for inflicting pain on them by giving me an amazing blowjob and swallowing my spunk. Conversely, I've had a few leave disappointed (which is a bummer for both of us) if I didn't give it to them as hard as they needed or could handle.

Finally, it's been my experience (not a scientific study, I know) that the group of guys that make up the ones who want to have pain inflicted on them seem to be the most clean cut, boy-next-door, gym bunny, A&F types -- perhaps not what you think. (If anyone has seen dreamboybondage vids, those sub guys have been the type I've been meeting.) It's been so noticeable to me that I'm starting to wonder if there isn't something to my generalizion... like maybe they get tired of being worshipped for their looks and want to be punished instead or they love the feeling of giving up all control over their bodies and consider being flogged the most intense and pleasurable method. The longest and most intense and satisfying hook ups I've had have been with "pain subs," and they are the group most likely to come back for more.

Anyone else have interest in or experience with any of this?
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wow, very interesting post.
So they blow their loads by spanking them (pain) alone ?

More study is needed, like what sort of childhood they were from, are they the only child, ... etc.
 
novaguy, your post turned me on. lol. :gogirl:

I am into feeling some pain, unfortunately I have not found the right guy yet, one that inflicts it in the right amount. That means I have limited experience, so I have no idea of how far I could go, but I definitely enjoy domination, hitting, gagging, that stuff. Of course I don't want to be hit until I bleed or get bruises, but I want some considerable degree of pain.

My latest boyfriend would hit me in the butt/face lightly during sex or bite me, but he was really afraid to hurt me so it was a bit too lightly/playful for me to count as a real BDSM experience. I also nearly always demanded him to pull my medium-lenghted hair whenever we had sex or kissed - this is a major turn on for me. He did it only really to please me at times but he wasn't into it.

And yes my physical type fits what you described. Slim-to-fit body, I like gym, white/blonde, bit twinkish to my age so I'm told. And I prefer older/taller/larger guy types as a general rule, though I not necessarily always bottom - enjoy all roles. I have no idea if this has any relation to my preferences though.

Answering the main post, yes have interest, and have very limited experience.

Best wishes. :)
 
Hot Hector said:
novaguy, your post turned me on. lol. :gogirl:

I am into feeling some pain, unfortunately I have not found the right guy yet, one that inflicts it in the right amount. That means I have limited experience, so I have no idea of how far I could go, but I definitely enjoy domination, hitting, gagging, that stuff. Of course I don't want to be hit until I bleed or get bruises, but I want some considerable degree of pain.

My latest boyfriend would hit me in the butt/face lightly during sex or bite me, but he was really afraid to hurt me so it was a bit too lightly/playful for me to count as a real BDSM experience. I also nearly always demanded him to pull my medium-lenghted hair whenever we had sex or kissed - this is a major turn on for me. He did it only really to please me at times but he wasn't into it.

And yes my physical type fits what you described. Slim-to-fit body, I like gym, white/blonde, bit twinkish to my age so I'm told. And I prefer older/taller/larger guy types as a general rule, though I not necessarily always bottom - enjoy all roles. I have no idea if this has any relation to my preferences though.

Answering the main post, yes have interest, and have very limited experience.

Best wishes. :)
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so you like abit of pain.
Are you the only child?
You never been spanked by your parents as a child ?
 
Telstra said:
so you like abit of pain.
Are you the only child?
You never been spanked by your parents as a child ?
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Hi Telstra! Yeah, I enjoy it.

I am not the only child, I have a brother but he was born 5 years after me. So I was the only kid for a while.

And yes I was spanked by parents unfortunately. #-o I was a pretty naughty kid who would never sleep. So they did hit me quite a bit, specially my dad (with who I still don't talk much to date).
 
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Hot Hector said:
Hi Telstra! Yeah, I enjoy it.

I am not the only child, I have a brother but he was born 5 years after me. So I was the only kid for a while.

