My Roommate Keeps Touching Himself In Front Of Me!!!

[heartfly77]

LOL. This reminds me of when I was in high school. I worked at this fast food place. This college guy would always scratch is bulge in front of me. On time, as I was walking past him in the tight hallway, I brush up against his hardon. I never did anything. When I went to college, my friend who worked at the same place told me, that guy had the hugest crush on me.

 

[Homo-Hobo]

I just moved into a new place a few weeks ago and one of my roommates who will call "Eric" has really hit it off with me. We hangout often, laugh, and talk about our life stories and seem to get along very well. I've tried to ignore that fact that he's attractive and I've immediately put it out of my mind since he's my roommate and I don't want anything to happen to make things awkward between us.

The thing is Eric CONSTANTLY touches himself in front of me, sometimes on the outside of his pants, sometimes just to rearrange himself, and sometimes he just reaches down his shorts and goes to town like it's nothing. I want to believe that he just "itches" down there, but last night me, him, and his gf were watching a movie together. Me and Eric were sitting on the couch together and his gf was lying on another. When he sat down beside me everything was cool at first, then he leaned back started.. just a couple tugs, then a few adjustments, then he stuck his hand down his jogging pants and started going up and down. I looked forward the whole time since I knew his gf was beside him who was trying not to look at the same time

I'm convinced that he doesn't even realize that he's doing it since right after he came out his pants he touched me to tell me something, then he petted my dog who was on my lap at the time. I'm trying not to engage in anything with my roommate (esp since he has a gf), but the next time he's going to town down there I'm contemplating on calling him out on it at least to see if he's aware of it and just doesn't care or if he doesn't even realize he's doing it. I don't want to make him uncomfortable around me and no he doesn't know I'm interested in guys (I think) but if he keeps doing it I feel like I'm going to have to say something. My question is should I leave it alone or say something to him about it?

I have a friend who is EXACTLY the same. ALWAYS touching himself. Over the pants and under the pants. He knows he does it because I point it out to him. Good looking built guy but I told him that I wasn't complaining. Been trying to see him naked for years now.

There's no feelings there or anything. He's just hot and I want to see one good looking person with a good body naked in front of me before I die.

 

[IceColdLover]

Dude, you might as well wrestle him down and get all touchy feely with each other and suck his cock! He's probably dying for you to come out and swallow his junk. If you wonder if he feels the same, listen to the others above and let him see you naked by accident or massage his shoulders or get into a tickle match with him. Just be careful that it doesn't end up the opposite.

 

[NielssonT]

Any updates here? I'm kinda curious as to how this situation is developing!

 

[curboi321]

Hey guys, thanks for the interest in what's going on. It's been pretty much the same since my last post but we've grown a little bit closer. Me, him, and a few friends went out to the beach last weekend, he got pretty drunk and kept showing off his ass (pretty nice one actually) . At the end of the night he hugged me tight and thanked me for coming out with him. The more I hang out with him I see that he's a good roommate and I don't think anything is going to happen between us at least not while we live together. Things may change in the future but I like just us being friends right now.. I think I will "come out" to him at some point and see how that goes.

 

[pandh200]

anything happen since? i'm in a similar situation and would love to hear?

 

[curboi321]

Thanks pandh200 for showing interest. My roommate and I are still friends and have gotten closer with each other since. We spent my birthday together and hang out pretty regularly now (we often go pokemon hunting around town). I still haven't told him about myself and I'm thinking I will soon, though I'm sure he already knows. He doesn't touch himself that much in front of me anymore but there have been a few moments that he's tested me like most recently when we were playing a game with his gf and I lost a round, he said it's okay buddy and gave me a few taps on my butt. Once he realized what he was doing he stopped for a moment but then gave my one final pat. I didn't know what to say and I don't think his gf saw it.

We both will be moving out soon and once we get our own places we'll have more privacy. I'll keep you updated if anything else happens between now and then.

 

[pandh200]

Sounds like my mate in a way. I don't think it would take much to get things going. That's what I'm hoping for also. I don't have the advantage of living with him tho lol

 

[sixthson]

You would think in the 21st century guys would stop playing games and move out of the closet. You have all this sexual tension between you two and it doesn't appear to be one-side. It doesn't really matter because neither of you can get beyond playing with your own dicks. You guys need to settle the question once and for all: are you just good friends or do you want something more?
I really don't see how moving to separate apartments makes things any different. Of course, it is your life.