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New Job Anxiety

justsimon

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I was just offered a job in the production department of the local newspaper. This is a job I applied for about a year ago and didn't get. A friend of the person hiring, and a former coworker of mine, got the job (surprise!). I was the second choice. He's leaving town so now they want to hire me.

I'm going in on Thursday to talk things over. It's pretty much a sure thing that I'll get the job. Newspaper layout is something that I excell at and love doing. I worked for an independent paper for about 4 years and that was a large part of my job. I've been hoping to find a similar job (but not volunteer, this time) ever since the indie paper folded. I'm really excited... but nervous, too.

I'll keep my bookstore job (it's only 2-3 days/week) so with this new job I'll be working Wed, Fri, Sat (a double shift), Sun and Mon. That's not a lot of work for most people, but it will be the most I've worked since right after highschool and before all my health problems got so bad. Without going too much into it, I have several chronic health problems that pretty much leave me with no energy. Just getting up in the morning is exhausting.

I know I can handle the new job. It's a mellow atmosphere and frequent coffee breaks are encouraged. But I'm always nervous about taking on new responsibilities when I know my health could get in the way. I take pride in the fact that I'm dependable and responsible and I always feel like such a jerk when I can't do something I've committed to.

I don't really know why I'm posting this, except that I could use a little encouragement, especially if any of you have experience dealing with work and health problems. Thanks.
 
you previously applied for the job.....you like the work....it's a pleasnat work environment....i suppose you can use the $ (who can't?)....it's a sure deal....

what's not to like? it sounds like the job is tailored for you....

it's good that you're following through with investigating the opportunity....

it sounds like the largest issue for you (from the things you've shared) is whether your health and stamina will hold up to the riggors of the job.....

perhaps you can give it a go and judge it's long term worthiness?

i wish you good luck....and good health.....you seem like a good person and this may be a great opportunity for you....and your family.....God's speed!....:wave:
 
you previously applied for the job.....you like the work....it's a pleasnat work environment....i suppose you can use the $ (who can't?)....it's a sure deal....

what's not to like? it sounds like the job is tailored for you....

it's good that you're following through with investigating the opportunity....

it sounds like the largest issue for you (from the things you've shared) is whether your health and stamina will hold up to the riggors of the job.....

perhaps you can give it a go and judge it's long term worthiness?

i wish you good luck....and good health.....you seem like a good person and this may be a great opportunity for you....and your family.....God's speed!....:wave:

Thanks. I'm definitely taking the job. There's no question of that. I'm just a bit nervous.
 
Go for it man! I understand that you are having health problems which may have some sort of impact on your job, but then you really haven't started working there, so you wouldn't know what to expect in terms of the workload and the overall atmosphere. I suggest that you give it a try first. You can always quit afterward if bigger problems surface.
 
I just took on a new job in a completely different industry after 15 years at my previous job. I understand the anxiety. After about a month now, I'm starting to feel comfortabel and am happier than I ever was at my last job. Good luck and keep in mind, you will feel at home sooner than you think.
 
Congrats! That sounds wonderful.

You can do it if you think you can.

I think I can...I think I can...I think I can... :-)
 
you seem to be a really sharp guy so i think yu will do really well

just keep in touch with your health and be carefull

and keep us updated!!!
 
I will echo the sentiments others have already expressed. You will do just fine. You've the experience and the will to make this a success. Just be mindful of your health. Let us know how things are going and best of luck to you.
 
Aww... You guys are so sweet. I'm really excited about the job. I wish I didn't have to wait until Thursday to go in.
 
Go for it! I think we all have some level of anxiety when we approach a new challenge. (I sometimes worry about those who don't!) You sound as though you are taking a very positive approach to your new job. You never know, success and hard but rewarding, enjoyable and fulfilling work may have some health benefits. Keep us informed about your success.
 
Congratulations! You say you really wanted this job and with your previous experience, I know you will do a great job. Dont worry too much you will be the best employee they ever had.
 
I'm going in tomorrow to talk the job over with my new (almost definitely) boss. I'm nervous even though it's a sure thing. Wish me luck... :D
 
Sounds like you really want the job. Talk it over and just make sure they pay you enough for the responsibility you will have. So then go for it. You have nothing to lose. Just take it one step and one day at a time and if you have some health issues along the way, just take it one step and day by day. You can get through it all. I am not going to tell you not to be nervous because that doesn't work. Just do what feels right for you and Good Luck!
 
Congratulations on the new job! I think some nervousness is only natural--- hopefully the butterflies will be behind you after a short time in the traces!! I wish you all the best!! ..|
 
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Congrats on the new job offer and don't think what you won't be able to do; concentrate on what you can do! I think you'll do a terrific job and if you focus on the positive, perhaps it'll help with the anxiety of the change!

Just try not to let your serif's and gothics clash!
 
The only jitters I get when starting a new job is how they will react to the "gay issue." I usually get some ugly stares at first until they realize I'm no threat then they leave me alone.
 
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