Why do gay guys tolerate straight guys, but straight girls don't tolerate gay guys in the same capacity?

[chrisdobro]

can you explain to me

* why is it okay when straight discreet guys who share nothing (no photo, etc.) message gay guys (like me) and EXPECT me to suck their cock for nothing in return. And at the same time, act like a brazen entitled asshole. And while I may dislike that approach and ultimately not suck their cock, they will find someone who will do it for them quite happily, despite them being discreet, married, having no photo to share, and in general, difficult to deal with.

* at the same time, it is NOT acceptable for a gay guy (like me) to post a message on a board asking to have an experience a STRAIGHT girl. Even if such posts are tolerated, the GIRLS who read those posts will want to NOTHING to do with the gay guys?


To drive the point home, if I post on Craigslist saying "Straight guy seeks blow job", I will get tons of replies, even if I am not all attractive.
If I post on craigslist saying "Gay guy seeks girl", provided I don't get my posting flagged off, I won't get any replies to that
(example: If you post stuff like "Gay male seeks female.." its not going to go over well)

 

[luckynumbah7]

can you explain to me

* why is it okay when straight discreet guys who share nothing (no photo, etc.) message gay guys (like me) and EXPECT me to suck their cock for nothing in return. And at the same time, act like a brazen entitled asshole. And while I may dislike that approach and ultimately not suck their cock, they will find someone who will do it for them quite happily, despite them being discreet, married, having no photo to share, and in general, difficult to deal with.

* at the same time, it is NOT acceptable for a gay guy (like me) to post a message on a board asking to have an experience a STRAIGHT girl. Even if such posts are tolerated, the GIRLS who read those posts will want to NOTHING to do with the gay guys?


To drive the point home, if I post on Craigslist saying "Straight guy seeks blow job", I will get tons of replies, even if I am not all attractive.
If I post on craigslist saying "Gay guy seeks girl", provided I don't get my posting flagged off, I won't get any replies to that
(example: If you post stuff like "Gay male seeks female.." its not going to go over well)

At a guess, it's because the straight girls have more self respect. Most people have no interesting in sex with someone that, by definition, probably won't find them attractive.

 

[Corny]

Chris, you seriously need to stop going to craiglist. Just have a look at your previous threads here. Is it really worth that trouble?

 

[palbert]

Because that's the way things are, especially on something like craigslist.

 

[spooky]

Well why not just post... guy seeks female for blowjob, is it really that important that you put the gay label on there?

 

[luckynumbah7]

Well why not just post... guy seeks female for blowjob, is it really that important that you put the gay label on there?

Yeah, he'd prolly have better luck with that. People on craigslist generally don't give two shits about identity when doing nsa or fwb. I've had conversations containin' identity - they don't care.

It does matter if you want responses to your ad, though. Put gay in the title and little to no straight womans' gonna touch it.

 

[MatttheBruinsfan]

There's also the matter that apparently there are about 12 spammers hawking pay websites for every legitimate woman posting to craigslist. At least if you're looking for a guy there, you've got a good chance of one actually being at the other end of the e-mail connection.

I'd say if you're looking for a woman, try Match.com or OKCupid.

 

[sumyungguy]

can you explain to me

* why is it okay when straight discreet guys who share nothing (no photo, etc.) message gay guys (like me) and EXPECT me to suck their cock for nothing in return. And at the same time, act like a brazen entitled asshole. And while I may dislike that approach and ultimately not suck their cock, they will find someone who will do it for them quite happily, despite them being discreet, married, having no photo to share, and in general, difficult to deal with.

* at the same time, it is NOT acceptable for a gay guy (like me) to post a message on a board asking to have an experience a STRAIGHT girl. Even if such posts are tolerated, the GIRLS who read those posts will want to NOTHING to do with the gay guys?


To drive the point home, if I post on Craigslist saying "Straight guy seeks blow job", I will get tons of replies, even if I am not all attractive.
If I post on craigslist saying "Gay guy seeks girl", provided I don't get my posting flagged off, I won't get any replies to that
(example: If you post stuff like "Gay male seeks female.." its not going to go over well)

Craigslist is the first answer to your problem. If you thought that was the right avenue then take into account the many murders that are affiliated with that site. That alone was enough to scare most women off of online dating/casual encounters. Bottom line is you're a complete stranger, gay or straight, and having the audacity to ask for casual sex will turn most women off, in fact that's probably a guarantee. Unlike men, women (unless they have some type of anti-social behavior or they look like dogs) won't have a hard time getting sex. If they aren't women of the night, you won't find anything better. Expect to pay if you do get lucky .

Secondly, this shouldn't be surprising to you. You said you were gay, you put that in your ad, so why should a woman have interest in "meeting" with a gay man (especially if she has all these straight men that claim that they are willing and able to do anything to get them off)? Sounds a little contradictory, right?

 

[medic1]

Chris, you seriously need to stop going to craiglist. Just have a look at your previous threads here. Is it really worth that trouble?

And your health?

 

[palbert]

There's also the matter that apparently there are about 12 spammers hawking pay websites for every legitimate woman posting to craigslist. At least if you're looking for a guy there, you've got a good chance of one actually being at the other end of the e-mail connection.

I'd say if you're looking for a woman, try Match.com or OKCupid.

Or Christian Mingle.