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My Roommate Keeps Touching Himself In Front Of Me!!!

There was a moment I felt like we both wanted to put our hand on the other's lap since we were so close to each other but we didn't (I was too afraid to even move). I don't have much experience with coming onto guys yet and I still get nervous, especially if I'm not sure the guy's into it. I think I might mention something to him about being open sexually and see how he responds. I don't think he would be upset or stop talking to me but I'm not really sure.
 
curboi321 said:
There was a moment I felt like we both wanted to put our hand on the other's lap since we were so close to each other but we didn't (I was too afraid to even move). I don't have much experience with coming onto guys yet and I still get nervous, especially if I'm not sure the guy's into it. I think I might mention something to him about being open sexually and see how he responds. I don't think he would be upset or stop talking to me but I'm not really sure.
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There's only one way to find out. Hope you find the courage to come out to him, and maybe you and him can go further, if it doesn't ruin the friendship.
 
IF his girlfriend wasn't there -- I'd say the HE was encouraging YOU...

HOWEVER...

WITH his girlfriend there -- I suspect that he is just being "comfortable"...

The reality with MOST people is -- that after having sex, you are WAY MORE FREE with your "comfort level" -- even in mixed company...

jmo...
 
curboi321 said:
It happened again last night.. we were sitting on the couch watching a movie and my roommate was leaned upright against the coffee table drinking a beer at first. Then he "got comfortable" and layed back beside me... all the while his girlfriend was sleep on the chair beside him with her back turned. Out of nowhere he did it.. he looked over at my crotch! Like directly at it but then played in off like he was looking at my dog lying on the ground beside me. Then he just couldn't help himself, he reached into his pants, and started adjusting himself. It was only after he was done and took his hand out that I noticed he had his pants unzipped.:gogirl: I should have reciprocated but I was shocked that he made it so obvious and as I said before I don't want to fool around with my roommate and make things awkward between us but I can feel like he's subtly pressing it. If I had to guess I could see something happening soon even if it's just both of us playing with ourselves together *|* I would be okay with "mutual bonding" as long as it doesn't escalate into something more.. we'll see what happens and I'll keep you updated if you want to know.
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Is he's big, maybe he's just showing off like swerve said.
 
swerve said:
IF his girlfriend wasn't there -- I'd say the HE was encouraging YOU...

HOWEVER...

WITH his girlfriend there -- I suspect that he is just being "comfortable"...

The reality with MOST people is -- that after having sex, you are WAY MORE FREE with your "comfort level" -- even in mixed company...

jmo...
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#DontJerkAndDrive

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Jerking isn't a joke.
 
curboi321 said:
There was a moment I felt like we both wanted to put our hand on the other's lap since we were so close to each other but we didn't (I was too afraid to even move). I don't have much experience with coming onto guys yet and I still get nervous, especially if I'm not sure the guy's into it. I think I might mention something to him about being open sexually and see how he responds. I don't think he would be upset or stop talking to me but I'm not really sure.
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I am convinced something is going to happen. Very intrigued. Please describe him when you get a chance. Would love to get a visual.
 
He's a good-looking Caucasian, with short brown hair and brown eyes.. a little stocky but nothing too crazy.

I'm actually afraid something might happen with him. We keep hanging out with each other, getting drunk, and shooting the shit while sometimes making random sex jokes at each other.

Last night I was helping him clean up his room and as I was leaning over to pick up something he stopped me by pressing his hand against my hip saying "wait a minute"... his hand was literally an inch away from my dick. Again I didn't react and just kinda ignored it but I'm pretty sure now that he's testing me (and I'm failing :() I really don't want to risk something happening and then it gets weird between us, we'll see what happens as time goes on.
 
Mate,

I'd try something asap. If he is touching you and jerking his cock off while you're in the room. The guy is looking for a Hot warm blowjob of you. I'd just make a comment like

Man i'm hard, I would love a warm mouth around my cock (just to see what he does and says) then if he replies suggest it.

You're both living with each other the worst thing in this situation is to have your feelings and frustration build until you feel like you won't be able to be in the same room as him.

Trust me he wants your mouth around his dick

Let me know if this helps
x
MartyBoy
 
I think you are right, he suspects you are gay and he is testing/teasing you. But it does not mean he is willing to do anything. If you respond in a way that shows you are gay, he is likely to be less a friend. I suggest that you try to ignore it.
 
