OMG! Stabbed in the heart!

[boredman321]

I mean figurtivly of course... so i have always checked my bf before i dated them u know the usual drill... but the one ? i always want to know is if they have ever had unprotected sex before.... so i dated this guy and he had told me he had sex with a guy 9 yrs. older then him and it was random sex.... nothing aganist random sex or daiting somone older then you....


so just tonight he tells me he didnt use a condom when he got FU@K3d by the older guy.... well know im having a panic attack!!!

What if i have an STD!!! im so scared and im searching for someware to get an STD/HIV test

im like panicing!!!!


ok done i have to breath

 

[190E]

They do have home tests, but they are quite pricey, you might try going, as suggested in another thread to a free clinic, it sucks to have to wait, but at least you will know the results. If he doesnt have anything though, the chances are very highly unlikely you have something, unless you've done it with someone else, but that's a whole nother situation. Just go get tested and be safe.

 

[Austin40acres]

Sounds to me like this relationship is over. He lied. Can you trust him?

Do the home test. Go get tested. AND, just as important, ask this guy why he lied to you and what he intends to do to regain your trust.

If he doesn't have a good answer, well . . . . . . .

A4A

 

[dolphwasser]

Yes, please get tested - at a doctor or clinic or wherever. You should be able to find a hot line number for locations in the phone book.

And don't let your guard down so easily again. Look how a possible relationship got screwed up - or at the very least, got off to a TERRIBLE start.

 

[MRMATTX2]

For HIV, there should be a place where you can get the test and have the results in 20 minutes. For other STD's, you'll have to wait for the results, but do it anyway.

 

[chrmd1]

Well have you been using protection when having sex with your bf? Because if you are not then you are being unfair to him.

 

[frankfrank]

When did he have sex with the other guy? I don't know "where the research is" nowadays on the pathology of HIV - I know there is a period of time after exposure when it cannot be passed on, but I don't know whether it's hours, or weeks, or what.

Chill, boredman, chill - you are facing the reality of looking for a test, and we wish you a good result. Medicine is the one area when "negative" is almost always a GOOD thing, and I think that's highly likely for you.

My question about the length of time before an exposed person can pass HIV on, may also affect your own testing. Just to be safe, you should find out how long it takes something to show up in a test, then wait until or just past that period so that you can be sure.

Good luck and Godspeed!!