chrisdobro
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I went to a bi massage cock touch party.
Basically it was groups of guys, where a number of guys were massaging one guy. Then after some time, the guy would switch and massaging continued until everyone was massaged. The host would come out of his den once in a while and tell the guys to turn over or to switch. It was my first time, so I just followed and watched. And massaged and was massaged. I liked one guy called Jeff. He was really nice. I wasn't sure if he liked me back. Everyone was kind of into massaging whomever was being massaged and no one really looked around much, except at their hands doing the massage and the guy being massaged. Everybody was kind of nice more or less, the only guy I was not really into much was the older guy in the group.
When everybody had their turn, the host said okay here's some lube and condoms, feel free to use the room in the back, and left back to his den. Then everyone sat back and just stared at each other and I was thinking like .. what .. now. So the hot boy Jeff says something to the older guy next to him and the older guy moves away from the group and starts massaging Jeff. ANd I'm like what now lol. So I moved on to some other guy who had a nice body and massaged him for a bit. Jeff & his guy went to a separate room and closed the door. After that, but then the party kind of split up. There was another couple of guys in the corner massaging each other but then they also left.
Ideally I would have liked to join Jeff. And I just sat there in my passivity till he took the initiative and picked a guy.
My take: Looking back, ideally I could ask Jeff first right away to massage him or something. After Jeff was taken, I could ask Jeff if I could also massage him along with the other guy. Since Jeff asked the guy, I would ask Jeff first if I could join in.
Hosts' take: I talked to the host aftwards, mentioning to him that I liked Jeff. Host said well join in! I said they went into a room and closed the door. Host said "weird. Maybe they didn't want the light being on. You could still go into the room and touch them".
Now, my take again - well I was slow on the uptake of the guy, but hosts' suggestion to just barge into their room sounded off to me. I mean if two guys pair up and go into a room and close the door, probably they want some privacy. I should mention it that host hosted the party for years, so he would or should know a thing or two about human relations, but his views contradicted mine.
Anyway, what is the proper etiquette at a party like this, if I like a certain guy? Consider too that I am indeed slower on the uptake, it was my first party, and I was observing. So me asking the guy first may be ideal, but if I do miss that opportunity, what is the etiquette to approach him anyway, and is it at all appropriate?
Basically it was groups of guys, where a number of guys were massaging one guy. Then after some time, the guy would switch and massaging continued until everyone was massaged. The host would come out of his den once in a while and tell the guys to turn over or to switch. It was my first time, so I just followed and watched. And massaged and was massaged. I liked one guy called Jeff. He was really nice. I wasn't sure if he liked me back. Everyone was kind of into massaging whomever was being massaged and no one really looked around much, except at their hands doing the massage and the guy being massaged. Everybody was kind of nice more or less, the only guy I was not really into much was the older guy in the group.
When everybody had their turn, the host said okay here's some lube and condoms, feel free to use the room in the back, and left back to his den. Then everyone sat back and just stared at each other and I was thinking like .. what .. now. So the hot boy Jeff says something to the older guy next to him and the older guy moves away from the group and starts massaging Jeff. ANd I'm like what now lol. So I moved on to some other guy who had a nice body and massaged him for a bit. Jeff & his guy went to a separate room and closed the door. After that, but then the party kind of split up. There was another couple of guys in the corner massaging each other but then they also left.
Ideally I would have liked to join Jeff. And I just sat there in my passivity till he took the initiative and picked a guy.
My take: Looking back, ideally I could ask Jeff first right away to massage him or something. After Jeff was taken, I could ask Jeff if I could also massage him along with the other guy. Since Jeff asked the guy, I would ask Jeff first if I could join in.
Hosts' take: I talked to the host aftwards, mentioning to him that I liked Jeff. Host said well join in! I said they went into a room and closed the door. Host said "weird. Maybe they didn't want the light being on. You could still go into the room and touch them".
Now, my take again - well I was slow on the uptake of the guy, but hosts' suggestion to just barge into their room sounded off to me. I mean if two guys pair up and go into a room and close the door, probably they want some privacy. I should mention it that host hosted the party for years, so he would or should know a thing or two about human relations, but his views contradicted mine.
Anyway, what is the proper etiquette at a party like this, if I like a certain guy? Consider too that I am indeed slower on the uptake, it was my first party, and I was observing. So me asking the guy first may be ideal, but if I do miss that opportunity, what is the etiquette to approach him anyway, and is it at all appropriate?
