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So there's this guy at gym I always stare at. I feel he does stare at me as well, I'm pretty sure he's gay too, and he probably knows about me so that's not a "is he gay?" thread. I had a weird problem today though, read on.

Today I was happily working out and he arrived at the gym. The moment he approached, I was laughing alone with my thoughts, so my 'hi' was pretty funny, although awkward because I didn't want to embarass him or make him think I'm laughing at him for flirting with me or that stuff.

After that initial contact today, he caught me laughing once, he smiled and I quickly looked away. Then I could barely look at his face again because I knew I would burst out laughing. #-o I had to switch exercises once because I couldn't stand by his side or I'd laugh. WTF is up with me, maybe I'm nervous around him? Today I went home and didn't even say bye to him because I fucking knew I would laugh... I hope it wasn't rude...

What should I do to stop this? I wonder if he will be upset or I just came out to him even more? I might not even have a chance with him (he could have a BF...), but it would be nice to approach him to at least make a new friend.

Any hints on what to say next? I'd like him as a friend at least. :help:
 
Try this. Next time you see him say "Look, I don't want you to think I'm nuts or something, I was laughing the other day, because I was kinda nervous about meeting you. You're cute and I get giddy when I see a guy I like. Wanna grab some coffee after we work out?" This will completely disarm him, I promise.
 
Your fine. You, the embarressed one keeps thinking about this because it made you feel wierd, but he prolly has forgotten about it already. Approach him in a nonchallent way and ask him what classes he has, make small talk. Be funny. That always seems to work for me. Then it can potentially go further from there.
 
Either that, your the fact that you looked away after he caught you laughing, changed machines when he was near, and left without saying good bye could have made him really antsy around you. Just fyi.

My suggestion follow jackoroe's advice, perhaps not with the giddiness, but at least tell him something along the lines of, 'I'm sorry about yesterday/the other day but I was laughing when you came in about (insert subject matter here) and you came in and the look you gave me was funny, so when i saw you again I kept thinkin about that look and laughing. I didn't mean to be rude I wasn't laughing at you so much as your expression'

If your sure he's gay or at least that you don't mind being out to him the go with the giddy young padiwan.
 
Laughing is a great way to make the other side talk and laugh with you.

So just laugh there and don't go away and laugh by yourself.
Laughing is ALWAYS good, so don't hide your laugh.
 
The way to stop the laughing pattern is to walk up and introduce yourself the next time you see him. Once you do that, you'll find the nervous laughter will subside.
 
Laughed? Is that what they call it these days?

That's actually adorable though to laugh in anxiety.
 
Thanks guys, I guess I'll follow your advice and try coming close to start some conversation next time I meet him.

Some small talk should do it, I am not too bad/lame at it, although pretty shy.

Then I'll tell what happened. :P
 
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