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Why do black guys like white guys?

MoePhoenix7 said:
You want to know why alot of black guys give you attitude and drama. Because you make foolish and hateful comments regarding them as if all black men are stereotypical troublemakers. Do yourself a favor and turn off the T.V. so you can get a clue.
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Oh trust me I know about black people in general. TV has nothing to do with this, plus I didn't say all black guys are troublemakers. It more of a 50/50 thing some are troublemakers, and others do well for themselves. It's the same other races as well. Some are good, and others are bad.
 
MoePhoenix7 said:
Thank you, I couldn't have wrote it better myself. It's the same thing like me saying that I don't date white guys b/c they are uppity, close-minded, and judgmental. It's not fair to say b/c all or most white guys aren't like that. Just like most black guys are not ghetto, loud and dramatic.
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HOLD UP! Yes I said black people can be annoying. I didn't say all of them just like ghetto all black people are not ghetto. This is not even fair how you all are trying to attack me. What race do you think I am (Check the profile)?
 
MoePhoenix7 said:
Well that makes your comments all the more damaging and troubling b/c you are a black man yourself but yet you generalize your own people like that. You should know better than anyone that it isn't just black guys who are annoying but people in general. But, no, you had to get specific and cast most black guys into one category as ghetto and obnoxious. Not only were you talking about most black guys, but you were talking about yourself also. And it is unfortunate that you view your own race like that. I feel sorry for you.
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I'm sorry but, everyone is going to have a different preferences.
 
marleyisalegend said:
the apology is nice but my hope is that your comments were just worded poorly. if the things you've posted reflect what you truly think of the black community, an apology isn't going to do any good
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Well that wouldn't be right because I have black family, and that is like turning my back on them. Right? So that would pretty hateful if I would say I don't like black people cause my family is black. So yes I guess my words were poorly written.
 
I date a 43 yr old white man, and I can say it has nothing to do with race as with chemistry. Ive dated blacks, asians, and hispanics, and it just so happened that when I dated white guys the relationships lasted longer and seemed more stable.

It wasn't as if I was trying to make the relationship last longer, it's just that with white guys they seemed to be more stable as to what they wanted in a relationship, less needy, and more understanding and accepting of certain things in my life, like the need for solitude at times.

And of all the guys I've dated, only the white guys bought me things on anniversaries, holidays, birthdays, etc. With the black, hispanic, etc it was usually just a greeting and/or card.

So no preference in race, just a preference in cultural attitude.
 
MoePhoenix7 said:
It's fine to have a preference, everyone has preferences. I just had an issue with you saying you don't associate yourself with black guys b/c they are ghetto, annoying and full of drama. That is just like a white person saying they don't associate with black people b/c black people are criminals. It's wrong to say things like that esp. on the internet where countless other ignorant people read things and run off with them. You just have to be careful with the comments you make. They can cause more harm then you think they can. In any case, you are forgiven.
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Thanks! :) For The Record "I would date a black guy but, it all depends on preferences."
 
Martkell2007 said:
I date a 43 yr old white man, and I can say it has nothing to do with race as with chemistry. Ive dated blacks, asians, and hispanics, and it just so happened that when I dated white guys the relationships lasted longer and seemed more stable.

It wasn't as if I was trying to make the relationship last longer, it's just that with white guys they seemed to be more stable as to what they wanted in a relationship, less needy, and more understanding and accepting of certain things in my life, like the need for solitude at times.

And of all the guys I've dated, only the white guys bought me things on anniversaries, holidays, birthdays, etc. With the black, hispanic, etc it was usually just a greeting and/or card.

So no preference in race, just a preference in cultural attitude.
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I Agree on that
 
do you really how backwards it is to say you have no racial preference after saying the blacks and hispanics you dated were cheaper lovers than whites
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I don't judge any black men, I'm just saying that is MY experience. Those black guys didn't cause me to dislike black guys, I just dated a white guy and he turned out to be great, and I havent had to seek another guy to date. Hence, I'm with a white guy.

There are several black guys I think of as dating material, I just don't bother because I'm happily with a white man.
 
MoePhoenix7 said:
Just because they've been scorned by a few cheapskate men of color, they want to give all the rest of us a bad name. I am stable and I know what I want in a relationship. The problem to me sounds like you just have shitty choices in black guys period. You pick the ones who aren't about anything and want to say the rest of us are like that. I give out gifts to my friends on their birthdays and whatnot, so it's apparent you weren't talking about me.
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But everyone is different, I mean your kind to give friends gifts on b-days and other events. Not everyone is like that.
 
Unclean said:
Actually, he was smeared during a very tight political race - he was the moderate democrat running against a white republican. Ford's campaign had played up his religious faith and his support for "family values." Then a tv ad was run in which a blonde white woman said she had met him at the Playboy party after the Superbowl. At the end of the ad, the woman winked and asked Harold to call her. Ford reportedly admitted that he had attended the Superbowl party ("I like football, and I like girls"), but denied having ever been to the Playboy mansion.
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Damn, he looks good.
 
i understand, but the way you wrote your post left the impression that some white guy came along and rescued you from cheap latinos and blacks. seeing that you're from NC, i can almost see where you're coming from. the population of educated, respectable black men in NC is pretty thin. looking for a good black guy in the south is like blindfolding somebody and telling them to find a box of cheerios in the cereal aisle. i have to say i'd agree, in NC it IS hard finding good bruthas. don't write em off though, my first love was a 19 year old brutha who's working to become an engineer for mercedes, he's buying a house this summer and he's one of the most well-spoken guys you'd ever meet. also, to appease my other tastes he had just a lil bit of thug in him, not enough to embarress me in public, but enough to make me feel like i'm with a real man. oh god, thinking about his 10 inch.... wait, what was the question??
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Let me clarify. I haven't mentioned economic status or even referred to it. The black guys who didn't buy me things on special occasions weren't poor, they were just pure thoughtless and inconsiderate.

Does that mean all black guys or even MOST black guys are that way in NC? I don't know, and I'm mature enough to back away from making such statements as "the population of educated, respectable black men in NC is pretty thin. looking for a good black guy in the south is like blindfolding somebody and telling them to find a box of cheerios in the cereal aisle."

What it means is that I dated a couple of black guys and those INDIVIDUALS were not for me. Would I date another black guy? Of course. But why worry about finding a black guy to date when Im with the perfect white man for me.
 
To be more honest, I am a white virgin boy whose always had the fantasy of being made love to by a strong black man who had an amazing body and cock. Will it ever happen? Probably not as I am so used to being a virgin asking anyone out or to have sex with on the first or seventeenth date is ackward. Unless we have dated for a year or more and I know he wont treat me like shit, which has happened in the 4 relationships I have ever had, I would ever have sex. Why I am saying this I have no idea.
 
Nice to hear all the various opinions on this.

Here's my take.

Some people do it because they've got a complex. Some people do it because they are colorblind.

When it comes to black men, the ones I've been around personally that would be interested have been unattractive to me and (mainly) I have nothing in common with them.

That does not mean that I do not get fat hard on's when I see an attractive black man and that I wouldn't jump at the chance to be with a black man, just like with any other race. But I'm colorblind like that. I was raised around diversity. As a black man I do feel I should be with another black man, but that's just years and years of racial stigma bored into ALL of our races that says: "if you're this color, you date people of your color."

To name the topic this instead of "Why do black guys not like other black guys?" or something along those lines connects to some age old shit and it's going to bring up arguments that are going to go way past the topic question. Please refrain from trying to open wounds that are as healed as they're going to be.

Think about your wording next time if this was not your intention.

My 2 pence.
 
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