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(Stop me if you've heard this before) Okay, so this guy has been flirting with me for two weeks (neither of us are out, but it's obvious something is going on). At first, he would just stare at me, then he played very romantic songs on a piano and his guitar, so naturally I get a vibe. Then we start to commonly exchange looks, sit right next to each other ( and if he sits in front of me with our friends, he constantly puts his foot on top of mine), glances at me while we walk, makes me laugh, always has his body pointed towards me. To me at least, these are tell all signs that he's interested, hell, he even tried to let me know he wasn’t interested in girls at the moment when an attractive girl walks by and all he says is "nice pants". So I'm starting to get into a serious crush, and I planned on talking to him about it yesterday (didn’t want to look like a vulture, due to him breaking up with his gf three weeks ago). And another friend of ours come in and he starts being very touchy feely with him in front me. Then when he sits next to him, he leans his shoulders towards him with his feet towards me, but when I try to play peek a boo like we have, he crosses his legs to block his face (he's his bed). As some of our friend leaves, he hugs him and they talk soft to each other, and so I think " I have a chance now!) But he still blocks my face, stops looking at me, and indirectly talks to me by talking to the whole group.
*sigh* should I give up or give it a try?
 
The world isn't going to go on hold while you're wasting time (TWO WEEKS?).......and neither will he.
You'd better get on the stick and make a move or there won't be any moves to make.......at least with him.
ASK him if he'd like to join you for coffee, a drink, lunch........any damn thing to spend some time together.......and see if he's interested.
 
Well, spent more time with him, then later texted him if we were getting closer because I felt a vibe... he told me he was straight, and we're still cool... but, I feel as if he's avoiding me through our friends. I also am really confused because he's still looking at me in a way that screams "I like you more than a friend".

Oh well, live and learn I guess...
 
So.......getting together "just because" is out of the question?
Bummer........ :(
 
get him drunk and see what he does....to you.
 
Not my style. I'm just so conflicted because just today, he gave me this look across the table that I just can't describe.
 
iminluv86 said:
Not my style. I'm just so conflicted because just today, he gave me this look across the table that I just can't describe.
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Was it the "what the fuck you waiting for, I've given you so many signs" look ?
 
Actually, yes, but I dont want to look like a total creep constantly talking to him after what went down.
 
That was my sarcasm speaking, forgive me.

Sounds like he is waiting for you to make the first move or at least a move. He could be scared about it all, being with a guy, not knowing how to go about flirting with a dude etc. So it's his clumsy nervous, flirtatious way of giving you hints that he is captivated by you and doesn't know what to do about it. He needs you to show him.

Get creative. slip him a note or a text to get him away from the group of friends. say something like "we need to talk" and then when he is freaked and meets up with you or follows you or whatever just say something like, "yeah dude I'm really thirsty, I just wanted to know what you wanted to drink if I get something."

He may take it as your coy way of picking up on his messages and playing along, it may spark a deeper interest where at some point you may find his hand on your ass....
 
My bad, lol. I might do that since we both have the same type of sense of humor. I know there's something there because as said earlier, he would constantly look at me out of the corner of his eye, and no guy that I know would do that multiple times if they werent interested.
 
iminluv86 said:
My bad, lol. I might do that since we both have the same type of sense of humor. I know there's something there because as said earlier, he would constantly look at me out of the corner of his eye, and no guy that I know would do that multiple times if they werent interested.
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Not only that, he wouldn't even bother telling you that he was doing it...

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by all means though, do keep us posted so we may live vicariously through your escapades with Mr. Flirty.
 
