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I am need of some desperate assistance.. Ok, so when I was in the 8th grade (about 4-5 years ago) my best friend (at the time) and I would spend each weekend at each other's houses, but for a reason. One day we got a little sexual as a joke, and we had full fledged sex! So we'd do this every weekend from that point until I felt like it was wrong and told him we couldn't be friends hoping that that would solve it. Well, he's since moved on (I think), and I have a girlfriend whom I love with all my heart. The confusion comes in at this point; sex with her is great and I love her and I could only see myself marrying a woman, however sex and orgasms and everything is so much hotter to me when it's with a guy! Any advice on what I should do?! Thank you for any help provided!
 
Hi, welcome :)

Well, by the sound of it, it seems you like both girls and guys.
I would really take some time to reflect before considering to marry your girlfriend...
This is not going to be easy because you say you love her, but on the other hand you need to be honest to you and to her. In this case the options are a) telling her before it's too late or b) cheating on her. And I'm not for the latter.
 
That ^. Get it out of your system or at least tell your girl how you feel.
 
It sounds like you are young enough to play both sides. Open the relationship so that there is not a single commitment. Don't hold it in that you are bi.
 
There is love and then there is sex. But sex with someone you love should be your goal. Just stating the obvious, but holding you in my heart because finding this other half of yourself will probably not happen before sundown. Be strong, open and honest with yourself and your beloveds.
 
from what i understand youve been with 1 guy, and 1 girl. you cant really draw too much conclusions on which sex you like fucking more from a sample size of 1. just because you liked your friend more than your gf does not mean you will like all boys over all girls.
since you get off with either, youre likely bi - unless you were thinking of a girl while with your friend, or of a boy while with your GF. just enjoy yourself. if/when your relationship ends, see who you get a crush on and see what happens, guy or girl.

the one thing to note is that you shouldnt feel like its wrong - as you mentioned. its not wrong. what 2 consenting adults (at the time you werent an adult, but you were both the same age so good enough) do without hurting anyone else is up to them.
 
Don't over analyze this. You are so young, experiment! Don't be thinking about falling in love and playing with one person, really, find out what you like by playing the field. If I could do it over I would. Don't regret not, like I have. I did not know better as all of this information was not available to me.
 
ConfusedTeen8 said:
I am need of some desperate assistance.. Ok, so when I was in the 8th grade (about 4-5 years ago) my best friend (at the time) and I would spend each weekend at each other's houses, but for a reason. One day we got a little sexual as a joke, and we had full fledged sex! So we'd do this every weekend from that point until I felt like it was wrong and told him we couldn't be friends hoping that that would solve it. Well, he's since moved on (I think), and I have a girlfriend whom I love with all my heart. The confusion comes in at this point; sex with her is great and I love her and I could only see myself marrying a woman, however sex and orgasms and everything is so much hotter to me when it's with a guy! Any advice on what I should do?! Thank you for any help provided!
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The question is not wether you love her or not the question is, as you say you can fancy yourself marrying her, are you sure not to cheat on her with time. Trust me: With time thought becomes envy, envy becomes desire, desire becomes urge... And what if you meet a guy who makes you want to do it ?!
 
ConfusedTeen8 said:
I am need of some desperate assistance.. Ok, so when I was in the 8th grade (about 4-5 years ago) my best friend (at the time) and I would spend each weekend at each other's houses, but for a reason. One day we got a little sexual as a joke, and we had full fledged sex! So we'd do this every weekend from that point until I felt like it was wrong and told him we couldn't be friends hoping that that would solve it. Well, he's since moved on (I think), and I have a girlfriend whom I love with all my heart. The confusion comes in at this point; sex with her is great and I love her and I could only see myself marrying a woman, however sex and orgasms and everything is so much hotter to me when it's with a guy! Any advice on what I should do?! Thank you for any help provided!
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Why did you think it was wrong to have fun with your friend? It sounds like you liked each other and had fun. Maybe the confusion was actually thinking it was wrong. What were you solving?
 
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