So im a young black male gay but not out the closet yet nor ever had a relationship/full on sex with a guy. The reason I need help is because there is a guy in my college classes who I have a major crush on. He recently came out but I'm not sure if he really likes me or not. I like him but don't know what to say or do especially since he doesn't know im gay. His Facebook used to say he was single but now he hid that part. I like him soo much but don't know how to approach it. Also any advice to make myself more appealing cause I know most white gay guys don't really like black guys. Any advice please?
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Need some advice please
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mbamike
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False! I am white and I love black guys. So, remove this thought out of your head.
Well, approach him. Congratulate him on coming out, then come out to him. Then you will have something in common. Then you can explore the possibility of hanging out together.
Good luck!
Thank you I appreciate it. If this doesn't work out what are some good ways to find gays who are looking for a relationship?
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Join the LGBT group at your school. Make some friends within this group.
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Thank you soo much for the advice
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Relax, you've got plenty of options cuz this is so, so, so utterly incorrect. Chances are your crush is having similar quandaries regarding showing interest in a guy b/c it is a normal problem. Start up a conversation with him, either class related or something else you've got in common.
Or like the last guy said, just ask him out for drinks. He'll probably find your directness refreshing.
Thank you. But should I ask if he's single first?
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It's not a prerequisite to ask first. Put the ball in his court. Ask him out and let him tell you what his status is. I've been in a situation like yours before and I've often wished I thought more with my dick than with my head, cuz sometimes overthinking is just unnecessary and gets in the way.
And forget about skin pigment. We're all pink inside.
Good luck!
I postefd a reply to this but don't know what happened. Im my opinion just be yourself. Tell him by himself this "hey i heard recently that you've came out. I am also gay. I just wanted to say that i've developed feelings for you. I didn't say anything because i thought you were straight and wouldn't had any chance." as a gay guy thats's had feelings for straight guys and not acting on them i'd tell him how you feel