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Charliose

Charliose

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This may be a bit long, but it may not be. I'll know when I'm finished.

I don't know if I told yuou guys about when or how I came out to my mother, so I 'll start with that.

I have a thing for Erotica (or at least (HAD athing) and I bought a book and bought it to my mom's house while visiting her. I left it hidden in my pillowcase, thinking that she would not 'accidentaly' find it. It turns out that she goes through all of my stuff whenever I visit her, to see if I have any 'demonic influences' on me. So she found it and told me it was 'just a phase' and all that goodness. Then she asked me to reconsider my lifestyle, and I told her I would just so she would stop.

It hasn't come up again yet, but I think before I leave for boot camp I should bring it up again, and tell the rest of my family as well. I think one of my older sisters knows, more or less, but doesn't care as long as I don't bring my 'lifestyle' into here house. (Ala, no porn surfing on her computer). But at least three of my siblings don't.

I have to go so more on this later... (Too bad there isn't a blog.)
 
MOM'S...KNOW!! GOD BLESS THEM!!

My Mother Knew when I liked a Young ( ADULT ) MAN! ... She once made a comment when meeting him the first time..... About my lover DAVID.. " CAN he "BE" anymore HANDSOME!!


My MOM was COOL!!

DAVID WAS .... WELL??? I can,t tell all my SECRETS!!!
 
My mother is pentecostal so I kinda know what you must go through. If it would lift a burden off of you before you leave then go ahead & come out.

Be who you are, and be it unafraid.
 
My mom offered to get me help so I could be "cured". I declined. We havent spoken in thirty years. Bigots come in all forms.
 
All my Mom said was "I'm not taking the heat for this one!" And once she met my partner/spouse/bf (now ex) she treated him just like my brother in laws, which was very good and just a part of the family.
 
Living in the closet is a form torture. It was easy for me to tell Mom; hell she was a fag hag. I know that's not the case for a lot of people. However, doesn't it say someplace that you'll know the truth, and the truth shall set you free? At the end of the day, the choice is yours, and I'll respect your decision.
 
My mother told me. She was a southern grand dame of the highest order but with the attitude and demeanor of Bea Arthur's Maude. As a matter of fact she could have been Bea Arthur's sister and was often mistaken for her by strangers.

When I was 24 she and my father were visiting from California. We were talking one night about "things" in general and she brought up my brother and sister and their failed marriages. Then she looked at me and said "you're the only one of my children I can count on having a stable relationship and when you find a good man I'll be very happy". That was that, case closed, end of discussion, next topic please.

She was one fine steel magnolia, that broad.
 
Charliose, yeah, keep bringing it up. Don't just let it sit there like the legendary elephant in the living room. It usually takes parents a while to get used to the idea that their son is gay, but if they love you they'll eventually come around. Any chance that they'd be interested in PFLAG?
 
^ Ya think?

I think Mr. R. should be slapping himself upside the head.

Although, the whole idea of hiding something from a mother in a pillowcase is just so cute.

Hopefully the OP made up a song and belted his coming out announcement to his whole family standing in the middle of the dining room table on a high holiday and has gone on to find enduring love and passion.
 
rareboy said:
Hopefully the OP made up a song and belted his coming out announcement to his whole family standing in the middle of the dining room table on a high holiday and has gone on to find enduring love and passion.
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Did you know Charliose? He lived in Winchester, Virginia. That would be a nice ending to his story, if it did happen that way. But now we will probably never know, unless someone who knows Charliose sees this and lets him know we are asking.
 
I still have not watch Mommie Dearest yet.
Is it any good or just waste time ?
 
Oops, correction. Charliose was in Woodbridge, not Winchester, Virginia, and maybe still is.

And Telstra, try reading the book. You can't spend your life watching videos and other visuals.
 
My parents and my siblings and I had a great relationship.

Many years ago, there was someone who I thought was going to "out me" to my Mom. My partner and I had been together for about a year at the time. I was not officially out to them. I had already moved into a 1 bedroom apt with my partner. My partner kept telling me "she knows!"
I went to my childhood home and sat down with her said something to the effect of "Mom, no Mother and son have ever been closer than us. But, there's one thing that I haven't been able to talk to you about." She said "You mean about you and Frank?" "I don't have a problem with it. I just don't think you should tell your daddy." ( He and Frank were actually very close) Within 20 seconds she asked me "Do you like my ear rings? I just bought them yesterday."
No trauma no drama. She and Dad both liked Frank very much. Dad used to spend a a lot of time with Frank. Mom and Dad were cool! Miss them both dearly!
 
MrRochesterNY said:
Oops, correction. Charliose was in Woodbridge, not Winchester, Virginia, and maybe still is.

And Telstra, try reading the book. You can't spend your life watching videos and other visuals.
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Yes i can.
Reading book hurt my eyes, so i will not until the end of life. :lol:

Question, did Trump read any books ? and what books did he read.
 
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