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This is a pretty good approximization of my own musculature, although I'd add that my upper chest, traps, and front delts are bigger and more defined, and I'm more ripped at the moment. My "ideal" man is a more muscular version of this guy, but there are many versions of perfection and this guy comes pretty close.
Buff guys usually spend too much time in the gym sculpting so the personality will be narcistic. The men would have a high expectation that potential bf would be ripped as well. I don't know if I can measure up such a demanding guy.
Moreover, if you are into toned hunks who are masculine then why not go for girls, they would appreciate big hunks.


