The Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2016

[mikemizanin729]

She's done a lot over time.

 

[Alistair]

Jeez, can you guys get a room or something? It's been nothing but a dick waving contest. Enough already.

Man, I missed the dicks? I always miss out on the dicks

 

[Natello4]

Jeez, can you guys get a room or something? It's been nothing but a dick waving contest. Enough already.

Bring that sword fight with a happy ending anytime!

 

[sixthson]

What not even a card from Mary Ellen, Elizabeth or Erin.

Happy belated birthday

No, but the Baldwin sisters gave me some of the recipe. I shared it with NotHardUp because he once had an affair with the sissy John Boy.

 

[dpnice]

........................the sissy John Boy.

I hate people who call others a "sissy" just because they have a sensitive side to their character.

 

[frankfrank]

Apparently having to go to the Emergency Room on Sunday night wasn't urgent enough for my Doctors office or Doctor to show I needed this medicine.

Wow. I guess I'm fortunate that I was actually able to get an antibiotic injection and prescription in 2003, at 7PM at night in ER when I came down with a bad infection and my doctor wasn't available. Who knows that, without that, I could have been killed???

They seem to obsessively return time and time again to a single theme and some of the phrasing is now even repetitive

You're accusing him of channeling...Michael Rubio????

 

[MakeDigitalLove]

Wow. I guess I'm fortunate that I was actually able to get an antibiotic injection and prescription in 2003, at 7PM at night in ER when I came down with a bad infection and my doctor wasn't available. Who knows that, without that, I could have been killed???

My doctors office lied and didn't get into contact with me about switching my medicines before I went to the Hospital. I contacted the pharmacy to get a renewel last Monday and it got denied by the insurance, doctors office never called the insurance company or offer alternate medicine until Thursday when I called them. They claimed they did but it is odd since the insurance back to them the very next day. And they didn't notify me or my pharmacy to change the medicine to something else on Friday when they got that info.

I found this out Monday when I went to see them and I wouldn't of had to go to the hospital or lose a day of work if they did that.

 

[sixthson]

My doctors office lied and didn't get into contact with me about switching my medicines before I went to the Hospital. I contacted the pharmacy to get a renewel last Monday and it got denied by the insurance, doctors office never called the insurance company or offer alternate medicine until Thursday when I called them. They claimed they did but it is odd since the insurance back to them the very next day. And they didn't notify me or my pharmacy to change the medicine to something else on Friday when they got that info.

I found this out Monday when I went to see them and I wouldn't of had to go to the hospital or lose a day of work if they did that.

It's a sad fact of life that there are lots of people between you and your doctor. Some of them are low trained people working as go-betweens, relaying messages. Sometimes the messages do not get to your physician. Sometimes it's physician's assistants (who are well educated) who handle medication changes and okays. Then, of course, there is the three way activity between the doctor and the pharmacy, via the internet (since very few doctors actually write scripts anymore) and then from the pharmacy to the insurance company, which has too much control as it is. Believe it or not, but doctors are frustrated by insurance companies, too.

The patient is often the one who pays the price in money and inconvenience, unfortunately. I hope you are doing better now.

 

[TheLoveableLoner]

Your hand rejected you again?

No, never that. A guy I'd been talking to. Who bizarrely never had time to hang out, yet seems upset with me for not giving him enough time.

 

[TheLoveableLoner]

Do you have more details LL, did you even meet him ?

We met, went on a date. He texted me a LOT after that, which was a bit bothersome. But over the course of months, the pace slowed down. We'd gone out and hooked up a few times. I got busy with work in December, so there was a long pause.

As soon as I was done Christmas vacation, I realized I liked him, wanted to explore more, so I made sure that I would make an effort to hand out with him every Sunday (The one day when our schedules allowed us both to see each other). But seems like something always came up with him. This bothered me a bit, but didn't dissuade me. (On the contrary, I tend to prefer these things very show-moving, so I'm patient).

