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Met up with a straight guy last night on Craigslist...Need some help/advice/reassurance!

TheRebel-JimmyDean said:
Really, you think? I never even thought about that until I read these posts. I guess I'm just massively naïve because I honestly thought he was just a heavy sleeper. I tend to just believe people most of the time because I'm always pretty honest and say what I feel and express my intentions clearly so I suppose I just expect the same from others.

I still haven't really had any reassurance that what went down was ok. Still not sure what his deal was or what he was really looking for from me but I just want to make sure it wasn't me who did something weird or strange or took advantage of some poor drugged out or possibly narcoleptic straight guy.

And it's a definite NO if he ever contacts me again? And if he does for some reason, should I be sure to confront him about what happened to make sure we are on the same page before meeting up again or just let it go and see how the second meet up goes?

I really hope that people believe that I am sincere. It was pretty disappointing to see the first few replies were people thinking I just made this whole thing up. I know there are a lot of crazy people who make shit up online but I am not one of those people. This really did happen, which is why I'm so desperate for answers/opinions/responses. I've only talked to two of my closest friends about this today and they both thought it was pretty weird, yet obvious that this guy was into what was going on and assured me I didn't take advantage of him. I guess I was just hoping that my fellow gays (all of whom I assume have WAY more sexual experience than I do) would reassure me the same thing. Or at least advice me to either A) Stay the fuck away from him for good or B) Try and see how much further I can take it with him.

I have no intention to contact him either. I will definitely leave the ball in his court if he wants to meet up again.
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I believe you.
You should know there are alot of negative people on here and they would say no to every little risk you take. They even say "rape" or "sexual harassment" for fooling around with friends.

Also, they don't believe the things i post either ...
 
Telstra said:
I believe you.
You should know there are alot of negative people on here and they would say no to every little risk you take. They even say "rape" or "sexual harassment" for fooling around with friends.

Also, they don't believe the things i post either ...
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It's probably because you're Australian :lol:

jk. jk.

omg. speaking of australians, i used to work with this lebanese-australian, damn! that little muthafucka is hawt! there must be something in the water there, mate. all the young australian guys that i've met are so fucking hot!
 
bruce379 said:
It's probably because you're Australian :lol:

jk. jk.

omg. speaking of australians, i used to work with this lebanese-australian, damn! that little muthafucka is hawt! there must be something in the water there, mate. all the young australian guys that i've met are so fucking hot!
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mmmm ok i'll take your word for it. :lol:
Keep an eye on that petty creature that he may respond to my every post again.
 
Has any one noticed that these massage hookups have an element of willing - but unvoiced - seduction. At what point does arousing someone - obviously not really asleep - go too far and become sexual assault/battery? Not having ever been in a massage situation I can't begin to say. What happens if the guy is a psycho and calls the cops? Or becomes hostile and the massager calls the cops? Anyone have any experience with that?
 
palbert said:
Has any one noticed that these massage hookups have an element of willing - but unvoiced - seduction. At what point does arousing someone - obviously not really asleep - go too far and become sexual assault/battery? Not having ever been in a massage situation I can't begin to say. What happens if the guy is a psycho and calls the cops? Or becomes hostile and the massager calls the cops? Anyone have any experience with that?
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Yes i have plenty of experience.
Your question is as good as, don't go out you might get killed.
 
Stop blaming yourself. You didn't take advantage of him in any way. Quite the contrary. He set you up knowing full well what he wanted and what he was going to do. The "deep sleeping" is a ruse. He's as straight as you are meaning he's a closet case (pun intended) and this way he gets to fool around with a guy and then be able to deny it later or play it off as if he were dreaming. I'm a licensed massage therapist and I've had lots of clients fall asleep during the massage. I assure you he didn't fall into that deep of a sleep after a few minutes of you rubbing him. He knew full well what he was doing. Had he actually been straight he would have left his underwear on and not asked you to be totally naked. He was not on drugs. He was faking he was asleep. There's red flags all over this that are screaming set up.

You have be very careful meeting up with guys. Especially those that want it pitch dark and going into a dark closet. Your lucky you left alive.

