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The Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2015
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That link is based more on racial fetishizing. Unfortunately many people tend to do that shit across the board.
I think that fetishizing someone simply because of a characteristic they happen to have where they just become an object or pleasure is fucked up. Sadly, there's guys that also want to be fetishized or basically make themselves into a stereotype to get certain peoples attention.
You know, a white guy who fetishizes black guys turning himself into a fetish thinking that black men want to date him because he's white or doing that to men in general thinking his skin color will automatically get him a man.
I also notice that the apps like grindr and scruff fetishizes guys by putting labels on them (jock, college, bear, twink, and etc).
The thing is that I just think that it boils down to just treating someone with respect.
I think that fetishizing someone simply because of a characteristic they happen to have where they just become an object or pleasure is fucked up. Sadly, there's guys that also want to be fetishized or basically make themselves into a stereotype to get certain peoples attention.
You know, a white guy who fetishizes black guys turning himself into a fetish thinking that black men want to date him because he's white or doing that to men in general thinking his skin color will automatically get him a man.
I also notice that the apps like grindr and scruff fetishizes guys by putting labels on them (jock, college, bear, twink, and etc).
The thing is that I just think that it boils down to just treating someone with respect.
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OK. "100" has officially become trite and a cliche.
Next.
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You don't even know what 100 means. Figure it out first before trying to make smart remarks embarrassing yourself.
Holy moly, my crazy life just won't settle down. While doing an ultrasound on one mass in my wife, they found another one on her left side 
. Then when we got home from hospital, there was a letter for my daughter. She got accepted into the pre-med program at her uni of choice. Man, I don't know how to feel any more, so I just take another pill.
. Then when we got home from hospital, there was a letter for my daughter. She got accepted into the pre-med program at her uni of choice. Man, I don't know how to feel any more, so I just take another pill.
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man....... think it's a bit sad that a lot of people in my generation are so desperate for attention, validation and fame. they go about it in the wrong way too. i just seen a video of some guy taping another man setting a guy on fire and in the process, set himself on fire while setting the other guy on fire. these two guys were about to brawl too and then the fuckery just happened. aside from the horror of seeing the victim running up and down the highway, screaming "help me" and jumping across the roadway in pain obviously. the guy who filmed the incident didn't even bother to help the guy on fire. he followed him and kept filming him. he got close enough to show the guy on the ground basically burned to hell.... skin burned off, clothes burned off. the guy was basically in his draws by the time the fire was out. he then proceeded to turn the camera on the other people that were on fire as well. guess he was trying to be on worldstarhiphop.
seriously, this need to record fights, all these selfies, people overkilling the social media..... it's clear that a lot of this shit is fucking up people's minds for real. like really fucking them up. i really can't understand how attached someone could be towards being famous where in a situation like that, the first thing they do is pull out their phone and start taping shit? even worse, uploading it on the computer with the "look what i filmed". come on, breh. the only possibly good thing besides this shit being used at trial to convict the guy that did that horror act is that this should show people not to always get into fucking fights because you never know what someone will do to you or how crazy somebody is where they would do something like that. there's a lot of people that think that defending their honor or standing up for themselves or getting back at somebody is to hurt them or whatever. it's okay to walk away or to not fight back when you don't need to. these guys were arguing over nothing. supposedly, it was over gas money. nothing in the world warrants somebody to do that to someone.
i think another sad case is seeing how men especially gay men are basically using a lot of these social media platforms for validation, attention and etc. it's not a thing to go on instagram and see a gay guy naked along with 100 selfies of "look @ me". i know that straight guys do it too but i think an overwhelming majority of guys that i see doing that are gay dudes. it's like... "wow, are you really that insecure with yourself?" have some damn confidence. stop looking for people to compliment you.
seriously, this need to record fights, all these selfies, people overkilling the social media..... it's clear that a lot of this shit is fucking up people's minds for real. like really fucking them up. i really can't understand how attached someone could be towards being famous where in a situation like that, the first thing they do is pull out their phone and start taping shit? even worse, uploading it on the computer with the "look what i filmed". come on, breh. the only possibly good thing besides this shit being used at trial to convict the guy that did that horror act is that this should show people not to always get into fucking fights because you never know what someone will do to you or how crazy somebody is where they would do something like that. there's a lot of people that think that defending their honor or standing up for themselves or getting back at somebody is to hurt them or whatever. it's okay to walk away or to not fight back when you don't need to. these guys were arguing over nothing. supposedly, it was over gas money. nothing in the world warrants somebody to do that to someone.
i think another sad case is seeing how men especially gay men are basically using a lot of these social media platforms for validation, attention and etc. it's not a thing to go on instagram and see a gay guy naked along with 100 selfies of "look @ me". i know that straight guys do it too but i think an overwhelming majority of guys that i see doing that are gay dudes. it's like... "wow, are you really that insecure with yourself?" have some damn confidence. stop looking for people to compliment you.
