ok so I need some advice from u lovely people.
Im 25 years old and still in the closet. I say I am bisexual but in all reality I don't like labels, I prefer to say that Im happy with whomever I wanna be happy with, man or woman don't matter.
Anyway hers my situation. I go to this awesome gym by my house and theres this one guy that Ive seen there almost every day that I kinda find very attractive, we've never talked or anything just a few glances here and there but nothing that screams hey lets fuck or hey Im into you on both ends, I try to hide it and Im good at it lol.
About 3 weeks ago I was on a gay app on my phone when someone started talking to me and he sent me his photo and then I sent him mine and then I guess he blocked me, idk. Turns out that the dude on the app is the same dude that Ive been checking out at the gym. So I thought to myself eh whatever he blocked me his loss cuz he didnt want to get to know me. a few days pass where I didnt see him at the gym and I thought to myself, ok so this dude took it a step further and stopped going to the gym period lol. Then one day last week he starts showing up again and I started noticing that he worked out near whatever machine I was working out and I didnt think anything of it. Then slowly I noticed that whenever I disappear to some obscure area he starts walking around casually looking to see if he sees me (I noticed this the most the other day when I was in the ab area and he saw me walking to that area then he went to get water from the fountain and when he came back and looked into the ab area didnt see me started looking around until he saw me walking back to the ab area and casually played it off.) Then about a day ago I came into the gym and he was already there working out and I went to the water fountain to fill my bottle up before working out when he appears right next to me and stands there for a second before bending over to the other fountain to get water. I leave without saying anything and he does the same thing, later on during the workout I go back to refill my bottle and behind me is none other than the same dude. I finished my workout and head into the locker room to shower and change clothes for work, as Im leaving I notice that he's leaving as well I look back to say bye to the people who were at the front desk and he immediately looks down at the ground before leaving right in front of me, I walk to my car and from my peripheral I see that he takes a quick glance at me getting into my car before getting into his.
Now Im not saying that I want to just fuck him and b done with it and Im not saying that I want to see if I should start a relationship with him by talking to him because Im leaving in less than 6 months. What Im looking for is advice as to what I should do? Should I talk to him and tell him I know that he knows that we both know each other from the app? or should I play it casual and just start up a conversation at the gym and pretend that the app hasn't happened? or what?
In all honesty I wouldn't mind having something happen between the two of us, just as long as we know that no matter how attach we get eventually I will b leaving and never coming back.
so guys, what do I do?
thanks for the help,
Simrex
Im 25 years old and still in the closet. I say I am bisexual but in all reality I don't like labels, I prefer to say that Im happy with whomever I wanna be happy with, man or woman don't matter.
Anyway hers my situation. I go to this awesome gym by my house and theres this one guy that Ive seen there almost every day that I kinda find very attractive, we've never talked or anything just a few glances here and there but nothing that screams hey lets fuck or hey Im into you on both ends, I try to hide it and Im good at it lol.
About 3 weeks ago I was on a gay app on my phone when someone started talking to me and he sent me his photo and then I sent him mine and then I guess he blocked me, idk. Turns out that the dude on the app is the same dude that Ive been checking out at the gym. So I thought to myself eh whatever he blocked me his loss cuz he didnt want to get to know me. a few days pass where I didnt see him at the gym and I thought to myself, ok so this dude took it a step further and stopped going to the gym period lol. Then one day last week he starts showing up again and I started noticing that he worked out near whatever machine I was working out and I didnt think anything of it. Then slowly I noticed that whenever I disappear to some obscure area he starts walking around casually looking to see if he sees me (I noticed this the most the other day when I was in the ab area and he saw me walking to that area then he went to get water from the fountain and when he came back and looked into the ab area didnt see me started looking around until he saw me walking back to the ab area and casually played it off.) Then about a day ago I came into the gym and he was already there working out and I went to the water fountain to fill my bottle up before working out when he appears right next to me and stands there for a second before bending over to the other fountain to get water. I leave without saying anything and he does the same thing, later on during the workout I go back to refill my bottle and behind me is none other than the same dude. I finished my workout and head into the locker room to shower and change clothes for work, as Im leaving I notice that he's leaving as well I look back to say bye to the people who were at the front desk and he immediately looks down at the ground before leaving right in front of me, I walk to my car and from my peripheral I see that he takes a quick glance at me getting into my car before getting into his.
Now Im not saying that I want to just fuck him and b done with it and Im not saying that I want to see if I should start a relationship with him by talking to him because Im leaving in less than 6 months. What Im looking for is advice as to what I should do? Should I talk to him and tell him I know that he knows that we both know each other from the app? or should I play it casual and just start up a conversation at the gym and pretend that the app hasn't happened? or what?
In all honesty I wouldn't mind having something happen between the two of us, just as long as we know that no matter how attach we get eventually I will b leaving and never coming back.
so guys, what do I do?
thanks for the help,
Simrex
