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My Straight Friend

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rjason2425

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I would have sucked him lol. How long has it been since he's contacted you? He may be embarrassed. Give it some time before you try. Then when you do invite him ovef to hang out. Have some beers and be friends. Have you explained it completely to him? If not that could be a good time to.
 
You stood up for what you believe in. That's commendable. He is the one who chose the married life with a woman who isn't as sexually adventurous as he'd like her to be. He has to be the one to resolve that issue for himself. I'm not trying to say sex outside of the marriage is wrong, but if I were in your position, I'd want him to discuss it with his wife and get her permission first. Otherwise, if she finds out (and she will find out), he'll find himself in much hotter water.

I say let him take time and find out for himself what's really important: having you as a friend, or throwing your friendship away because you didn't want to suck his dick. His wife doesn't want to suck his dick, either. Why isn't he leaving her?
 
Ask him how his wife feels about butt sex. If she doesn't like that, you know what he is going to ask for next. Don't you?
 
What kind of friendship did you enjoy before he made this request of you? If you want to salvage the friendship you need to clear the air. Otherwise the two of you may never be able to go back to how things used to be. I think if you do accommodate him and give him a blow job, the question is will this become something he asks for regularly, and will you be comfortable? Realistically, don't expect him to ask his wife's permission. He wants to keep his marriage intact while finding an outlet for the activities she won't provide. And, as an earlier poster asked, how will you feel if he ever asks to fuck you because his wife has no interest in anal either?
 
I have been in your situation. What has worked best for me is to tell a guy that I will only suck a guy that will also suck me. You have to establish an equal status with a guy if you want any respect (especially a straight guy).
 
I think sticking to the "I don't have sex with married guys" rule is your safest bet, it doesn't give him room to try and wheedle or cajole his way into a blowjob and keeps you morally in the clear. If he keeps asking, hold your phone out with his wife's number ready to call and tell him to ask her to give you permission; it's not cheating if she's OK with it.
 
spanishguy said:
I repeat, he is not BI OR GAY he is Straight he felt he could ask me because he knows i am safe and don't sleep around. I recently ended a 10 year relationship. We are very close he is a cool guy and like i said he is not my type. He is a handsome HUSKY guy ( football player) kind of build i just feel it would get weird in time. HE WANTS it regularly he said maybe once or twice a week. He also told me that if i found a relationship he would respect that and we could stop. He does not want to fuck me all he wants is get oral he has been married for over 13 years and he says in that time he has not gotten oral properly. I felt bad for him i really did I ALMOST SAID YES..but then there is the weird factor he said it would not be a problem but I SAID NO and now is weird..I know he feels embarrassed and rejected but i think is more about me than anything else. I just don't feel good sucking a married guy.
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Good for you, saying no because he's married.

I'm wondering, though, if you had said yes, what is the benefit for you? He gets sucked twice a week, and you get...? I mean, that seems a little one-sided, him hoping you'll blow him twice a week, every week, and he's going to do nothing for you.

-d-
 
Good for you for not being one of those nasty gay guys who will suck any straight, married man they can get their hands on:=D:. I know you feel bad for him for not getting a proper blowjob but it's not your problem or responsibility. He needs to explain to his wife his dilemma and maybe they can work something out. He shouldn't have even asked you for something like that. Maybe she'll allow somebody like that xtube guy fleshlightmouth to suck him off or something lol.
 
If he dumps you as a friend because you won't suck his dick, I guess you will know what kind of friend he was. Right?
 
First of all we don't know exactly the case, even though the guy explained to us the situation, we will never live his whole life that he lived so far to understand how he feels.

If this is the way you feel then probably you did the right thing. I have good friends that I would die to suck and other good friends that I wouldn't even think of anything sexual about them and no, appearance has nothing to do with it.

When we are talking about friends or people we know, sexually arousing has to do with their personality (and of course good looks help).

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In a perfect scenario, a straight married guy could have a suck-a-dick buddy and they could both like it, gay man sucking a straight dick, straight dude gets the blowjobs of his life.

BUT in this case since you feel like this it is a good decision. But I am sure for one thing, if you blew him, I am SURE sure that you would both end up liking it, you just never had sexual relationships with him and you know him for too long that you can't see him differently now. That is all!
 
blackbeltninja said:
Good for you, saying no because he's married.

I'm wondering, though, if you had said yes, what is the benefit for you? He gets sucked twice a week, and you get...? I mean, that seems a little one-sided, him hoping you'll blow him twice a week, every week, and he's going to do nothing for you.

-d-
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I am all for versatility - it's the only kind of relationship I can imagine. But [STRIKE]a mouthfull of sperm is definitely fucking hot[/STRIKE] giving pleasure is its own reward.
 
By the way I think you did the right thing to say no. Anything sexual that a married person wants to do should also turn on the person he is marrie to. And getting secret blow jobs from other guys will usually only turn on the guy, not the person he's married to.
 
I guess this makes me a whore with no morals, but I would have gladly become his cocksucking cum dump. ;)
 
bankside said:
I am all for versatility - it's the only kind of relationship I can imagine. But [STRIKE]a mouthfull of sperm is definitely fucking hot[/STRIKE] giving pleasure is its own reward.
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Fair enough, to a point.

Some dude who is going to schedule twice-weekly services with no reciprocation seems like taking advantage, though.

-d-
 
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