Feel free to pm me we can talk more. I'll gladly talk more with you about this

Steven
 
Georgiadude said:
Stop blaming yourself. You didn't take advantage of him in any way. Quite the contrary. He set you up knowing full well what he wanted and what he was going to do. The "deep sleeping" is a ruse. He's as straight as you are meaning he's a closet case (pun intended) and this way he gets to fool around with a guy and then be able to deny it later or play it off as if he were dreaming. I'm a licensed massage therapist and I've had lots of clients fall asleep during the massage. I assure you he didn't fall into that deep of a sleep after a few minutes of you rubbing him. He knew full well what he was doing. Had he actually been straight he would have left his underwear on and not asked you to be totally naked. He was not on drugs. He was faking he was asleep. There's red flags all over this that are screaming set up.

You have be very careful meeting up with guys. Especially those that want it pitch dark and going into a dark closet. Your lucky you left alive.

Feel free to pm me we can talk more. I'll gladly talk more with you about this

Steven
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Good advice, yea pitch dark is abit suspect.
 
Curious did his hole look like it had been penetrated..to me if he paid that attention-making sure it was soapy clean and probably totally smooth and from the sounds maybe lubed up that he wanted you to penetrate his ass but was not into making a scene about it. Curious to know if he called or reached back to you
 
bijockdude said:
Curious did his hole look like it had been penetrated..to me if he paid that attention-making sure it was soapy clean and probably totally smooth and from the sounds maybe lubed up that he wanted you to penetrate his ass but was not into making a scene about it. Curious to know if he called or reached back to you
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The thing is, because it was pitch black, I couldn't actually see his hole. But based on how hard a time I had getting my tongue in it and how tight it felt when I was poking/playing with it, it didn't seem as though he had ever done anal before. But again, being a virgin, I have no idea what it is suppose to look or feel like anyway. And so far, no, I have not heard from him again.
 
The guy reeeeeeeeally needs to pretend he's straight in order to get off. Another guy might have reeeeeallly needed to pretend to be Princess Sparkle Pony. So he pretty much doesn't care what turns you on or how you fit into it other than he gets to play straight.

If that remotely turns you on, go for it. "Pretend straight guy" doesn't turn me on any more than if he was galloping around the room in glittery tights, but to each his own.
 
That guy had to be on drugs, he sounds like he was on heroin. I met a "Straight" guy i knew for a while on facebook and he was obs on drugs he kept falling asleep every time we talked and kissed. And he kept saying he was in pain and/or sleepy we messed around and i had to wake him up scary scary shit. He was really warm like he had a fever or something. We didn't had sex we just cuddled and kissed and he sucked me off and Make a long story short he finished me off and i took him "Home" and a few days later he got arrested the 2nd time for heroin.


This guy was really really attractive and very sweet. its just sad to find out he was a druggie and got arrested. But all of us need to be careful who we meet online especially on craigslist everyone always have an issue.

But if i was you i would run very very fast
 
Just make sure you write down the address where you are going and tell someone. I always let my friends know where I'm going and what to expect from me if I'm hooking up and might stay over.

Guys are decent most of the time and I have no doubt this is just one of those weird fences guys put up when they are in the closet. This guy wants dick and man-pussy no doubt about it.
 
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be careful! this time he was pretending be asleep so you could do anything to him, the next time he can pretend he is asleep and try to rape u and then say he wasnt aware.
 
troncosoxl said:
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be careful! this time he was pretending be asleep so you could do anything to him, the next time he can pretend he is asleep and try to rape u and then say he wasnt aware.
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I don't think so. These guys post the same thing on CL over and over whenever they get horny. Ho-hum. Same old. Same old.

Give him the best blow job you can give so he keeps looking for more.
 
Well I sent him a quick reply just saying hey and asking what he was looking for, but he never responded back so I guess that's that! Wouldn't have gone tonight anyway though since there is a snowstorm right now.

And yes sixthson, I did enjoy it the first time which is why I was having so many conflicting emotions about it. I enjoyed it, of course, I'm a gay man who got to fool around with another attractive man! What's not to enjoy? It was very enjoyable through out up until the very end when he suddenly pretended like it didn't happen. Then I was just confused/felt a little awkward because I didn't know how to react to his sudden "amnesia."

So yeah, thought I'd let you all know I'm still home and didn't meet up with him. Kind of a bit disappointed but at the same time not really!
 
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