A while ago, when I asked when we'd hang again, he made some comment about not looking how I just "check in and out of people's lives" when I want to. I took offense to that because I tried to hang with him plenty of times.

A week later, he messaged me excited about his book that he's self-published getting some publicity, and sending me a link to an interview he's in. Then saying he missed me. That I'm a great person, great artist, great man, and that he's rooting for me to make it.

I told him he confuses me. That he can't say he misses me when I tried to hang out with him numerous times.

He said "you're inconsistent romantically, but I stilI admire you." Basically, let's just be friends.

That's when I knew. Lol. Can't say it's a huge loss, I didn't feel a huge pull towards him, but I was interested in seeing what more could develop.

What's funny is that even though I've "dated" plenty, I don't recalled this happening after I've spent this much time hanging with anyone. Definitely a new feeling.

Once several years ago, a guy who had really led me on just went cold and ghosted me. That wasn't fun.

But I realize in hindsight that I was stupid to get feelings involved so quickly. This feels different because I've been in contact with this guy for several months now.

 

[Alistair]

We met, went on a date. He texted me a LOT after that, which was a bit bothersome. But over the course of months, the pace slowed down. We'd gone out and hooked up a few times. I got busy with work in December, so there was a long pause.

As soon as I was done Christmas vacation, I realized I liked him, wanted to explore more, so I made sure that I would make an effort to hand out with him every Sunday (The one day when our schedules allowed us both to see each other). But seems like something always came up with him. This bothered me a bit, but didn't dissuade me. (On the contrary, I tend to prefer these things very show-moving, so I'm patient).

A while ago, when I asked when we'd hang again, he made some comment about not looking how I just "check in and out of people's lives" when I want to. I took offense to that because I tried to hang with him plenty of times.

A week later, he messaged me excited about his book that he's self-published getting some publicity, and sending me a link to an interview he's in. Then saying he missed me. That I'm a great person, great artist, great man, and that he's rooting for me to make it.

I told him he confuses me. That he can't say he misses me when I tried to hang out with him numerous times.

He said "you're inconsistent romantically, but I stilI admire you." Basically, let's just be friends.

That's when I knew. Lol. Can't say it's a huge loss, I didn't feel a huge pull towards him, but I was interested in seeing what more could develop.

What's funny is that even though I've "dated" plenty, I don't recalled this happening after I've spent this much time hanging with anyone. Definitely a new feeling.

Once several years ago, a guy who had really led me on just went cold and ghosted me. That wasn't fun.

But I realize in hindsight that I was stupid to get feelings involved so quickly. This feels different because I've been in contact with this guy for several months now.

It sounds like it could be an interesting friendship.

Did it cause you to think of anything you could change about yourself to help in future relationships?

 

[TheLoveableLoner]

Not really. If anything, it causes me to think stay away from them. But realistically, I don't think I should change anything about myself, I just don't think this guy and I were meant to be.

My trust level with "friends" is at an all time low, tbh. Too much movement in New York. People moving away, some marrying. Makes me realize I can't reasonably expect my friends to be a significant part of my life in a few years.

 

[sixthson]

What does romantically inconsistent mean? Does he feel you are hot and cold in what you want from him?

I think you can expect your friends to be a significant part of your life, you just can't expect as much time as they gave you as single people. Marriage, children and relocating are never easy when it comes to maintaining friendships, but if they are valuable to you now, your friends will always be valuable to you, if you are willing.

 

[mikey3000]

LL, In all honesty, from your past posts you made it sound like you weren't interested in any personal relationships. Has that changed?

 

[MakeDigitalLove]

It's a sad fact of life that there are lots of people between you and your doctor. Some of them are low trained people working as go-betweens, relaying messages. Sometimes the messages do not get to your physician. Sometimes it's physician's assistants (who are well educated) who handle medication changes and okays. Then, of course, there is the three way activity between the doctor and the pharmacy, via the internet (since very few doctors actually write scripts anymore) and then from the pharmacy to the insurance company, which has too much control as it is. Believe it or not, but doctors are frustrated by insurance companies, too.

