marleyislegend, more like marley-is-hypocrite. I can't believe how defensive you're getting about racial discrimination (making up this discrimination in some instances) and then turn around and discriminate based on gender, or based on what area/state a person lives in, to name a few. Why are THOSE discriminations more acceptable than racial ones? Why does it make it better to say "men are annoying" as opposed to "black men are annoying"? That's discrimination against men, so we'll say "people are annoying," but oh no - that's discrimination against people so we'll say "animals are annoying," but now we have to say "living things are annoying," but now it's "matter is annoying." Isn't it a little ridiculous. I'll tell you why it's necessary to say "black men are annoying." : Unless someone goes out of their way to say "EVERY SINGLE MEMBER OF THIS GROUP IS LIKE THIS" then they probably don't mean it. There are a number of people in this thread of have wrote about their PERSONAL experiences, only for you to flame them that they are insinuating that all members of the group are like that.
I think you should stop trying to make trouble where there isn't any. It's one thing to have a discussion about the discrimination of black men (or any "group") but it's quite another to attack people when you either misinterpret what they are trying to say, or take it completely out of context. Why don't you take your obsession with racial discrimination to another thread, because this thread isn't about that - it's about discussing the trend of black men dating men outside their race.
And just because you've got me all worked up, I'd like to post a little anti-American discriminatory rant directed at you. Why the fuck are Americans so goddamned state-orientated? Northerners and Southerners tend to hate each other, and so many Americans discriminate against people of other states. I find it to be absolutely ridiculous. But, when someone pointed out that you were discriminating, you said
no, i said it's hard finding decent black guys to date in north carolina. if you disagree with me i'll invite you to take a walk down beatties ford road, or across the street from my apartment, let's stroll through grier town. or go to the wall and count the guys who sag their pants, can't put a sentence together, and brag about their criminal careers vs. the guys who are well-educated and have something going for themselves
I ask you: how is that any different than what you're bitching at everyone else for doing? You're even discriminating against black people yourself!
It just frustrates me how you refuse to have a clean discussion about the reason that (NOT ALL) black guys date white guys. How is it that the title of the thread would suddenly be A-OK if it were phrased "Why do black guys not date other black guys?" I agree that it would be BETTER, as it is a more general topic, but why is this title WRONG and the other one RIGHT? They are both essentially saying the same thing, although worded poorly.
I tried not to outward direct my last post to you, but you seem to ignore it completely so I felt I had no choice. Maybe you'll acknowledge it this time?
