Need Advice Is it weird that I am into older men?

[Shelby29]

...now in my 60's I like young guys.

Yeah, me too!

 

[GayGHOF]

Yeah, me too!

I have a gay friend my age and we had a 22 y/o bi-guy we spilt-roasted!

 

[uncut7in]

Not at all weird - in fact I'm very glad to hear it, I'm 70 and like fucking guys your age.

 

[HornybiHubby59]

Okay so I'm like 18, gay male and bottom. I usually find myself dating top guys way older than me. The minimum being 55+. I usually get approached by older gay men a lot.

There's something about mature man that turns me on, like their maturity, independence, ability to take care of me, and they just seem sexy overall!

I think the reason for this is maybe that I never really had a father figure in my life as me and my father are very distant and we have a bitter relationship, I also hate him as well!

I told my gay friend about this and he says its weird and I should be going for guys my age and he said, ''Its like dating your dad, its gross!'' he also added that these older men I date are usually creeps with pedophelic tendencies!. (Which I do not agree on as I am not a child physically, however, I am smooth, skinny and a twink, so that's what my friends is talking about when he meant, 'pedophelic tendencies').

Older men are not creeps or pedophile...actually we can't generalize that.
If you feel good about having attraction to older men it's not wrong or bad.
Humans write rules in order to reflect morality (that is hypocrisy)
All of us have dark and dirty secrets we hide from other people...do you have any secrets?

 

[Sniffademskidz]

Well Irvine I doubt whether you still frequent this forum as your last input was nearly eight years ago!

However I'm sure that we older men are positively salivating at the thought of what you've been up to or rather "what's been up you" in the last eight years!

We're reaching out to you so.if you are there please don't disappoint us!

 

[HotboyJay]

I love age gaps. Since my younger days, I've experienced quite a bit & have NO shame in it

 

[HornybiHubby59]

When I was young I had a friend...he was maybe 40 years older than me...I remember when I first met him...I have to be honest...I liked him and I felt like I had to have sex with him...I can't explain how I felt...I wanted him inside me sooo bad

 

[BiBtm64]

Okay so I'm like 18, gay male and bottom. I usually find myself dating top guys way older than me. The minimum being 55+. I usually get approached by older gay men a lot.

There's something about mature man that turns me on, like their maturity, independence, ability to take care of me, and they just seem sexy overall!

I think the reason for this is maybe that I never really had a father figure in my life as me and my father are very distant and we have a bitter relationship, I also hate him as well!

I told my gay friend about this and he says its weird and I should be going for guys my age and he said, ''Its like dating your dad, its gross!'' he also added that these older men I date are usually creeps with pedophelic tendencies!. (Which I do not agree on as I am not a child physically, however, I am smooth, skinny and a twink, so that's what my friends is talking about when he meant, 'pedophelic tendencies').

It’s not weird at all to be into older men. Everyone has their own attractions, and it’s completely natural to feel drawn to older men, especially if you’ve lacked a connection with your father. Older men can offer emotional maturity and a sense of security that may have been missing for you.

It sounds like you’re looking for something stable, nurturing, and confident, which can be really healing. Plus, older men often bring more sexual experience and confidence, which can positively affect the relationship dynamic.

As long as the connection is respectful, healthy, and consensual, there’s nothing wrong with how you feel. It’s not for your friend to decide what’s right for you, and he’s also overgeneralizing when he mentions pedophilic tendencies. You're an adult, and it’s up to you to decide whether the attraction is based on your qualities or just on your physical appearance. It’s important to be aware of what kind of connection you're forming and whether it’s mutual and respectful on all levels.

 

[Pete120]

It is fucking hot! i am into silver daddies and grandpas too. Mature men love to have a sexy stud like you.