I feel like our political/social views are going to end up driving my older brother and I apart. I saw him agree with a rant someone had about how this guy "never met a gay dude who was offended by the word "faggot".' And gay people shouldn't be offended because there are gay people that use the word, same shit I've heard about a number of other groups of people. It really disappointed me and upset me a lot to see him agree with something like that.
It is fine that there are people that aren't bothered or offended by the words, but don't sit there and speak for everyone as if they shouldn't be bothered by derogatory terms just because you want to have excuses to keep using it without repercussions.
It is fine that there are people that aren't bothered or offended by the words, but don't sit there and speak for everyone as if they shouldn't be bothered by derogatory terms just because you want to have excuses to keep using it without repercussions.
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I don't care who uses the word faggot, I find it offensive. And gay friends damn well know better than to call me "girlfriend".
Back in the early 80's, I saved a young guy from the UK from a whole world of hurt. Was in a bar (American Veterans club NOT a gay bar) and he asked the old boy sitting at the bar next to him if he had a fag. Man did that guy's eyes get wide. I thought oh shit, it's going to hit the fan now. Lucky for the young man that I both smoked and knew what he was asking for. So I stepped in and said that he was asking to bum a cigarette. Things calmed down.
As for ethnicity, I don't have a 'fetish'. If I find a guy hot, I don't care if he's white, black or even green.
And don't even get me started on cellphones.
Back in the early 80's, I saved a young guy from the UK from a whole world of hurt. Was in a bar (American Veterans club NOT a gay bar) and he asked the old boy sitting at the bar next to him if he had a fag. Man did that guy's eyes get wide. I thought oh shit, it's going to hit the fan now. Lucky for the young man that I both smoked and knew what he was asking for. So I stepped in and said that he was asking to bum a cigarette. Things calmed down.
As for ethnicity, I don't have a 'fetish'. If I find a guy hot, I don't care if he's white, black or even green.
And don't even get me started on cellphones.
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Weeeeeeeeeeyeeeehell, where do we start?! I fear that I am living in some sort of toxic zone. 9 of my family members have had cancer of one sort or another, and that's not even counting others that I don't know about. This cluster is too confined to be happenstance, but my letters, emails, and calls to my Congressman have gone unanswered. I'm not blaming my cancer or lupus on this, but sheesh!
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I was trying to put the flash player on a laptop last night.. and probably wasted a few hours with the f'ing thing.
First the stupid computer refused to connect to the network (wifi or wired), something must of got corrupted in its firewall-app settings, once I re-loaded the settings file, it connected just fine.
Then I went FireFox's Add-ons settings, and did a search for 'Flash' and then 'Flash Player'... did the flash player show up? NOPE, just a bunch off flash-blocking addons! WTF. A search of 'Shockwave' gave the same type of results. Seriously WTF is wrong with the FireFox search page for addons??
(and what good is a flash-blocker if you can't get flash in the first place!!)
its not like I was looking for some weird little thing. I fumbled around with different searches & search settings, and never did find it :angry: No idea why its so dammed difficult to find a very common/simple thing. Google'ing what I wanted turned out to be basically useless too...I'm starting to think a what I want (a "full download" - not downloading an 'installer' that then itself downloads the actual thing) and not something located on an adobe server) doesn't exist.
I finally gave up & went to bed. I'll have to go battle that f**ker later on.
personally I hate flash anyway, but some sites need it to work
ok. enough of a rant
First the stupid computer refused to connect to the network (wifi or wired), something must of got corrupted in its firewall-app settings, once I re-loaded the settings file, it connected just fine.
Then I went FireFox's Add-ons settings, and did a search for 'Flash' and then 'Flash Player'... did the flash player show up? NOPE, just a bunch off flash-blocking addons! WTF. A search of 'Shockwave' gave the same type of results. Seriously WTF is wrong with the FireFox search page for addons??
(and what good is a flash-blocker if you can't get flash in the first place!!)
its not like I was looking for some weird little thing. I fumbled around with different searches & search settings, and never did find it :angry: No idea why its so dammed difficult to find a very common/simple thing. Google'ing what I wanted turned out to be basically useless too...I'm starting to think a what I want (a "full download" - not downloading an 'installer' that then itself downloads the actual thing) and not something located on an adobe server) doesn't exist.
I finally gave up & went to bed. I'll have to go battle that f**ker later on.
personally I hate flash anyway, but some sites need it to work
ok. enough of a rant
jbrown329
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72-Jay
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Thanks, but won't work for me...jbrown329 said:
I saw similar results on my google searches, but like this one, they all went either directly or indirectly to an adobe server, so not an option.
jbrown329
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Sorry that didn't help. That's how I installed flash (Firefox).
It's how I've installed to FF, too, but I continue to get errors.
jbrown329
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Did you download Adobe's uninstaller? Run it, reboot, reinstall and see if that does it.
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