He might be shy too and unsure how to go about his actions and thoughts. If you feel like he's closing in, then embrace it should it happen, although it would be bad for him to be running around on his girlfriend, even if it's just you. Do you and your friend ever get any time alone together?
 
Yeah, when it happened we were alone together. There's been other little things that have happened too but it's all been pretty minor, like touching here and there or brushing up against each other in small spaces. I'm not sure if anything will ever happen but if it does I hope it makes us better friends instead of worst.
 
I do hope you find the courage to act on it, if that's what you are wanting to do, but to be careful going about doing so. There's no easy, foolproof way to make a move on someone, as we don't know what the other person's reaction will be, but sometimes we have to trust our instincts and go with the flow. You could also just avoid it altogether, to be on the safe side, but will you still be having this issue and being driven wild about what could be?
 
curboi321 said:
There was a moment I felt like we both wanted to put our hand on the other's lap since we were so close to each other but we didn't (I was too afraid to even move). I don't have much experience with coming onto guys yet and I still get nervous, especially if I'm not sure the guy's into it. I think I might mention something to him about being open sexually and see how he responds. I don't think he would be upset or stop talking to me but I'm not really sure.
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You're roommates. Find a way to be accidentally naked in front of him.... or have him catch you jerking it.
 
My roommate has fucked me, rimmed my ass, sucked my cock and swallowed my load on several occasions. He has it out of his system. Now, we are just roommates and friends.

BTW, we are still naked frequently in front of one another. Neither one of us like clothes.

Maybe you two should just get it out of your system too.
 
My roommate just called me out! We were talking about house bill 2 and he made a comment about how he doesn't think it's a problem but if anyone asks him he would say it's okay cause his roommate is gay.. He said it in a joking manner but I think he was confronting me on it.. I brushed it off and said something like "fuck you".. then we just stared at each other for an awkward minute like he was waiting for me to come out and say it but I couldn't.. it was like he caught me on the spot but I didn't know what to say. I'm pretty sure the conversation is definitely going to come up again but I'm not sure exactly how I should approach it with him or what I should say.

For the record, I'm not gay.. I'm sexually open meaning I don't discriminate when it comes to who I have sex with (bisexual technically) but I don't want to have to go through explaining it to him especially if he still just thinks I gay (which happens alot with misunderstanding bisexually). I'll keep you guys updated on what happens.
 
Any updates bro? Just let him "catch" you jerking off and see what he does...
 
curboi321 said:
My roommate just called me out! We were talking about house bill 2 and he made a comment about how he doesn't think it's a problem but if anyone asks him he would say it's okay cause his roommate is gay.. He said it in a joking manner but I think he was confronting me on it.. I brushed it off and said something like "fuck you".. then we just stared at each other for an awkward minute like he was waiting for me to come out and say it but I couldn't.. it was like he caught me on the spot but I didn't know what to say. I'm pretty sure the conversation is definitely going to come up again but I'm not sure exactly how I should approach it with him or what I should say.

For the record, I'm not gay.. I'm sexually open meaning I don't discriminate when it comes to who I have sex with (bisexual technically) but I don't want to have to go through explaining it to him especially if he still just thinks I gay (which happens alot with misunderstanding bisexually). I'll keep you guys updated on what happens.
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Obviously your roommate has some reason for concluding that you are gay. And he has been tuching himself etc to test you and you attention leads him to believe you are gay. Are you most attracted to men or women? It is better if you learn sooner rather than deluding yourself. I suggest you look at some porn: gay without women, some with lesbian porn (no man). This should tell you which you really are. Many your age can have sex either way, but in a few years, you will definitely prefer one or the other.
Meanwhile, your roommate seems to be telling people that you are gay. If you do not want to be out at this point. You need to ask him to stop. Convince him you are straight if possible.
 
Benvolio said:
It is better if you learn sooner rather than deluding yourself. I suggest you look at some porn: gay without women, some with lesbian porn (no man). This should tell you which you really are. Many your age can have sex either way, but in a few years, you will definitely prefer one or the other.
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If the OP describes himself as sexually open or bisexual then that's what he is. He doesn't need to watch porn to assign himself a gay or straight label. He's bi. A lot of bisexual people fall somewhere on the spectrum and lean one way or the other rather than being 50% gay and 50% straight. That doesn't make them any less bisexual.
 
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