Would this embarass you?

[SilverRRCloud]

Yeah, your roomie was kinda very insensitive.

I'd never go around identifying other people's sexual orientation. It is none my friggin business, is it?

If you wanted to come out to your ole school mate, you would do that, rite?

Tell your roomie to watch his mouth next time around.

SC

 

[justsimon]

I don't think I'd care... unless I'd specifically asked my housemate not to tell others.

 

[ari25]

Throw it back in his face and say something about having to live with a straight guy.

 

[Homoerectus]

If it happens again, say, "Yeah, and you know you love living with me. Look at all the benefits you have. You can have sex even when Sheila is having her period. "

 

[LeoMikey]

The way that you were outed would be embarassing, that was really out of line. You should have given your roomate a good swift kick in his happy place. Even if you were'nt embarassed, your old high school friend was made to feel uncomfortable. At least he was polite enough to ignore the comment! I hope you told your roomate how rude that was, it should be up to YOU when and how you want people to know you're gay. Maybe you can tell the next girl he tries to pick up that he has a tiny dick, or maybe crabs. I know how you feel, i was once outed in a not so pleasent manner. My family, as well as grandparents, were at a really nice restaurant celebrating my 18th birthday. All was going well until i saw a guy from my school that i HATED come in with his family! I was hoping he would'nt see me, but he did. He waved and yelled my name, so of course my dad waves him & his family over! This kid was a rich, obnoxious straight jock who was very loud and immature, but he was acting like we were buddies just to piss me off. Then he blurts out "Did you know your son takes it up the ass? Oh yeah, he asked to suck me off lots of times! I guess his girlfriend does'nt mind." And he was loud enough that most of the people there were staring at our table. I should have beat him sensless, but i just got up and walked to the car. His father dragged him outside and they promptly left. My family was upset, but they did'nt believe what he said anyhow, since i looked and acted as straight as i could manage. What's weird is this kid was just being an asshole, he had no idea i was really gay, i did have girlfriends. I think he was also pissed that i was dating a girl he wanted. The sad part is, he was really hot and i would have loved to have fucked his brains out, too bad he was such an anal drip.

 

[Lostlover]

Depends if I wanted that high school buddy to know or not.

 

[JakeBequette]

Hmm it would depend on who it was said to.​

 

[Pegasus69]

I say forget about it and move on. Then again, if you have read any of my posts or my blogs then you know that I have a very simple look at life and the events it tosses our way. I just recently heard from a cousin of mine who I had not seen or heard from since my mother passed away more than 11 years ago. My sister forwarded some pictures from said cousin's daughters wedding. I sent a short email congratulating her and how pretty the bride was, you know, the polite stuff. Well, she wrote back asking what I had been up to and that sort of stuff. I explained my current and ever fluid medical issues. She wanted to know if I had a wife or girlfriend there for me. I said no, that would never be a possibility for me, since I am gay. Reminded her of the young man that was with me when my mom died, and informed that he was my partner at the time. Hacen't heard back from her, and not really surprised. My father's family is the picture you would see of the strict roman catholic families one thinks of. I am sure that I am the talk of the remaining family on his side. Don't really care what they think, I also don't care of who may out me to anyone else. I don't wear my gayness on my sleeve, unless it is my t-shirt that says "I want to be Martha Stewart, the bitch can do anything!" The only opinion that matters to me is the one I have of myself, and to be honest, it is pretty fucking good.