What do you do when the guy you like despises you?

[hunky]

Do you keep trying or just tell him to go to hell and try to find a nicer person?

 

[GayBoyKellyCfan]

Well, with me everyone loves me, but if I ever met someone who didn't depending on the person it could go either way. But I think i would most likely beat them overe the head with a shovel and tell em to fuck off.

 

[rotary]

I don't think there's any need for you to tell him to F off. If he doesn't like you, he doesn't like you. As they say, plenty of fish in the sea.

 

[Christopher123]

Uhh, if somebody despised me, I think that would be my cue to take a hike and go somewhere else. I wouldn't subject myself to the pain.

 

[SilverRRCloud]

I cannot remember doing anything that would make anyone despise me.

If a dude does not like me and I am not his type and all, fine no harm done.

I move on.

As rotary wisely pointed out, there is plenty of fish in the sea...

SC

 

[herenthere]

Why would you persue a friendship, with someone that despises you..
Kick his ass to the curb..and get on with it!!

 

[Riverrick]

Yea, I guess i don't really understand the situation you're describing. If I like a guy and he doesn't like me, well, I can take a hint.

Why would I stay around until he despised me?

 

[MidnightPrism]

No one despises me


..but as Rick said, I can take a hint sometimes... and sometimes I completely overlook the obvious

 

[SFMusic]

Get rid of him. Men are a lot like buses. There's always another one coming along in a few minutes.

 

[bedbugy]

think just what he's lost he's still searching and looking you'r not

 

[bedbugy]

think just what he's lost he's still searching and looking you'r not

 

[Nonimus]

Well, with me everyone loves me, but if I ever met someone who didn't depending on the person it could go either way. But I think i would most likely beat them overe the head with a shovel and tell em to fuck off.

Sounds like my kinda gal!

If i found out the guy i liked despises me i'd cut my losses and move on.

 

[confusedboy23]

Hmmm.....dunno. Never had a guy that despises me.....yet!

 

[Nonimus]

Hmmm.....dunno. Never had a guy that despises me.....yet!

The night is young.....

 

[Lube]

Do you keep trying or just tell him to go to hell and try to find a nicer person?

You have some pretty depressing polls, Hunky.

Hope everything's OK with you.

 

[Nonimus]

Here's what I do when there's a guy I really like and he's not returning the feelings. I write him creepy love letters and sign them "The one you really love" and then leave them on his pillow after I break into his house. I also steal pieces of his clothing whenever I get a chance, like when I'm in his house when nobody is home, hiding in his closet while he sleeps or I've followed him to the gym he works out in. Then I lay them all out on the bed next to me and it's like he's really there. I just need to get one sock and a different color shirt, I grabbed a yellow one and I don't like yellow on him plus it's not romantic. If he likes someone else then I send that person threatening mail and make deep-voiced threatening phone calls to them, or I spread rumors about the guy cheating. If that doesn't work I get them fired from their job by planting copious amounts of drugs on them, posing as a DEA agent and busting them at work. Then with the boss standing there I'll say, "Look, we can forget this whole thing if you'll move to another state, change your name and never see ______ ever again. Oh, and you can keep the drugs." Usually by this point the guy is so into me he has to involve the police to keep himself off me. Not all people find love, some guys have to be shown.

I'd love to have a stalker like you!

 

[sheep]

Just stalk him. You'll eventually wear him out

 

[Soilwork]

I don't think that ANYONE has ever not liked me.

 

[metta]

I don't believe in forcing anything. For someone to despise me, I would think that we would have to have values that are totally the opposite...they would have to be into violence, selfishness, political spins, and waste. And I really do not want people like that in my life. I have never ever...ever...ever...hit on anyone in my entire life. I have never gone up to someone that I do not know. I'm not normally an in your face type of person unless someone is hurting a friend. I don't like to be noticed. I like to be in the background.

Because of my shyness, I would do the same thing as if I liked the person...absolutely nothing.

Why would I like someone who despises me?

 

[Nonimus]

I don't think that ANYONE has ever not liked me.

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