I've always been curious to try fooling around with another guy. Mostly just an interesting in the cock and ass play more than actual attraction to guys. May sounds weird, but somehow in my head I only feel comfortable fooling around with another straight guy!
I'm curious if there are others like me? And if so, were you successful in setting up a hook up and how'd you go about it?
There are many like you, and it doesn't sound weird at all. You're not attracted to guys in the way you're attracted to women. You're just curious about what another cock would feel like - in your hands, in your mouth, even maybe leading to feeling it in your ass. You identify as straight but you're attracted to and curious about cock. This is exactly like me, and many others.
I've been successful in hook-ups, and you can too. I turned to hook-up apps/websites to find others like me, because I never wanted to take the risk of hitting up a friend or acquaintance in case it wasn't for them, and I feared damaging friendships and/or being outed. How you feel about trying it with someone you know, vs. hook-up apps, depends on you:
- Will you be comfortable in a friend finding out that you have a deep-down desire for cock? Then you might find a friend to play with. Be prepared for the possibility that it won't be their thing and they might even be totally freaked out by the suggestion. You might sound them out by making hints, watching porn, etc.
- How would you feel about meeting a stranger, or someone you don't know well, purely for sex? There are many of us who do just that regularly. You could sound out someone online, ease into it by meeting them casually for a drink, see if you feel comfortable. Hook-up apps are populated by all sorts from outwardly gay men, experienced bi men who are comfortable with the idea, curious guys like you, straight guys in sexless marriages who just want to get off, and guys who are just looking, too terrified to ever actually do anything. You have to sift the wheat from the chaff.
How did I do it? I simply chatted with guys on a hook-up website and arranged to meet. My first was a bi guy who invited me to his home when his wife was out. We only played around, watched porn, and jerked off together. That was my first experience of being in the presence of another hard cock and seeing it cum. We met a few more times but I grew tired of him as he was effeminate and would wear make-up and perfume, which was not my thing. I wanted to be penetrated (I'd played with toys for years and wanted the real thing) and he wasn't going to be the one to do it for me.
My next hook-ups were also found on the site, with gay guys. An older guy living alone was the first cock I sucked to completion (and what an experience!). A guy my age (in my 30s at the time), also alone at the time, was the first cock to penetrate me. You've said you'd be more comfortable with another straight guy, and I get that. Gay guys, if you are tempted to test one out, are more tactile and take longer to enjoy the experience. There's no nerves and shyness with a gay guy. When it comes to anal, if you go that far, they'll know how to make it good for a first timer. You might want to consider how you would feel about hooking up with a gay or bi guy. Don't rule out a large proportion of potential hook-ups. A cock is a cock.
After my early experiences I moved on to make great friends-with-benefits arrangements with a couple of straight guys (separate guys, unknown to each other, lol). I found the motives are different for different people. One was curious like me, and wanted to share the experience of cock. the dynamics shifted from shared experience to me finding my more natural role as a bottom. I never really had any desire to penetrate a guy or have my cock sucked by a guy. We seemed to reach an understanding. I would submit my body to him, he would get off, but we would do it as equals, each with a physical need and desire that could be satisfied.
The other guy was married and not getting it from his wife. He simply needed to get off. I think he needed to feel another body and to feel manly in the role of being submitted to. I started out sucking his cock, and then after a few hook-ups I offered him my pussy. I said "I want you to fuck me". His eyes lit up like a beacon. I learned some time after he had never been able to get a woman to do it, and here he was, getting his first anal from a guy.
This married guy fucked like a demon, and I've found this with many straight guys too. They're overtaken by primal animalistic lust, when their shaft is buried in a tight hole and it feels so different to a vagina, they pound with a rage that is unequalled by gay and bi guys who tend to give a more tactile experience. A straight guy will typically want you in doggy position as he doesn't want to see your face and to him you're just a hole. When blowing a straight guy, he'll typically not look at you and will not want you to make eye contact with him. As a general rule, stay away from his ass too.
Also as a general comment, many straight guys, after they cum, tend to come to their senses and it dawns on them what they've just done. Many can't get away quickly enough. I'm always ready with tissues or wipes to offer one and let him wipe his cock (most won't want you to touch them or do it for them), and take care of the condom if we just had anal. Oh, and speaking of which, you might want to consider your safe sex options if you hook up with random guys. Decide your limits and stick with them. If you're in a straight relationship or hoping to start one in the future, consider what the implications will be if you contract anything.
Hopefully what I've described will help you understand other guys in your situation, and what drives many guys who are not attracted to guys to have sex with guys. It can be nerve-wracking, awkward and disappointing. It can be wild, crazy, and fun, depending on how you both approach it. Just don't ever feel that it's weird or wrong, if it's between consenting adults in private and nobody gets hurt, it's harmless and it's part of life's experiences.
Good luck and have fun!
