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Is it considered gay for guys to sit next to each other at Movie Theatre?

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Is it considered gay for guys to sit next to each other at the Movie Theatre?

I consider myself st8 acting but attracted to guys. my st8 best friend (whom I haven't told about my attraction to guys) and I used to go to the Movie Theatre all the time and sit right next to each other in a theatre. But recently he has adopted this idea that this is not ok.

To me, it has never been a gay, st8 or odd thing. I have just always thought it was alright to sit next to each other in a theatre with a girl or another guy and it not be a big deal.

I think I am learning it's one of those "guy code" things, but it's still dumb.

Like, if you are not comfortable enough with ur sexuality (gay or st8) to sit next to a same sex platonic friend in a Movie Theatre, that's kinda lame.

Anyways just wanted thoughts on this. Is this odd? considered gay? too close? Breaking man law?
 
I'm a straight guy and idc who I sit next to at the movie theatre whether it may be a random guy or a friend who's a guy. Me and my best friend sit next to each other in the movie theatre because we believe that that's how it should be. I mean you guys are friends and there's no reason to like move a sit over just because of the guy code. Yeah we follow the guy code too, but not sitting next to you in the movie theatre just cause "it's not right" it's lame. Cause most guys sit next to their friends because obviously they're friends.
 
In addition, I too have gay friends myself and I sit next to them in the movie theatre. I suppose it's just some people. I'm
Cool to whoever I sit or whos sitting next to me
 
depends.
me and my friends tend to spread out when there is room. but if not, i have no problem sitting next to either sex.
 
My best friend used to leave the "no homo" empty seat between us at the movies, but I mocked him relentlessly for it and he's a lot more laid back now that he's married and has kids. I think he's too tired to worry about what strangers might think of him.
 
It's the fucking guy code. What the guy code entails is that you as a man must act as heterosexual as possible in any given situation. My main issue with the guy code, as a phenomenon and as a reality TV show is that it instills the false belief into straight guys that being gay is a choice. By showing any emotion, not bragging about how much pussy they get, by not working out, you're "choosing" to be gay.
 
It's not a strong code. For awhile my cousin and I would separate by a seat, but when the theater filled up we had to sit next to each other. We usually just sit next to each other now whether it is crowded or not. Whatever you and your friends are comfortable with is okay.
 
I think your friend has mis-interpreted the guy code. What kind of a code is it that would not condone two men sitting next to each other to enjoy a movie? What about a meal then? If sitting next to each other over a meal is fine, but not in the cinema, does the code therefore define the cinema as a sleazy joint?

I hope your friend does not interpret the son sitting next to his father as being incestuous.

I have a feeling your friend is not confident over his own sexual stand, and hence is over compensating for his heterosexuality be defining any proximity of his to men as gay.
 
Is it considered gay????? of course not!!!!! Its much easier to give a guy a great blow job that way.
 
He sounds like an ass hole, why bother going to the movie the same night as you. What happens at a restaurant LOL.
 
Thanks guys! I am glad to see that people agree with me.

As I think about this further, he and another friend (whom I know was Is gay but didn't want the world to know) are my only two guys friends who have ever done that with me at the movies. All my other guy friends don't seem to care at all what so ever.

I kinda feel like it's one of those "Protest To Much" situations where u r trying to make it overly clear that ur not gay, cuz u r. At least that's how I feel about my best friend.

I have never done anything to make him believe that I am attracted to him or am gay for him. But he sometimes gives off this vibe like he would be up for it if I told him I was. But then other times he just does weird stuff like this to make it clear (I guess to me and the rest of the world) that he is not gay.

It also kinda feels insulting. Like, I don't want anyone to think I am gay with u or like if he sits right next to me i might start trying to molest him so he has to make it clear that he's not interested by leaving a seat between us.

As much as I love him, He is a weird one sometimes. I think ima call him out about it cuz I hate when he does this.
 
He's just got weird double standards. Like we can go eat out, just him and I, but that's not odd. We can't sit next to each other at the movies but if I happen to stay the night at his place he wants me to sleep with him in his full size bed as opposed to the couch, floor or guest room.

So idk. I think he wants to be closer to me but is afraid to admit it, so he does these odd things to appear as tho he doesn't.
 
BruhBruh2013 said:
We can't sit next to each other at the movies but if I happen to stay the night at his place he wants me to sleep with him in his full size bed as opposed to the couch, floor or guest room.
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It seems to me that maybe he is uncomfotable with what the world would think he is as cinema can be related to "secret date" or "secret sex" ? However he clearly has a problem with himself, because if it was with you he wouldn't be your friend knowing that you didn't tell him your attraction towards men he has nothing to be scared about you... I wonder if it's not just the way he feels he is uncomfortable with...
 
No, it is quite normal and respectful of everyone else at the theater needing a seat.
 
You can follow this two straight guys in this video, and sit close like them:

 
I like to go in the early afternoon where there are so few people it is like a private screening. My nephew who is my closest male friend (nephew from wife's side so we are not blood related) usually set with plenty of room around us. If the theater were crowed we would definitely set next to each other. We always hug when parting and I usually kiss him on the neck. When he was living with my wife and I ,we were always in the bed together watching tv,dvds. That sounds weird but it isn't because he got a widescreen when he moved in.Since it was his he got to choose where to put his tv. He also loved my massages.
 
I don't think so. If your friend is not comfortable of sitting next to a friend (guy) in the movie theatre, then he might be gay but is afriad of his own sexualality. Just a thought. ;)
 
Of course it's considered gay. It's scientifically proven that even straight men will succumb to primal urges and resort to oral sex on each other when they're that close to each other.
 
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