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ahotjock71

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1. Someone who is comfortable with who they are, NO MATTER who they are.
2. Someone who won't cheat.
3. Someone who is honest.
4. Someone who is kind & caring.


For all you nelly little boys who want a big butch man to sweep them off their feet - WAKE UP! THEY want MANLY MEN too!
 
I look for someone who isn't a total closet case. Someone that doesn't lie to their friends, family, and associates. Someone who isn't fearful, and is willing live their life with integrity and honesty.
 
Someone with conviction, intelligence and aspirations. Air heads are huge turn offs, even if they're extremely good looking.
 
I just want someone I can be comfortable with and likes to laugh.

Air heads are huge turn offs, even if they're extremely good looking.
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I agree^
 
a best friend to share all the activities we can imagine, especially sharing outdoors - camping, backpacking, canoeing, etc...

someone who can be trusted in all things....fair share...$$$$...monogamy....housekeeping & maintenance...

someone with his own "person" and interests....i want to be excited about being a part of his life as well as welcoming him into mine....

someone trustworthy....loyal....helpful....friendly....courteous....kind....obedient....cheerful....thrifty....brave....clean....reverent....:wave:
 
Honesty. Trust. Good intentions.

Hey, I even found that in a 'mentor'.
 
SurfBoy18 said:
I look for someone that you would never in a zillion years think they were gay. No tight clothes, no lisp, no guys infatuated with fashion, worried about their hair, etc. I prefer athletic, avearge guy next door types, somewhat religious, maybe even has a gf. Someone that could be my best friend and play basketball with, go to the gym, play xbox. For some reason as soon as I know someone is gay Im no longer interested. Weird? Maybe. I just cant stand even the slightest bit of feminism in a dude.

What about everyone else, what do you look for?

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I like the part about playing hoops with them - being able to share something fun together - that's great

In terms of looks - I like all kinds - longer hair, shorter hair, tall, not so tall. blonde hair, dark hair. I see guys on the street walking to work in NYC all the time - and so many look good and am attracted to.

Not into feminine guys either - nothing against them. Could be their friend. But don't find it attractive. Maybe that's because I was closeted - maybe that will change.
 
chance1 said:
Not into feminine guys either - nothing against them. Could be their friend. But don't find it attractive. Maybe that's because I was closeted - maybe that will change.
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I'm starting to wonder that myself.

I don't think I'm finished coming out to myself.
 
I'm a sports/gym guy myself , and would like somebody to be athletic
also, but it's not something I'm going to look down on a guy for not
liking to do or not able to do. I would never limit myself like that...who knows, your best heart connection might be someone you didn't think it would be with.
So I like to keep the door open for any type of guy for that reason.

I will however, not put up with drama or overacting. That is my huge turn off.
Don't like people that seem to not be able to handle any little damn situation
that comes up. Guys that carry on and on or cry and whine about some stupid
meaningless thing that happened like it was a death in the family.
Life is tough enough without making every little problem into a huge dramatic production.
 
Right now I would settle for someone who is honest.

That's become a rare commodity these days.
 
rotary said:
Someone with conviction, intelligence and aspirations. Air heads are huge turn offs, even if they're extremely good looking.
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My first boy love had all that - he had conviction, intelligence and aspirations. And oh, he was cute too! But, he's no longer mine.
 
Someone I can be friends with, someone to share more than just sex with.
 
After reading elvin1's thread, I think what I really want now is LOVE because that one word sums up too many other human qualities!
 
It's all in the chemistry...

True with all relationships
 
SurfBoy18 said:
I actually have a gf at the moment. :: gasp :: I think Im just craving that best friend I never really had. :confused:

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Why don't you just stick with the gf? She can be your best friend. That way you don't have to worry about slightly fem guys and we don't have to entertain you by answering your posts.
 
Chemistry.

Someone who loves me as much as I love them.

Prefer an "out-door" guy to an "inside-guy."

Someone who's not afraid to live life, and to embrace all that it has to offer.

Looks fade, so we're going to need to be able to talk about anything, and stimulate each others brain cells.

Someone who likes themself, and treats others the way he likes to be treated.

One thing I have found, is that no matter how hot a guy looks; his smile, his eyes, his body, his dick, or even how great he is in bed, I can bet you a dime to every dollar that there's some one out there somewhere who's sick and tired of his shit. ;)

I'm looking for more than that in a guy. ..|

:D
 
I'm with the pianist, here. I'm not looking for anyone or anything. Not that I've given up on "looking" as an exercise in futility...

maybe it would be more to say that I look at rather than look for...

there's plenty of hot guys out there, there are plenty of wonderful guys out there, there's probably quite a few hot, wonderful guys out there....and I'm sure at least a few of them are liable to find ME hot and wonderful, but right now it is enough for ME to feel that I'm hot and wonderful.

the more i live and grow, the more i come to enjoy what a great guy I am. I've met too many people who've tried to spoil that for me, and i'm in no hurry to meet more.
 
I look for someone with "kind eyes" Not sure how to explain it, but I know it when I see it
 
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