My first sexual experience.....finally....

[ross_1986]

Well, I'm not the type of person that's really into the 'hook-up' type of thing. But yesterday, my curiousitiy got the best of me.

I was chatting with this guy from my town on the this site, and we decided to meet each other. So we did. And when we did, we did some stuff. We didn't actually have sex, but we did everything leading up to that. I told him I was a virgin, and that I didn't just want to lose my virginity like that. And he was cool with that (he already knew this prior to us meeting). In fact, I havne't done anything with a guy before.

He was really cute, and nice, but I don't tihnk we'll ever meet up agian, because we both really only wanted some 'action', and that was it.

I feel kind of weird now, because it is so not like me to just go and do something like this (and anyone who knows me on here, knows that). But I'm living in a new town now, and I thought that I'd take a little risk. I'm glad that I did, because at least some of my curiosities were put to rest. I also learned that this 'hook-up' type thing really isn't for me, so it's probably not something that I'll be doing in the future.

It really wasn't that pleasurable for me because I was so nervous, and not really relaxed, but I think it was for him...actually I know it was for him.

There's not really any point to this thread. I thought that I'd just share this little experience with you guys.

 

[ross_1986]

Aw, our little Rossy's all grown up.

It's about damn time

 

[MidnightPrism]

Not yet

We didn't actually have sex, but we did everything leading up to that.

but I'm willing to help

 

[HartfordGuy]

Ah, welcome to the world of the hook up.

You are absolutely correct in how you described it. They are unfulfilling for the most part. Some guys just like the "chase" or the "Hunt".

Truth is, you are usually better off with a good video and a wank at home. LOL

 

[ross_1986]

Ah, welcome to the world of the hook up.

You are absolutely correct in how you described it. They are unfulfilling for the most part. Some guys just like the "chase" or the "Hunt".

Truth is, you are usually better off with a good video and a wank at home. LOL

I honestly think that now, lol.

 

[buzzj]

Yes, there IS a point to your post, Ross, the truth.

It is your experience and your honest reactions to it.

Thank you for sharing so honestly something so personal.

Hope you find Mr. Right and get to experiment with someone when you're on fire, instead of just in heat.

Well said! Hard-up1, I think you've hit the nail on the head!!

 

[Soilwork]

Some hook ups are great if you really click with the guy and feel that animal energy.

Some are fine.. fun in a way..

Some are horrible, but you'll learn to avoid those.

But yeah, hookups aren't really for me anymore either.

 

[jerich69]

Damn I gonna met someone on tuesday! And this my 1st time to hook up to someone I really don't know! And I don't know what is going to happend! He's 33 yrs old and I'm 22 but I like older guys! wish me luck guys!

 

[puka-pride]

well babe i'm sorry to hear you regret it... and i'm sorry to hear he didn't make u feel more comfortable...

 

[ross_1986]

well babe i'm sorry to hear you regret it... and i'm sorry to hear he didn't make u feel more comfortable...

Thanks Puka , but I don't regret it.

 

[SilverRRCloud]

Ross,

Ask yourself couple of questions and answer them truthfully for yourself.

You decided to try that 'hook-up thing' but you had known even beforehand that you were not going to really like it. Right?

You stressed that you were a virgin, the guy did not go all the way, he was nice and showed lots of understanding, but you now feel pretty empty. You are not going to see him again. Right?

Hook-ups are not for everybody. Just like LTRs are not for everybody, and just like there are very, very few things in this world that are really for everybody.

My point: do not try to do things, unless you are reasonably sure that you have no pre-set opinion about how you are going to like them afterwards.

No point in tasting caviar, if you are sure that you are going to hate eating fish eggs.


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[ross_1986]

Ross,

Ask yourself couple of questions and answer them truthfully for yourself.

You decided to try that 'hook-up thing' but you had known even beforehand that you were not going to really like it. Right?

I didn't say anywhere that I knew beforehand that I wasn't going to like it. I said that it's not my thing because I haven't done it before. And I never actually said that I didn't like it, I said I felt weird b/c it was unusual for me...

You stressed that you were a virgin, the guy did not go all the way, he was nice and showed lots of understanding, but you now feel pretty empty. You are not going to see him again. Right?

Yes, he was nice and understanding, but that 'empty' feeling wasn't because of how he was, the feeling is from there not being any connection besides the physical side.

Hook-ups are not for everybody. Just like LTRs are not for everybody, and just like there are very, very few things in this world that are really for everybody.

I know their not for everybody... And I realized now AFTER I had done it that they are not for me.

My point: do not try to do things, unless you are reasonably sure that you have no pre-set opinion about how you are going to like them afterwards.

No point in tasting caviar, if you are sure that you are going to hate eating fish eggs.

I didn't have a pre-set opinion. I said it wasn't my thing, basically because I had never done it before and it doesn't seem like something that I would do, but that doesn't mean that I 100% against it, and that I shouldn't have tried it. There's lots of things that I've tried before that I didn't know for sure (or think) I would like. But I tried anyways, because you never know. Some of them I ended up liking, some of them I didn't. But now I know FOR SURE the answer to these questions because I did go out and do these things. I don't regret this at all.