Self bondage

[RedRooster]

I like to do stuff to myself but I have run out of I idea. Help I need some new self bondage idea or even just pleasure trips.

Wow! I can't believe how ignorant I am at times. There's like more and more things I've never heard about like the guy who wrote about Edging, I have no idea what the fuck that is and now Self-Bondage.

I have courted the idea about bondage, however I've always been afraid of being tied up and vulnerable to someone else's total control and depraved sexual desires. I think I've heard one to many horror stories about guys that became victims; there are some real scary weirdos out there.

I'm from the Windy City (Chicago) and we have a few of the largest and several of the nicest Gay bars located in Boy's Town (Halsted and Belmont). A lot of out of state small town college boys go there for their first Gay experience and some of them don't have the intelligent's God gave a gym shoe and they literally get their Ass in trouble.

I remember hearing about this one young kid who was from Wisconsin and he met up with this older guy at one of the bars and they got a room together and the guy tied him up to the bed and shot him up with heroin and than proceeded to call a few of his buddies and they literally fucked the shit out of this kid. They took turns over and over again fucking that fresh meat turning his ass into bloody pulp. They than untied him, took all his clothes and left. The maid found him the next day naked, semi-conscious and in a fetal position by the door. But this is just one horror story of the Big City.

So anyways, self bondage sounds safe. So what do you do, I mean is it like Role-Playing? Obviously you can't tie your hands so what do you do shove a dirty sock in your mouth to gag yourself and beat your ass with a leather belt, tie up your dick and balls with a cord and than slap your balls around and than shove a dildo up your butt and pretend someone is abusing and fucking your tight ass? I mean like how does it work, what exactly do you do?

I'm thinking, Bondage takes at least two people so I'm guessing you'd have to pretend someone else was with you, is that right?

"Curious minds want to know."

 

[serious_andy]

Never done self bondage but just to let you know Redrooster, edging is jerking for long periods and avoiding cumming by stopping just in time or slowing down etc. When I'm surfing this site I'm usually edging.

 

[Renald]

Wow, great ideas!!! I'm also into self bondage, only for the balls though, maybe a little bit for the angkles/legs.

Thanx, anymore ideas?

 

[joeyyj]

What would bengay do to your balls?

 

[RedRooster]

What would bengay do to your balls?

Don't be a fucking idiot

I have experimented with Bengay in the past, a very tiny smear on your finger tip and applied to your butt hole with keep it nice and warm, just one drop of Bengay applied to the butt hole will feel like someone is sticking a red hot poker up your butt.

A drop or two of Bengay applied to the balls will feel like your sack is on fire. Your scrotum will extremely tighten forcing your testicles up your pelvic region to protect them and I guarantee you will be running for some soap and water its not something I would recommend to anyone unless I hated them or wanted to get even with them with extreme prejudice.

Bengay applied to the soft membrane tissue of the genitalia area will literally cause a chemical burn, prolonged protracted usage will cause blistering of the soft flesh.

 

[RedRooster]

Oh wow. Okay well is still is fun to do.

Ok, now I understand, you are totally into hard-core pain. Anyone who enjoys Bengay rubbed into their balls and gets off on it has a pain threshold I'll never understand. I can't take that kind of pain, I have experimented a little but I am always afraid of doing some kind of permanent damage and besides I really can't take pain at all, but I will admit it really is very erotic.

When I was around 19 years old or so I hung around older guys that were in their late twenties and some in their early 30's. This one guy I met at a party was into having someone hitting him in the balls. We were shooting pool and I noticed he was tapping himself in the balls with the pool stick and it looked like he was hard, I made a comment something to the effect of, "it looks like you're enjoying that." He smiled and asked me if I wanted to smack him in the nuts. It took him a while to convince me he was serious but eventually I started slapping him in the nuts.

A guy who knew him came into the room and told me watch this, he told the guy to face the pool table and pull his pants down. Without hesitation he did as he was told and the guy pulled his nuts all the way back to the crack of his ass and slapped them as hard as he could. I had never seen anything like that before and I was totally horrified and scared for the guy, but I swear he enjoyed the pain so much I think his dick drooled with pre-cum.

Once I seen the guy was alright with it I have to admit just watching him being abused and later joining in the fun I'll tell you I was rock hard. I won't go into all the details (it got pretty humiliating for him) but we both worked that submissive bitch like a cheap whore and the more we did the more he enjoyed it. When I wasn't smashing his nuts with my feet and making him lick his pre-cum off my toes his friend would be using a couple of pool sticks on his nuts and his ass like a pair of drum sticks, he even pushed a pool stick up his ass at one point. There's a lot more but I won't go into it right now. Before the end of the night he was stripped naked laying on the pool table and he wanted us to roll the pool balls hard into his nuts and slide a pool stick back and forth up his ass as he jagged off.