And yes I was spanked by parents unfortunately. #-o I was a pretty naughty kid who would never sleep. So they did hit me quite a bit, specially my dad (with who I still don't talk much to date).
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interesting. You did turn out good tho (healthy & fit gym guy) who likes abit of spanking. I wouldn't mind give you abit of spanking.:p

so clean cut guys likes spanking. :)
 
Hi guys,

Thanks for all the responses.

I've got a super mega ultra hot video clip (if you're into hardcore pain stuff) uploaded to a free file-sharing site that I'm willing to share with anyone who wants to see it. Just send me a Private Message and I'll send you the link.

Be warned, however, that it's not for the faint of heart. It's of an extremely hot, very aggressive, somewhat trashy twink flogging a bound and gagged, masculine, hot-bodied boy-next-door type twink. This vid pics up after the top has tortured the body of the sub by dripping hot wax all over him. He now flogs the wax off his body.

What's fascinating (outside of the fact that the sub has made several of these videos and jerks off after being flogged in a later clip) is watching how the top becomes more aggressive in flogging the sub as the clip goes on. By the end when his testosterone level has hit a fever pitch, he's swinging with all his might.

If you're not into bdsm or pain-type vids, please do not request it and then tell me how disgusting it is.

For those who do request it, you can pay me back by letting me know what you thought of it (hopefully positive - cause I liked it), what you enjoyed and what you would have liked to have seen.
 
pain is something people get used to and can end up needing and enjoying it

which is quite different form the artifical world of people thinking it is something to try or ever understand it

but if it your thing knock your self out

..|:spank::spank::spank:oooh oooh baby you so bad and so macho ..|
Best not fake it if they are :mad:< you don't want to disappoint them
 
For guys into pain, it's not about the pain, it's about power and control. The more pain a top can inflict on his sub, the more powerful he feels. The more pain a bottom gets from his top, the less powerful he feels. And that's what turns these guys (me included) on.

That's why I can't stand cheese ass porn vids where guys dress in leather, tie each other up, do some light butt tapping, and then make out like 1950s teenagers at a drive in theater. It misses the point of why bondage is hot. It's the same psychology behind voyeurism, which is taking something from someone who didn't want to give it up, and exhibitionism, which is giving up your privacy to someone.

Harke, I'd like to chat with ya some time.

Hector, I'd like to get to know you.

Telstra, which child you are has nothing to do with it.
 
actually my bf does psychology and is doing his thesisey thing on sexual fetishism and several researchers believe that one of the possible causes of this particular fetish is being an only or youngest child. don't ask me why cos i didnt pry but theres research to back it up so :)
and just to be on topic
love a good bit of pain. i'm not into like stubbing my toe or something but i love getting slapped aorund by my bf
 
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Telstra said:
So they blow their loads by spanking them (pain) alone ?
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Roger of SF who runs Shotgun videos can cum without touching himself, just by inflicting pain--serious amounts of it--on some bound body builder. His videos are intense, and his cumshots are always amazing.
 
anyankafan said:
actually my bf does psychology and is doing his thesisey thing on sexual fetishism and several researchers believe that one of the possible causes of this particular fetish is being an only or youngest child. don't ask me why cos i didnt pry but theres research to back it up so :)
and just to be on topic
love a good bit of pain. i'm not into like stubbing my toe or something but i love getting slapped aorund by my bf
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I would love to meet your bf. I am a youngest child who loves the sub role. And coincidentally, I love getting my face slapped too!
 
I'm not so much into getting my balls hurt :( ouch LOL

I would love to wrestle a guy! Jokingly at first but then If it got really physical and he won and pinned me down and maybe socked me in the stomach or something to make me stop fighting or tied me down? Or If a guy wanted me to say something really degrading about myself but I wouldn't so he pulled my arm back until I did. hahaha It can also be hot when a guy verbally abuses/degrades you during sex. Anytime out of sex is a definite NO. Or even hotter is if two guys were beating you up and forcing themselves on you..
 
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