The patient is often the one who pays the price in money and inconvenience, unfortunately. I hope you are doing better now.

Thanks, I am since I got the medicine I need daily. I am going to be switching Doctors, though. He kind of fudged up on the prescription Monday when I really needed it.

 

[TheLoveableLoner]

What does romantically inconsistent mean? Does he feel you are hot and cold in what you want from him?

I think you can expect your friends to be a significant part of your life, you just can't expect as much time as they gave you as single people. Marriage, children and relocating are never easy when it comes to maintaining friendships, but if they are valuable to you now, your friends will always be valuable to you, if you are willing.

Yea, I've gotten a taste of that. I've got a good core of friends who I know I'll have in my life forever. THe relationships change, but they're still every bit of my friends. However, I've watched my core sort of rebuild and break down multiple times. I had a good number of friends within walking distance that I've known for a period of five to ten years. That all has been blowing up and it's done at the end of the month--the final two pieces are gone. One guy I've lived with for six years is moving in with the girlfriend and I won't see him much. The other is moving to Vietnam. The usual aging plus the rapid turnover of NYC is making friendships tough.

Perhaps I was hot and cold. It was difficult to know what I wanted from him. But I was hoping to get time to find that out. I realize my pace and his were totally different
.

LL, In all honesty, from your past posts you made it sound like you weren't interested in any personal relationships. Has that changed?

It's not that I'm against them, I'm just never looking and perfectly fine staying single for eternity. (It's what I expect to do).

But if someone comes along that I'm interested in, I'll go for it. I've certainly tried in the past. I see relationships as an option, not a necessity.

 

[refujiunderground]

We met, went on a date. He texted me a LOT after that, which was a bit bothersome. But over the course of months, the pace slowed down. We'd gone out and hooked up a few times. I got busy with work in December, so there was a long pause.

As soon as I was done Christmas vacation, I realized I liked him, wanted to explore more, so I made sure that I would make an effort to hand out with him every Sunday (The one day when our schedules allowed us both to see each other). But seems like something always came up with him. This bothered me a bit, but didn't dissuade me. (On the contrary, I tend to prefer these things very show-moving, so I'm patient).

A while ago, when I asked when we'd hang again, he made some comment about not looking how I just "check in and out of people's lives" when I want to. I took offense to that because I tried to hang with him plenty of times.

A week later, he messaged me excited about his book that he's self-published getting some publicity, and sending me a link to an interview he's in. Then saying he missed me. That I'm a great person, great artist, great man, and that he's rooting for me to make it.

I told him he confuses me. That he can't say he misses me when I tried to hang out with him numerous times.

He said "you're inconsistent romantically, but I stilI admire you." Basically, let's just be friends.

That's when I knew. Lol. Can't say it's a huge loss, I didn't feel a huge pull towards him, but I was interested in seeing what more could develop.

What's funny is that even though I've "dated" plenty, I don't recalled this happening after I've spent this much time hanging with anyone. Definitely a new feeling.

Once several years ago, a guy who had really led me on just went cold and ghosted me. That wasn't fun.

But I realize in hindsight that I was stupid to get feelings involved so quickly. This feels different because I've been in contact with this guy for several months now.

Doesn't sound like he said let's be friends. Sounds like he is giving you a second chance. He just doesn't expect it to last.

 

[Charon]

lol, the manager of the 7-Eleven across the street charged me for using the microwave despite the fact that he once told me that it's always ok. Apparently he had something up his(and apparently it wasn't a dick, or else he'd be in a good mood)so he decided to vent out some of his frustration by charging me.

 

[jbrown329]

lol, the manager of the 7-Eleven across the street charged me for using the microwave despite the fact that he once told me that it's always ok. Apparently he had something up his(and apparently it wasn't a dick, or else he'd be in a good mood)so he decided to vent out some of his frustration by charging me.

Uh, why were you using a microwave at 7-Eleven?

 

[Charon]

Uh, why were you using a microwave at 7-Eleven?

We don't have a microwave at work, forgot to mention I'm at work.