Maybe by me telling you this it might give you a few ideas. Personally I think if you wanna really give yourself some pain why don't you just tie one thin cord around your balls real tight and another around both your dick and your balls and than tie one cord to one of your big toes and the other to your other big toe and as you jag yourself off you can push your toe forward and stretch your nut sack and your cock and balls alternately?

Hope this helps

 

[jrow79]

By the way, what is the ice trip mean? It sounds cool. Thanks!

 

[RedRooster]

how do you edge....is there a website I can go to to learn or can someone explain it to me

Edging is playing with your dick/masturbating but not allowing yourself to shoot a load/orgasm.

Simply put you bring yourself just to the verge of an orgasm and than you stop for a few minutes.

The cool thing about it is lets say you stop just prior to having an orgasm 3 or 5 times in a row. When you finally allow yourself to blow a load the orgasm is totally intensified and feels really awesum not to mention you will shoot a huge load too.

By the way, I had been doing this for a long time and never knew what it was called either until someone in this forum explained the term to me too.

I guess you could say we are all here to give each other a "hand" from time to time

 

[hungaggiejock]

I tried the whole tieing your nuts to your ankels... very fun!

 

[RedRooster]

Why don't you just try Bungi jumping but instead of tying the rope to your ankles tie the rope to your nuts.......hahahaha

 

[TomahawkEagle]

I use to restrain myself to a fence with a garden hose pointed at me. I loved the water gushing into my face especially during winter when it's chilly. I have myself in a spreadeagled position with my hands hooked up to the fence just enough so I can't just move away from the water easily but can still stop the scene if something went wrong.

 

[slavedarren]

i love self bondage, i love even more doing it on cam for other guys, if any ones interested

 

[antdak]

No one has mentioned tit torture?! I am one for having my nips clamped hard!

 

[XLeatherX]

this thread is hot!

 

[springb]

I have a straight buddy who loves to tie himself up then wait for me to show up. Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. He never knows. When I DO show up, I "force" him to kiss (he HATES it but HAS to do it), suck, etc. And if he doesn't do it well enough, he gets spanked and re-tied, then I leave him alone for hours. Here is a pic of him tied up in his basement one night. i took it as I was leaving his house for the night.

 

[alphacentauri]

Self bondage can be extremely dangerous. If you do decide to do it, make sure you can easily get out of it or that other people know what you are doing.

I used to correspond with a guy who thought he was a 'Master' who was a major flake and just a wannabe 'Master' only in his mind, and he was also sometimes a 'slave' and had fantasies about being consensually knocked out with chloroform and then being someone's 'slave'; but he was into putting himself into lots of bondage with ropes or lots of metal bondage equipment like shackles; but he would freeze the scissors or keys into a large block of ice and stay this way for a long period of time such as an entire weekend, or more. He also would do this with self mummification which is extremely foolish.

 

[Diabolomenthe]

I've recently learned the joy of self bondage while edging myself. I have been edging myself for three weeks now. I will strap on each ankle with a long strap while I sit on the floor butt naked with my back leaning against on one side of my bed while I have each strap from my ankle pulled up and back spread apart.

The other end of each strap will be on the opposite side of the bed behind me so my legs will be hung up and apart exposing my butt-hole while I have a RC (remote control) vibrator just at the opening of my hole only pushed about an inch inside and a pair of nipple clamps with strings tied to the RC vibrator. This vibrates my nipples while clamped and my butt-hole being teased with an inch of the RC vibrator inside and my hands holding the remote controller tied behind my back with easy release lock.

All this while I watch myself being edged in front of the big floor to ceiling mirror directly before me until I drip lots of precum when I will pause the RC vibrator when very close to cuming. I have my unwashed jockstrap gagging my mouth coz I get more turned on when smelling it and tasting the salty taste while smelling my own aged sweat from my balls and precum stained from my jockstrap.

So far, three weeks is the longest I have been doing this and longest I have ever edged myself. I think I can go on edging for another two weeks at least but let’s see how.. Am about to strap my legs and self bondage again and today I have worked up a sweat...

I would love to have someone tie me up and strap me this way while exposing my butt-hole, cock, balls and nipples for him to play with and edge me. Or, I would love to have someone watching me but has to be someone totally unknown to me in a different country.... I managed to take some photos while self bondaged using a whistle cam app on my mobile phone. And I would love to show a few of these photos to a total stranger. However, I would need to cover my unique tattoo as anyone who has seen me topless whether in gym or clubs could easily identify me by it.

 

[Diabolomenthe]

I love my nipples pinched or twisted really hard while getting fucked. My cock gets super hard when my nipples got pinched harder and both seem to be connected like a wired switch. And my weakness is when my partner knows how easy it is to make me bottom, just play my nipples while behind my back and i'd start pressing my butt closer against his cock behind and asked to be fucked. I don't get the desire to get fuck if my nipples are left alone. Experimented few times n consistent result everytime. Anyone feels like that with their nipples?

 

[Diabolomenthe]

Saggy nuts are so hot!!!