What would you do? I'm a guy who hooked up with another dude?

[brando387]

Yo everyone. I'm 23 and ... bi (?) I guess. Not sure.

I have never actually liked a dude, despite having some good looking guy friends. Always fell for the girls. But I have always been semi curious I guess, and in college I decided to take it a step further. I met an attorney who was bi and he helped me out.

Fast forward to now, I still see him maybe once a month just to get sucked off. He's about 40 and single. Good looking too. I don't really enjoy sucking the D (tried it a few times), or even getting him off by hand (tried way more than a few). I find it kind of.......gross (no offense) but sometimes help him out by hand to return the favor.

I guess what I'm asking is, what do you guys consider me? I wanted to see what backdoor stuff was like so I took it up the back.....didn't hurt, but just not my thing. Kinda blan IMO. I'm the type of guy who has to try everything in order to know. So I'm glad I tried. Not interested in nailing a guy either.

He's a cool dude, kind of like a cool friend I guess. We don't have feelings for each other or anything. Sometimes we go months without talking.

I like pussy as well, so this is where it is conflicting. But sometimes guys really turn me on also....seems like it's more in my head than in real life cause I guess I really only enjoy getting the life sucked out of my dick by him! I won't turn that down, lol. I can get off to a guy pounding me, but in real life, don't really want it. Is this even possible??? Haha! Just feel like w/ guys it's limited since I don't enjoy sucking D and handling a dick, but am happy to get sucked off every now and then.

Otherwise I'm a pretty masc dude who no one suspects has ever done this. Which is cool, I don't really care I grew up in a liberal area.

Thanks for any replies.

 

[palbert]

Welcome to JUB!

Glad you've experimented but you really sound like the gay thing doesn't ring your bells.

How much more will you experiment?

 

[brando387]

Welcome to JUB!

Glad you've experimented but you really sound like the gay thing doesn't ring your bells.

How much more will you experiment?

Thanks. Idk, I mean I'm moving away from where I live now (where the dude is) and this is about 5,000 miles from home so I doubt I will see him too many more times. Maybe a couple. Maybe none. Depends...we haven't spoken in a couple weeks. haha I just feel like if someone is willing to get me off with no drama and strings attached then why the F not?

 

[seven2go]

^ Good for you!
You aren't hurting anyone so exactly........why the F not?!.......

As for "what you are".......you're sexual........and that's all anyone needs to know.......

 

[Hotnhairy]

^ Good for you!
You aren't hurting anyone so exactly........why the F not?!.......

As for "what you are".......you're sexual........and that's all anyone needs to know.......

Well said! Who cares about labels! Be yourself! If you get off with a guy sucking your dick, and you like it, then go for it! Who says you can't have your blowjob and eat your pussy too!

 

[mattad]

Brando it sounds like you enjoy getting head from a guy because we know how to treat the equipment, but overall it seems like you are infatuated with the IDEA of the taboo. It's "naughty" in a way, so it can really get those endorphins kicking when a dude is working over your meat. Next thing I would say to you is, come on over to Atlanta. I would gladly suck you off, and deepthroat you as much as you want, with no reciprocation needed. I was created to suck dick, and the cocks of straight, semi-straight, bi, and curious get my mouth extra hot and wet!

 

[Bi Married Male]

Thanks. Idk, I mean I'm moving away from where I live now (where the dude is) and this is about 5,000 miles from home so I doubt I will see him too many more times. Maybe a couple. Maybe none. Depends...we haven't spoken in a couple weeks. haha I just feel like if someone is willing to get me off with no drama and strings attached then why the F not?

Couldn't agree more with you. You can have the best of both worlds and nobody has to know. Amazingly you are not alone. That's what adult bookstores are for. Those places during the day are crawling with men just like you who only want their dick sucked without reciprocation. I know I service them often. Enjoy!

 

[Bi Married Male]

Here is a guy who is older than you and only likes to get sucked.

http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=8RLQ5-S167-

 

[Bi Married Male]

The next thing you will want is a rim seat and an ass licker..

http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=vYQBG-G684-

 

[troncosoxl]

interesting, i was curious too, and i even try to fuck some guys, but the idea of being fucked never crossed my mind and i dont like to be sucked, well... actually it feels good, but i dont like the idea of kissing her after she was with her lips on my dick, so i avoid to do it. Many people really enjoy having a good oral, sometimes dont even need a penetration, so maybe and just maybe i will follow ur example and let a dude suck my dick (without the kissing of course).

btw, did u try a women sucking u off, or is it only the guys sucking ur dick what turn u on???

