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My wife caught me.....again.

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Willingtotry

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Ok to keep this straight to the point. I love head. Really love it. The mrs doesn't like giving me head at all. ](*,)](*,)so I found some guys that will. I don't like giving them head just like to receive it. Well my mrs found a txt on my iPad abou hooking up with a guy to get a blowie. She is pissed. Thinks I'm cheating. I don't class it as cheating cause it's something she won't do. What do you think.
 
Buddy, are you really rationalizing that it's not cheating because she won't do it? Some guys say it's not cheating because it's "with a guy." Good God! If you're with someone other than the person you married, you are cheating. I mean, how would you feel if she went with another guy?
 
Willingtotry said:
Ok to keep this straight to the point. I love head. Really love it. The mrs doesn't like giving me head at all. ](*,)](*,)so I found some guys that will. I don't like giving them head just like to receive it. Well my mrs found a txt on my iPad abou hooking up with a guy to get a blowie. She is pissed. Thinks I'm cheating. I don't class it as cheating cause it's something she won't do. What do you think.
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It's not cheating if she gives you permission. If she's pissed, I assume she didn't give you permission.
 
yup, it's cheating, especially if your wedding vows were of exclusivity with each other.
 
Servers you right for being stupid. If you are going to cheat then at least do it right. Also, if you have to hiding anything sexual from the person you promised to spend the rest of your life with: IT IS CHEATING.
 
Lets see, you are married, yet you actively pursue getting head from other guys.

Just an educated guess but yes, you are a cheat, and a selfish one at that.

You more than likely do not even consider yourself at the least bi-curious, as you do not reciprocate....
 
Willingtotry said:
Ok to keep this straight to the point. I love head. Really love it. The mrs doesn't like giving me head at all. ](*,)](*,)so I found some guys that will. I don't like giving them head just like to receive it. Well my mrs found a txt on my iPad abou hooking up with a guy to get a blowie. She is pissed. Thinks I'm cheating. I don't class it as cheating cause it's something she won't do. What do you think.
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errm, are you asking for absolution? Because … this forum is kind of a confessional box?
 
It's cheating.

You should try and get her involved in a bisexual threeway. problem solved.
 
Of course it is cheating.

Anything leading towards you or someone else having an orgasm, that your wife doesn't know about or turn her on, is cheating.
 
Its not cheating if you have her permission.
Therefore just ask her "can guys give me blow jobs" ....
 
you were engaged in a sexual act without the knowledge or consent of your wife - its cheating/infidelity/adultery/whatever word you want. she doesnt owe you a blowjob, just cuz she didnt give you one doesnt mean you can go get one elsewhere automatically.
 
It is cheating.

You should either come clean with her and end the relationship or stay with her and keep it in your bloody pants.
 
#1) yes its cheating
#2) your wife is pissed because she views it from the womans point of view, which is sex=intamacy/love.

People telling you to end the relationship is a fuckton of stupidity. You have to either get better at cheating with guys for blowies (dont leave a trail for her to find, dummy), or ask her permission and explain how theres no romance/love she's in competition with, or stop all togather.
 
PoppaJunk said:
#1) yes its cheating
#2) your wife is pissed because she views it from the womans point of view, which is sex=intamacy/love.

People telling you to end the relationship is a fuckton of stupidity. You have to either get better at cheating with guys for blowies (dont leave a trail for her to find, dummy), or ask her permission and explain how theres no romance/love she's in competition with, or stop all togather.
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No, his wife is pissed because he is cheating. AGAIN. Sex is intimacy/love in a relationship. Sorry you don't have that in your life with your wife...maybe because you are a cheater? I'm sure the OP will love your validation, however.
 
sixthson;9827480m said:
Sex is intimacy/love in a relationship. Sorry you don't have that in your life with your wife...maybe because you are a cheater? I'm sure the OP will love your validation, however.
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Way to have perspective, champ.

This guy is obvioulsly bi with leanings towards sex with men (bjs only) out of "necessity". I'm sure there's a kinsey scale slot for that. He feels intimate with women but with guys its just busting a nut. No feelings involved.

Your profile says your gay and out. Good for you. I'm sure your sexual activities with guys involve intamacy/love/feelings etc... However here's some perspective for you: a gay guy whos partner will only give bjs but never give up the ass for whatever reason, he tells his story to a girlfriend who says "I'll give ya some ass!" He says fuck it and plows her ass to bust a nut. He's gay, so does the act make him fall in love or feel intimate with her? Of course not. Does it make him a cheater? Yes! And I even said that about OP, I never validated him, I just spoke from his perspective and listed his realistic choices.

Since you've set the stage for accusations and wild assumptions (about me), I'll bet your of that antiquated idea that bi's are really just closeted homosexuals and need to stop pretending, and that there's no such thing as any sexuality in the middle of straight and gay. Way to alienate people who aren't like yeeeew!
 
The trouble is finding a better way to cheat is not one of those "realistic options."

A man can find plenty of men or women who are either compatible with him in bed, and/or who enjoy watching him with someone else or hearing about it after or jerking off in the next room or jilling off to the play-by-play.

Nobody is forced to get married to anyone, but if they decide to, they can't lie about this stuff and do it behind their partner's back without being a creep.

Just because somebody feels like having a blow job is no excuse to lie about throat fucking someone else. Marriages are monogamous so people don't have to worry about diseases, not just emotional commitment. People can get a different version of marriage with different rules if they want it but they need the balls to stand up for it and the balls to walk away if they aren't getting it, so both people can move on. ONE PERSON doesn't just get to decide what they want and then take in behind the other person's back. Life doesn't work that way.
 
bankside said:
.........Life doesn't work that way.
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In a perfect world sure, everything you said is correct. But it aint like that. People cheat, it sucks, but they do. My only advice is if OP chooses to get better at it, better do it safe.
 
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