*sigh* Okay, my further escapades: Mon. and Tues. were horrible, period. Monday was the first time I saw him since I talked to him about "it". We didn't mention what we discussed, but we both knew. He acted different around me, he would talk to me by way of our friends, we joked about simple things that didnt have anything to do with "it". What tipped me off that he felt uncomfortable was that he would turn his back on me, and even ignore me. Well, Tues. he sat right next to me with his back turned, so I "texted" to some people and I saw him turn his head towards me, so I was really confused. Then, at lunch and dinner he left about 20 min. in (which is strange because he never has before *nitpicking*), aka he always would stay and we would walk together about 45 min. after lunch starts. He looked really depressed, as was I. Anyway, today he was sitting in a room with one of our friends and he looked at me and invited me over to watch some funny vids with him and his friend. Eventually, our eyes met when we were talking and he was acting funnier (making funny jokes) than before, he was spinning around in his chair looking at me, and what was funny was that I think he got a bit excited because he "left" to the bathroom and came back wearing his jacket, covering up his "male area". What confuses me the most is that, when he was leaving (now remember there are four of us in there), he leaves saying "by *my name*, see you later guys".
 
^ EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEASY does it....... ;)
 
He may be getting frustrated that he can never seem to get a moment alone with you.
I know I am. Seems like you always have a group of friends around. Is this some frat house or a college dorm or something? Can anyone do anything independently?

I still go with my initial inclination. He doesn't know what to do with his feelings about you and is hoping you will reciprocate his flirtations in some way or make a move that will give him some clear sign of "ok, let's at least hang together ALONE, go see a movie or something and explore this thing". Trust me if he was completely straight and had any kind of suspicion that you may have "feelings" for him, he would find ways to stop talking to you and completely avoid you altogether if he was truly uncomfortable with it all.

I had a friend who was doing a lot of these same things you mention, he had a fiance but for some reason being around me triggered something in him that drove him crazy. Popping boners whenever he was around me, getting all hot n bothered, nervous, sweaty, clumsy, flirtatious. He is married with 2 kids now. But yes, long story short, we did mess around and he became much more comfortable with himself, nudity and sexuality after our explorations.
 
The more it goes through my mind, the more I've realized how often he tries to get us alone, but it's only been twice we've really been alone (and twice one of us have had to do homework) to the point we just cant be alone together. Plus I agree with what yous said ElmosToe, if he wasn't interested he would have not have acted all crazy Wednesday. I'm just going to take it one day at a time now.
 
He might be straight or he could be a closet case. Your instincts about him could be right or you could be reading something into his looks that aren't there. Stop obsessing over him in that way and just try to be friends.
 
Well (for anyone who cares), I tried to be just friends with him, and our eyes met and it was like electricity between us. He deifinately has feelings because he cannot stop looking at me, and he copies my exact movements, and he plays footsie with me, he knows I'm checking him and out and vice versa, but we wont tell eachother (I know), we are more or less an unofficial couple, it's great! The only problem is everytime I'm ready to tell him so I can make it official, our friends show up, or one of us has to go and do something really important (for classes), so our busy schedule and our friends are driving me crazy! I was so ready to confront him about us, but our friends showed up and I was so pissed and I think he was too. So earleir today, three of us were in his room, and I became so pissed that I had to go out of town for the day, and he didn't want me to leave (aww). Well, I can tell you this shy guy is going to try and muster up some courage to tell this guy how I feel about him tomorrow. Wish me luck.
 
Good luck! Being busy is so frustrating when you're trying to make arrangements for one-on-one time but perseverence is key :D
 
iminluv86 said:
Well (for anyone who cares), I tried to be just friends with him, and our eyes met and it was like electricity between us. He deifinately has feelings because he cannot stop looking at me, and he copies my exact movements, and he plays footsie with me, he knows I'm checking him and out and vice versa, but we wont tell eachother (I know), we are more or less an unofficial couple, it's great! The only problem is everytime I'm ready to tell him so I can make it official, our friends show up, or one of us has to go and do something really important (for classes), so our busy schedule and our friends are driving me crazy! I was so ready to confront him about us, but our friends showed up and I was so pissed and I think he was too. So earleir today, three of us were in his room, and I became so pissed that I had to go out of town for the day, and he didn't want me to leave (aww). Well, I can tell you this shy guy is going to try and muster up some courage to tell this guy how I feel about him tomorrow. Wish me luck.
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Adorable.

Good luck dude.
 
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