 

[bruce379]

hey bro, every guy loves a good blow job. an no one does it better than another dude. are you bi? probably not. straight curious, i'll give you that. i wouldn't lose sleep over it. if someone asks you what you are, just tell them you're straight and leave it at that. if you want to be a little generous, tell them you're bi (i don't think you are though, you're just another dude who loves a blow job from a good cocksucker)

I'm glad you return the favor so to speak. It helps to keep some good cocksuckers in service by reciprocating sometimes or letting them tap you're ass if you're not too bothered by that - btw, it seems irrelevant if someone pounds your ass coz it doesn't really register with you anyway, so i guess it's just a matter of keeping a thing going with a fuck buddy or friends with benefits. as always, just play safe every time and you should be ok.

so, bottom line, if you're ok with the nsa relief provided by some guys, fb or fwb, keep doing it and enjoy it. i wouldn't be too bothered about it. you wouldn't be the only straight guy who appreciates an expert cocksucker. and do update us on how you find another regular friend with benefits

 

[dukemike]

Thanks. Idk, I mean I'm moving away from where I live now (where the dude is) and this is about 5,000 miles from home so I doubt I will see him too many more times. Maybe a couple. Maybe none. Depends...we haven't spoken in a couple weeks. haha I just feel like if someone is willing to get me off with no drama and strings attached then why the F not?

There are plenty of gay guys like me who would be perfectly happy to be your "blow buddy" and suck you off whenever you like, with no need for reciprocation or for me to get off in front of you either.

You don't have to label yourself. If you enjoy having a man suck you off, more power to you and to your cocksucker. I kind of feel jealous of your friend who gets to service your cock when you feel the need to release in a dude's mouth. It's all good in my book!

 

[brando387]

Is it possible to actually be turned on by the taboo aspect of something and not really pursue it in real life?

 

[brando387]

I'll tell you what, I'm gay and when I first started messing around with guys I also though sucking dick was gross, a few more tries and now I love it.

You're probably just bi, and if you're enjoying yourself and being safe that's all that matters.

That's cool but I went on the gallery section of this site and about 8/10 dicks on there were down right repulsive looking! I just dont get it. It could be a hot guy and the dick looks so nasty, I would never even want to touch it. I feel like with girls there are far fewer gross vaginas than there are with guys and their dicks. I'm weird. haha

 

[seven2go]

Is it possible to actually be turned on by the taboo aspect of something and not really pursue it in real life?

Absolutely!
Maybe not the taboo thing so much as "The reality not being nearly as hot as the fantasy".......

 

[brando387]

Absolutely!
Maybe not the taboo thing so much as "The reality not being nearly as hot as the fantasy".......

If I'm understanding right...... yes. That makes sense. What I conjured up in my head was much, much hotter than what it was in real life. I think that's what you meant. If so, I can relate.

I mean don't get me wrong, getting head feels great. I guess the whole experience is hotter in my brain

 

[brando387]

Today I watched some gay porn and fantasized about being a bottom. Why on earth is it so hot in my head but not in real life?!?!?!? Someone???

 

[bruce379]

Today I watched some gay porn and fantasized about being a bottom. Why on earth is it so hot in my head but not in real life?!?!?!? Someone???

Because you haven't found a guy that really turned you on.

I hook up with guys, but sometimes I couldn't even cum because I'm just not into them. But man, I've hooked up with some guys I was really into and we basically fucked for 6 hours with many orgasms in between. And when a cock just fits right, the sex is amazing. I'm not a fan of big cocks if I'm bottoming. They can be long as long as they are not thick. Thick hurts. Sucking big cocks is a different matter though

It reminds me of my friend who met this guy yesterday. 27 y.o. dude and has a girl friend. Straight. But I guess my friend's timing was good because the guy was horny at the time and needed a blow job. Long story short, the guy liked the bj so much he invited my friend to his apartment. They ended up making out and swapping bjs. Since my friend is only 6 inches and not too thick, the guy, in the heat of the moment I guess and curiosity wanted to get fucked. They ended up alternating fucking each other all night long and the guy, needless to say enjoyed a dick up his ass if 5 orgasms all night is any indication.

Try fingering yourself first (put a condom over your fingers and use lube, no bare fingers) and get familiar with the sensations of stretching your hole with two fingers inside. When you are comfortable with it and enjoy it, then plan on taking the real thing. And find a versatile gay guy, not a total top, for your first time.