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What is it about kissing a guy on the lips?

Shady007

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What is it about kissing another man on the lips, that I dont like so much? I cant seem to kiss another man, I can suck them and everything else, but when it comes to kissing them, it turns me completely off...what is it?
 
I think it is one of the hottest things two men can do with their clothes on. How old are you? It may be one of the psychological hang-ups about being gay you haven't yet accepted.
 
I think kissing is the ultimate display of affection between two lovers - I myself love kissing, and wouldn't be interested in being with somebody who wasn't. Maybe in time you'll come round...

-T.
 
I dunno, when I kissed my various girlfriends through the years it was nice but after the first kiss I felt pretty disappointed and then learned to take it as the status quo and got over it. Then I kissed my first guy in college, I was elated for almost two full days. For me it just made it obvious that I had to get over being afraid of being gay because my body responded that way. I'm really sorry you seem to have developed the opposite way in that gay sex appealed and occured but kissing just hasn't. Even now it's the first thing I imagine about a guy I'm attracted too, a long and full kiss in a discrete corner or on the doorstep goodnight.

I figured this thread was 'What is it about kissing a guy on the lips that is so terrific?' so if it WAS my response would be it's knowing that you've found someone that not only accepts you for who you are but finds it desirable as much as you do them.

Do you have a problem with specific age groups? I've kissed much older men and guys just legal, but can find excitement in any of them.

I guess you should elaborate on your own question a little bit, what is it that you don't like? The feeling on your lips, the taste or the idea of saliva being exchanged, being approached on your face like that (do you like being kissed / kissing on the cheek or neck)?

One of the things I did with a boyfriend was bring a small bowl of grapes to bed and we enjoyed nibbling and sucking on those between our mouths, one of my fondest memories, maybe something like that would help?

Pucker up!
 
I'm 25 yrs old and in a couple of months will be 26. To this day the hottest thing I've ever done and the thing that has turned me on the most was when I made out with a guy for the first time. I can still taste the saliva and feel the way his toungue felt in my mouth and lips. He was the best kisser I've ever experianced. (Italian) not that should matter but I think there is something to it..lol My future man HAS got to love making out or it will not work.
 
It's the difference between quickie sex (physical release) and true affection (emotional connection)

Agreed. If I'm looking for just sex, kissing isn't that important. But for real emtional connection, kissing is a must. Kissing can be as intimate as intercourse, if not more so. To receive a long romantic deep kiss from my partner can turn me on as much as anything else he can do. Just thinking about it makes quickens my pulse. Plus there are so many kinds of kisses: tender loving ones to I-can't-wait-to-rip-your-clothes-off-and-have-you-now kisses.

On a practical level, perhaps it's something like stubble (which I kinda like) or oral hygeine that's part of the issue. Bad breath can put a real damper on my libido. And there's a difference between kissing men and women. But it's been so long since I kissed a woman on the lips I can't remember what those differences are - lol!

One thing that comes to me is to wait until you find someone you want to kiss. You'll know. And maybe you'll be lucky enough to find that guy AND he'll know how to kiss well. It'll be really worth the wait, believe me!
 
Kissing and cuddling is one of the most important things to me.

I miss doing those with my ex...bah!
 
Uh oh.... I am sensing the ol' Men are for sex, women are for intimacy thread returning.... :D My 2 cents.... I am bi... I kiss my Girlfriend, I also enjoy kissing men.... "most" Bi men I've met do not want to, but I have been fortunate to meet a few who enjoy it... I also need to feel an attachment to the man I'm with... I do not like quickies, or one night stands. I much prefer being with someone who I like and respect, and who can reciprocate those feelings... again most Bi men I've met tend to jump right for the sex... which explains why I am currently without a man in my life... :mad: anyway I find it currious that someone can put someones cock in their mouth, let the other person cum in their mouth, yet cannot put their lips on that persons lips.... I tend to think that for a lot of men, kissing is the boundry line of gay.... it's okay to suck cock, but once you offer that first kiss, now I must be gay, and it really does not work that way.... it's okay to intimate with a woman I am and enjoy the company and pleasure women immensly.... I also feel it is okay to be intimate with a man, and I also enjoy the company and pleasure men can offer... if I'm sucking his dick, he damn well better let me kiss him, and mean it... :D
 
Kissing, to me, is the most intimitate part of a relationship. I love kissing. I can go for hours just making out. Not sure why other bi guys doesn't like kissing other guys. I think they're missing out on something wonderful. My two cents.
 
I love kissing, caressing and cuddling with a guy too!! French kissing is the best. It turns me on and them too. It is intimate and personal and pasionate, which is what I like. :kiss: :kiss:
 
............yes, kissing has always been a big part of my sexual relationships with guys and I never gave it a second thought not to do it as it just came natural .......but I must add this, I have never been in what you would call one night stands, all three of my relationships have been with someone I knew well before going further with them so maybe that's something to consider as I was in love with each before we got sexual.........we would steal kisses in elevators, restrooms, when along walking on beaches in the evenngs, etc.......awesome.
 
Sounds normal "It's the difference between quickie sex (physical release) and true affection (emotional connection)", but I don´t think it applies for each and every different case.
Mine is that it has become my "push" button. It got to a level that, when I start kissing, I get an immediate hard on (without any external "support" like the blue pill :-)). Put it the other way: kissing is my natural most effective Viagra lol
 
Guys kissing is one thing that makes the Corbin Fisher and Sean Cody videos the hottest in the industry. It's simply more hot to watch and do because of the intimacy which often is thought as unobtainable between two hot guys.
 
I love kissing. I had a BF who was a lousy kisser ... but a great guy and great fuck. I think kissing is a very intimate part of a relationship wether it be on the lips or all over his body. I'm a very oral person .. not just sucking cock but lips are another sexual organ to me :)
 
I love kissing, it's the best part, totally intimate
 
Kissing your man is one of life's greatest gifts and pleasures. It is sharing your emotions on the most intimate level, a true sign of the affection between two people who love each other.
 
Hi! ;) I could kiss my girlfriend or any girl for hours! hehe My boyfriend or any boy just cannot do it well.

T
 
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