HR, Billy, Jess, Justin, Paul, Phil, Ted, Tom, Todd:
I hope you all know how much you have had a significant impact in my life. I have to echo the countless comments of praise, concern, and gratitude from previous readers...and like some of them I am a college kid who has been confronted with the question mark of sexuality and how it will play a role in life.
I'm 19 and somewhat new to sex with guys. I had a couple of circle jerks in hs, but that was pretty much the extent of guy guy fun. Late in my
Freshmen year I ended up messing around with my big bro in my frat- this was when I got my first taste. Yeah yeah, I know this sounds familiar, it's prolly been posted in the JUB forums and threads thousands of times. But my reality is deeper than that and so I decided to contact HR. My mind was so consumed with so much conflict that I felt that HR would be able to help me sort it out.
I started reading ITIK at the beginning of this summer and got into contact with HR sometime in August. For some reason, I figured that because ITIK has touched so many lives he would know how to help pave the path to self-discovery. I know he's not a therapist, although he should be, because he has this awesome ability to get me to reflect and share even though he's someone I've barely met, he's practically a stranger. The most wonderful thing of all is that HR has a genuine empathy for those he comes into contact with, at least that's been my experience. His words of encouragement, especially in the way of sexploration, gave me the courage to face the "demons" inside and the strength to flush them out. HR has helped me deal with my recent break up with my girlfriend, all the while being a cheerleader with all of my self discoveries. Who knows, you just might see my story posted here...
And now I officially have a boyfriend- my big bro in my frat. I am open to seeing how this relationship will develop. Does it make me gay or bi? I don't know and I don't care because those are simply just labels. They will not define me nor will they shape my life. Hell, tits and asses still get me hard and if I meet a girl who gets me emotionally and sexually as much as my boyfriend does then I may have a mind bender on my hands. Whatevs, I'm young and living in the moment and inviting whatever experiences the universe offers up. After all YOLO!!!
This is my first post on JUB ever and I couldn't think of any better way show my gratitude to HR and everyone involved in the ITIK series. THANK YOU!!!!!!!