I've had gay sex but I'm not gay

[naztypanty]

I wonder if u like transexual/lady boys? If its the cock and femininity, u might light tgirls. I see a lot of "sissification" tgirl porn where a "straight guy" will cross dress then get fucked by a tranny.

I am not into tgirls but i watch tgirl porn for the guys who fuck them like Spencer Fox and Giovanni Francesco.

Wow, thanks everyone for your input.
I don't really like tgirls or ladyboys. I don't like the fake breasts. I like a woman with very small breasts. I understand that in South America and other countries it is not acceptable to be a gay man but if you go as a tgirl it is more acceptable.

I know a lot of gay men, I work in theater: lighting and rigging (the masculine stuff) and grew up with gay family. Gay men, in my experience, are generally not interested in cross dressing, with the occasional drag shows or campy show excepted. I don't completely dress up, not even interested. I like wearing lingerie: garterbelts, stockings, bras, panties and such. It makes me feel sexy. I like imagining I am a hot girl posing in lingerie for an audience and camera. The crossdressing fetish world seems to be mostly straight or bisexual men. I would really like to find a guy similar to me where we could dress up in lingerie, look at straight and gay porn, then play with each other's nipples and cocks.

Meanwhile, I have been married and have a child. Currently, I'm living with a woman and we have good sex regularly. But often when I'm fucking her I wish I was in her place: on my back, legs open, receiving cock.

Anyway, thanks again for the feedback.

Cheers!

 

[palbert]

You are a veritable smorgasbord of sex. Don't tire.

 

[EJMichaels]

I'd say you're a hot example of the inadequacy of the term "bisexual" for all the wondrous ways to be non-straight.

 

[hermanding]

just be YOU and forget all about the labels

 

[ElmosToe]

I'd say you're a hot example of the inadequacy of the term "bisexual" for all the wondrous ways to be non-straight.

^this, all the way.

My dick twitches when I read that. (yeah, I prob need therapy, oh well.)

 

[jktoooo]

Wow, thanks everyone for your input.
I don't really like tgirls or ladyboys. I don't like the fake breasts. I like a woman with very small breasts. I understand that in South America and other countries it is not acceptable to be a gay man but if you go as a tgirl it is more acceptable.

I know a lot of gay men, I work in theater: lighting and rigging (the masculine stuff) and grew up with gay family. Gay men, in my experience, are generally not interested in cross dressing, with the occasional drag shows or campy show excepted. I don't completely dress up, not even interested. I like wearing lingerie: garterbelts, stockings, bras, panties and such. It makes me feel sexy. I like imagining I am a hot girl posing in lingerie for an audience and camera. The crossdressing fetish world seems to be mostly straight or bisexual men. I would really like to find a guy similar to me where we could dress up in lingerie, look at straight and gay porn, then play with each other's nipples and cocks.

Meanwhile, I have been married and have a child. Currently, I'm living with a woman and we have good sex regularly. But often when I'm fucking her I wish I was in her place: on my back, legs open, receiving cock.

Anyway, thanks again for the feedback.

Cheers!

The cross dressing in reference to the tgirl was mostly that the guys who get fucked usually get fucked while wearing lingerie (what u mentioned) get fucked by tgirls. But, im with u, i am NOT into tgirls AT ALL. I find them creepy, i watch for the guys who fuck trannys.

Maybe tell your GF to wear a strap on and see how u like that. I dunno, unless you prefer getting f'd by a guy?

 

[alxwhtmr95]

a lot of gay guys have experimented with women- hell, society almost demands it (what's the first thing they say when you tell them you're gay...'have you ever been with a woman- how do you know?') A lot of gay guys fall for that and try it....doesn't make any of them str8 or even bi- justr capable of sex with women...I think sexuality is about love and desire/passion- not just sex...if you've fallen in love with only women- you're str8, if you've fallen for both- you;re bi, if it's only men- you are gay....define yourself.

 

[jktoooo]

a lot of gay guys have experimented with women- hell, society almost demands it (what's the first thing they say when you tell them you're gay...'have you ever been with a woman- how do you know?') A lot of gay guys fall for that and try it....doesn't make any of them str8 or even bi- justr capable of sex with women...I think sexuality is about love and desire/passion- not just sex...if you've fallen in love with only women- you're str8, if you've fallen for both- you;re bi, if it's only men- you are gay....define yourself.

The love part of ur comment seems so me so spot on! But i might say if you have ONLY fallen in love with only women and can ONLY have sex with women you are straight (this is the COMPLETe opposite of me). If you have fallen in love with women, and can fall in love with a man or sometimes or occasionally desire a man, you are bi..

Anyway, good luck and best wishes.

 

[LAPan75]

Most people aren't Gay, they are a degree of Bi....
any Bell curve siting Straight & Gay as the extreme ends will tell you that. ​

 

[naztypanty]

The cross dressing in reference to the tgirl was mostly that the guys who get fucked usually get fucked while wearing lingerie (what u mentioned) get fucked by tgirls. But, im with u, i am NOT into tgirls AT ALL. I find them creepy, i watch for the guys who fuck trannys.

Maybe tell your GF to wear a strap on and see how u like that. I dunno, unless you prefer getting f'd by a guy?

I'm not interested in being fucked by my gf in a strap-on. I prefer that she be feminine and not be in a "top" position at all. I want to be fucked by a man. I like the fantasy of being submissive, with my cock soft and "useless" as I spread my legs.

My other man-on-man sexual fantasies include being naked outdoors in the wilderness hiking with frequent encounters with other hiking men. I like frottage; nothing is hotter than cock rubbing cock until they cum. Gloryholes are a turn-on, especially sucking an anonymous cock. I fantasize about watersports and have had women and men pee on me. I also love my cock and ball leather snap toys, tightly binding my nuts and cock until the pain becomes pleasure.

There is a Midtowne Spa close to me. Sometimes I go there to walk naked and look at guys stroking their cocks. Fear of disease is the only reason I don't move in and become a total slut. The fact that guys are there to have sex... no talking, no kissing, no games is part of the turn-on. "What do you like?" being the only question.