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Study Says Gays Can Change Orientation

I think almost every gay man who was born before 1970 probably prayed to be changed because to be gay was to be cursed and would lead one to be ostracized from society. At that time the Gay subculture was more radicalized because it was forced into the margins. These same gays became lightning rods for change and, by their courage, have enabled a growing acceptance of gays and lesbians to take place.

Most of those who are Christian are ignorant of gays--if they are evangelicals or fundamentalists they may truly believe that gays represent an "evil" way of life. It is similar "evil" way of life that their divorced friends lead but in their minds, these friends are at least "natural" in their desires and therefore, normal! As they realize they actually have friends who are gay, there is a tendency to soften.

Regarding the story quoted above--how many times do we have to read of this stuff. There are so many other stories that have outlined the fallacy of it all. We recieve our underlying identities from Almighty God. And we are all made in His image. While some may not accept or understand that image--it remains, good. What we do, how we love demonstrates this to the world.

I prayed for years to be different--I had to learn that I am what God wanted me to be. To want to go against that would be to deny myself. That is what leads to mental illness and other problems! God help us all!

Sorry to have written so much but this topic is intensely irritating!
 
I know a lesbian who was all about pride.But a month ago she said she went to church and got saved.So now she's straight.................



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Ex gays are the worst kind of gays. They're just as guilty as those who brainwash them - shame, shame!
 
Orientation for men is unisexual, so it is doubtful that you'll get a gay man interested in feminine partners of either gender. I can see a queeny guy maybe(big maybe) falling for a very butch lesbian that looks like a man, but I can't see him falling in love with a girly girl that is so alluring to the gender-typical heterosexual men like myself -delicate eyebrows, small chin, soft voice, and above all, a passive, gentle personality. The bottom line is that the gays will always want masculine partners to balance them out, so trying to make them straight as in making them attracted to opposite gender people who are phenotypically and neuotypically of the opposite gender won't work.
 
Well .. being one of the older members here ; born in 1949 .. I've NEVER prayed or wanted to be different ... I just wanted acceptance of me for who I am ..
Also; I've worked in a library and read a lot of books, magazines and newspapers etc ... BUT: I've NEVER read such a load of BULL SH*t in all of my life ......
They give the Church and Christianity a bad name ....
As far as CBN goes ... Their Christian Broadcasting Network is so damm ultra conservative ... I just erase their channel when I program the TV ...
 
theblackajah said:
Ex gays are the worst kind of gays. They're just as guilty as those who brainwash them - shame, shame!
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Now, now. A lot of them are just naive. A few of them might even be happier on a new course.

Not a few guys on these msgboards are divorcés who functioned as husbands and begat kids.
I don't think they're the worst. I'm still learning; and you will be too, decade after decade.
The exciting thing about being gay is we get to remake the world a little bit wiser and better for all. We help invent a better future.
Don't think I'm the slightest bit in favor of the crapaganda that goes with this ex-gay stuff.
 
Dduder said:
Orientation for men is unisexual, so it is doubtful that you'll get a gay man interested in feminine partners of either gender. I can see a queeny guy maybe(big maybe) falling for a very butch lesbian that looks like a man, but I can't see him falling in love with a girly girl that is so alluring to the gender-typical heterosexual men like myself -delicate eyebrows, small chin, soft voice, and above all, a passive, gentle personality. The bottom line is that the gays will always want masculine partners to balance them out, so trying to make them straight as in making them attracted to opposite gender people who are phenotypically and neuotypically of the opposite gender won't work.
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None of this makes any sense.
 
sunoftheskye said:
None of this makes any sense.
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Just because you don't comprehend it doesen't mean it makes no sense. I could give you a paper on fluid dynamics or differential geometry and you wouldn't understand it either, and yet it would still make perfect sense for those who can understand it.
 
^Just b/c you've lost those two fellas doesn't meant that they are intellectually inferior. Instead, try re-articulating your idea so that it's more understandable.

Then again, I'm a member of the passive, delicate gender so whatever works for you master is fine by me.
 
I have a friend who is deeply in denial.We have known each other for many years everybody knows he is in the closet
 
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