i have a question about college years

[DeafFoxDemon]

I am going to college in few months, i want to know what to expect in college. like showers, is it shared or private??

 

[bemerboy]

It depends on the dorm setup. Most newer dorms either have private baths or share a bath with the room next door. Didn't you look at them when you requested what kind of room you want?

 

[DeafFoxDemon]

i am going on a preview day in march, i have a booklet but they didnt have anything about showers in the dorm room

 

[joshieboy19]

What we have here at Michigan State are community bathrooms and suites. Community bathrooms are what a whole floor will use , most have 2 shower stalls, about 5 sinks and a few toilets. The suites are two rooms that are connected by a single bathroom which 4 people share.

 

[ruxxx]

But you actually shower in private, not in a group- if that's what you're
1) worried about.
2) disappointed to know.

 

[DeafFoxDemon]

worried, because i have a lowself esteem, so i have been told, i like to showder in private.

 

[SilverRRCloud]

Dude,

Take it with a complete ease. Communal or not, showers are there for you to shower. Period.

Sure, people look. They look all the time. That's what we have eyes for. So, that's no biggie.

Take a shower and go about doing your business. Do not spend a minute of your life worrying about it. It just ain't worth it.

SC

 

[sliderfan]

I am going to college in few months, i want to know what to expect in college. like showers, is it shared or private??

Expect to find cute boys. Expect to find hot college guys. Expect to meet a lot of new friends. Expect to be able to find yourself, and to be able to try new things without worrying about who you were in high school...

and yeah, if you're expecting to see nonstop cock all the time in the showers...expect to be disappointed, 99% of them are like communal sinks and private showers.

But, like you said, if you're expecting to be constantly self-conscious because 'you're told you have low self-esteem' then tell whoever told you that to fuck off...

you're about to spend the best years of your life surrounded by cute boys in a place where you can reinvent yourself to be whoever you want to be, and have as much confidence as you want to have.

Believe me, I speak from experience. College rocks.

 

[DeafFoxDemon]

i am from alabama, i want to thanks everyone for answering my question.

 

[sliderfan]

Well in that case... Rammer Jammer Yellow Hammer Give 'em Hell Alabama

 

[jfrankie]

Let me add that highschool is a poor indication of how you'll do in college. In fact, there may a sort of "opposite" effect, although I'm not sure how universal that is. I know that I was sort of nerdy and had a small group of friends in highschool and absolutely no know love life. Within about three months in college, I had dozens of friends, I wend to tons of parties, and something like fifty dates... well, not fifty but it felt like fifty. So, my fortunes reversed prettty quickly.

People get to reinvent themselves from time to time. You never know who you might really be. That's what college is for.

 

[RukkuS]

i HIGHLY doubt your dorms will be ghetto enough to make you use a 1 room community shower. My Freshmen year in college we had 2 rooms share 1 bathroom. I toilet stall and 1 shower. It wasn't bad at all. My second year in college, we had community showers down the hall, but they were still individual, we just had to walk down the hall to get to it. It's sorta nice because you can see hot guys walking down the hallways half naked all the time and if your self conscious like myself, then just throw on shorts, a shirt and slippers in the shower stall and walk to your room. No biggie. There were some guys who'd walk down the hall wearing their towel ha.

 

[Paul-1985]

That depends on what part of the globe you are from. Since you don't mention anything in this respect, I take it you are from Asia, like 70% of the world's population ...

Funny how people think! I automatically assumed that hornydeafteen was from the US where most of the Jubbers are from. (In the event, he is!)

However, that's beside the point. I'm posting to say that the main issue, in my view, is this business about you having low esteem. SilverRRCloud, in his post below gives good advice, and I think sliderfan, in the following post, hit the nail on the head when he wrote:

".... if you're expecting to be constantly self-conscious because "you're told you have low self-esteem" then tell whoever told you that to fuck off..."

Well said!

 

[DeafFoxDemon]

once again, thanks for answering my question, the reason why they think i have one, because i am a very quite person and shy. not much outgoing. i would tell them to offfuck but i am too nice

 

[sliderfan]

once again, thanks for answering my question, the reason why they think i have one, because i am a very quite person and shy. not much outgoing. i would tell them to offfuck but i am too nice

well, I'm sure you're fuckin' cute, and you've got the unpretentious attitude too...

for what it's worth, I'd recommend leaving 'Bama for school, though. While it's true that gay boys are everywhere, you need to go to a blue state... you might meet a couple of cute gay boys in Tuscaloosa, but you'll never feel that being gay is 'normal.' Come to the west coast, and you'll be fighting the cute gay boys off so you can get some studying done... trust me, I know from experience.

 

[jfrankie]

once again, thanks for answering my question, the reason why they think i have one, because i am a very quite person and shy. not much outgoing. i would tell them to offfuck but i am too nice

If you want to change that, day one of college is a great time to give it a shot. It'll work, I bet.