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Stereotypes on Asians

arc248

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Hello, everyone. This question is for all the "non-Asians" out there.

In the US, a lot of straight guys have this "thing" for Asian girls. They think Asian girls are exotic and perhaps even erotic? I've seen a lot of caucasians and hispanics dating Asian girls, and these girls are not even close to what we Asians would consider as "beautiful". Americans think Lucy Liu (the Chinese actress in Charlie's Angels) is an absolute sex goddess, while us Chinese think she is ugly. On the other hand, we think the Hawaiian mix Maggie Q (the Chinese girl in Mission Impossible 3) was gorgeous, but she didn't make it big in Hollywood.

Okay, enough said about girls. So, what do you guys think of Asian guys? What physical traits and personalities would you consider to be desirable in an Asian guy? Small eyes? Obedience? (These are soooo stereotypical.)

Also, out of curiosity and (low self-esteem), I attached some of my photos and want to hear your honest opinions. (Please have some mercy though)

I'm often mistaken as a mix or Hispanic (there are times when a Hispanic would come up to me and ask questions in Spanish), but I'm actually 100% Chinese. Back in 7th grade, one of the kids (a Caucasian) in my class called me "the UGLIEST kid" that he has ever seen. My mom tried to make me feel better by saying that I'm her "angel". Well, I guess that was out of her kindness.

That kid's malicious remark has haunted me all the way through high school. Just a few years ago, I didn't dare to look at people in their eyes because I felt inferior. I used to envy all the gorgeous guys, and thought to myself, "Why can't I look like that" etc. There was also a period of time when I felt hopeless and desperate, so I turned to food (especially sweets) to comfort myself. I overate, and of course I became overweight. (So, I guess I like sweets, but sweets don't like me.)

With the help of my family and a very special friend, I have got back some confidence and self-esteem. (And, yes, I lost a lot of weight.)

Thanks for reading this, and looking forward to hear some opinions.
 
You look fine to me!:D One of the reasons I tend to be attracted to Asian men is that I prefer men with very dark eyes and hair!
 
Hey! I was gonna ask for a date! ](*,)

Seriously, very good looking. Don't worry about the stereotypes, whenever I've met an asian guy and started to know him, the stereotypes got smashed, and quick.
 
*gasp*
That's the phone i wanted to get. :D
YOu look normal. You don't look hispanic at all, but then i guess small minds will go confusing this with that.
 
I have had really hot sex with asian men because I'm short they tend to be short too. But really it comes down to me finding a connection with someone and then I forget about what categories they fall into.
 
Sup arc248 and Jubbies,

I'm 100% Japanese. I have always had pride in my heritage and you should too.

I think growing up in a white-hick town made me confront stereotyping early, but it made me stronger as a person. I can also say I grew from that experience as a gay man too; I have pride for what and who I am.

Pity those who cannot see quality and beauty where we do, and no worries dude, you look handsome. ..|
 
As an Asian person you are far better off in terms acceptability in mainstream America (if that's where you live) compared to other minorities.

Not to be condescending (or cruel), but Asians seem to be the only "exotics" sought after with ravenous ambition. The Asiatic language courses are also packed with Caucasians seeking to either meld into the "superior" Asiatic cultures or better yet, get into the pants of Asian girls (or guys) through marginal mastery of a specific Asiatic language... and they come in droves like flies to a turd.

This being said, count your blessings sir, rather than stroking your ego with false self pity. You know you are attactive and desirable and you just want to rub it in everyone's faces. There are some of us in the world that have real problems.
 
Man, I remember when we last had this discussion...

But anywho, 100% Chinese here, too. It's really funny about how Lucy Liu is received here. My parents always state that "We had servents who looked like her." It's very strange. But I will say that Western culture has this embarrassing obsession with all things Eastern.

It's like any Chinese film is an A+ to critics when it may not be that good (Ex: House of Flying Daggers).

You forgot that we all know kung fu and that we all play either the violin or the piano.

I happen to fit a few of the asian stereotypes. I was a really obediant kid, and for the most part, I still am though my laziness get sin the way. My eyes do close really thin when I smile to the point where my friends sometimes wonder how I can see. And yes, my cock isn't the biggest salamie in the butcher shop.

But I figure, I'm just who I am and I know a culture that some people don't and I get a perspective that's different. Just like you--you're just who you are. And I think you look fine.
 
I think you are cute. Show me more and I'll give you more.:badgrin:

I have zero use for stereotypes.

Dated an Asian Canadian actually. He was 'fine' looking. Total horses-ass mind you, but that had nothing to do with race or culture.

BTW, I get "hispanic" as well. I'm thinking it's 'cause I'm 'black' Irish from WAY back.
 
Hey Arc,

Singaporean here, 7/8th Chinese, 1/8th Malay and all and you look perfectly fine.

7th graders can sometimes behave like well, 7th graders; don't let anything from that period of your life get into your head.
 
Filipino here! interesting discussion, i enjoyed reading everyone's responses.

you look just fine dude, pretty good jawline you got there! ..|
 
Hey Arc,

I'm also Chinese but was born in England. Although you could argue that I'm 100% British because my parents were born in Hong Kong when it was still part of Britain. :-) Anyway I'm think myself more as English rather than Chinese even though I do speak a little Chinese to my parents.

Yeah my parents agree with yours and their standards of beauty are pretty different from Western's. I heard from my mum that the epitome of feminine beauty is an oval face shape as well perfect symmetry of face. I still see Lucy Liu as pretty and to be honest I can normally find something physically attractive in pretty much anyone.

I've heard about Asian stereotypes before and personally I would force every person, with those narrow-minded and small eyed views, to visit China, Japan, Malaysia and see that we're far more diverse than they think. There is this myth amongst some asians and many other races that whites are somehow superior but in a subtle way- in terms of wealth, status and power. I reject this old fashioned view but in England Chinese are a minority- probably 50,000. Whereas it's estimated that there's 3 million gays in England! And most of them are white. So I fully understand how you feel. I used to suffer a bit from that inferiority complex but not anymore. I've looked at other qualities other than the colour of my skin or my race to increase my confidence. I've also realised that I don't care what these narrow minded people think.

Wow I'm sure I went off tangent there! But as for your appearance, you're pretty good looking- clear skin, good bone structure, intelligent looking eyes.
 
I think one of the stereotypes is that Asians are demure and self-effacing. I think a lot of aggressive guys like that kind of personality, whether it's real or just perceived.
 
Arc248,

No one looks good to everyone. It's true.

You may not be his cup of tea, but who is he?

PS: Lucy Liu is ok , but Maggie Q is good looking. :D
 
I have a raging attraction to Asian men. There is just something I find so attractive about Asian guys. Arc248, I think you're hot. I'm Jewish and there are a lot of stereotypes about Jews too.
 
lol

Please, as a white male,

let me assure you that anyone worth your time won't be looking for his own personal "memeiors of a geshia"....

And honestly, posting your pic over the internet to have a bunch of random men tell you your attractive seems to speak of rather low self esteem.

In that case, whether you're attractive or not, relationships are not going to happen if you can't learn to be comfortabel with yourself.

Believe me, the only partners interested in indviduals with low self esteem are seeking something other than a life equal (generally)

......
 
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